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"I get what you're saying but if you think about it, that means guy's can't win. I've seen men berated on here for saying they like slender women "What's wrong with bigger women then? What about a real woman?". For saying they like bigger "real" women " Don't you know slim women can have curves too?". And then when they say they genuinely don't have a type, they get berated for being "desperate". " This is one of the reasons I asked the question because I wanted to try and understand them a bit more lol x | |||
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"No. If I want to fuck him and he wants to fuck me I don't care what his 'type' is. " This. 
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"I am not sure if it's just me but does any of your hearts sink when you are chatting to a guy and then he says "I don't have a type"? Maybe it's in my head but my automatic thought is "he isn't fussy who he fucks, he just wants to fuck anything?" It's just such a loaded question - no wonder dudes just withdraw and try to be diplomatic by saying something like "oh, I don't have a 'type'...". Don't read in to stuff in the worst light possible! While reading between the lines, he probably means he is attracted to all types of ladies but to me in comes across a little "you have a vagina, doesn't matter about anything else". Just a question for a chilly Saturday! "  | |||
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"No. If I want to fuck him and he wants to fuck me I don't care what his 'type' is. " im up for this???? | |||
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"I think you are onto something. Whatever they say, all men have a 'type' they prefer, although this doesn't mean they cant be genuinely attracted to others who don't match this." Exactly. I think if men want to specify what type of woman they want, then they should put it in their profile, after all, isn’t that what they are for? Some men genuinely don’t have a type, they are more broad minded and might find a woman attractive based on personality and physical combined. I am not particularly attracted to muscly men, but I have met one or two in the past who had amazing personalities, and that changes things a lot! So maybe what guys say on some profiles is genuinely true, while some guys just want anything they can get! It’s a minefield  | |||
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"We can’t win whatever we say. I can hand on heart say I don’t have a ‘type’. My long term partners and have been polar opposites. From taller than me, to tiny. From a size 6, to a size 26. I kinda get a bit down when that’s seen as “he’s and any holes a goal” type. When it couldn’t be any further from the truth. I consider myself to be quite fussy. " This comment is VERY refreshing, I wish more men saw us like you do! | |||
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"I think everyone has a type but some people's type doesn't depend on a person's physiology which on a site where initial interaction is based on pictures must be difficult. We all interpret people's words through our own opinions and insecurities. I tend to avoid people who say they don't have a type because of how I feel about the phrase. " This is my thoughts too but reading further up, I could have missed out on some amazing meets but that said, maybe it's just the way my head thinks but I'd probably be thinking the whole time "he doesn't find me attractive"...it's a vicious cycle and must be something wrong with me  | |||
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"Yeah. “I don’t have a type”, “I’ll do anything” “anyone want their pussy licked” etc etc. No thanks. Men it’s ok to like slim women, fat women, tall women, short women, dark women, blonde women. Anyone takes offence that’s their issue. Just perhaps refrain from the phrase “real woman”. " You're an unreal woman Nora | |||
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"I think everyone has a type but some people's type doesn't depend on a person's physiology which on a site where initial interaction is based on pictures must be difficult. We all interpret people's words through our own opinions and insecurities. I tend to avoid people who say they don't have a type because of how I feel about the phrase. This is my thoughts too but reading further up, I could have missed out on some amazing meets but that said, maybe it's just the way my head thinks but I'd probably be thinking the whole time "he doesn't find me attractive"...it's a vicious cycle and must be something wrong with me "I think that it's pointless regretting meets you've turned down . It's better not to meet people you have doubts about whether your doubts are valid or not | |||
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"I am not sure if it's just me but does any of your hearts sink when you are chatting to a guy and then he says "I don't have a type"? Maybe it's in my head but my automatic thought is "he isn't fussy who he fucks, he just wants to fuck anything?" While reading between the lines, he probably means he is attracted to all types of ladies but to me in comes across a little "you have a vagina, doesn't matter about anything else". Just a question for a chilly Saturday! " I think the bigger sign that a lot of men on here will fuck anything with a vagina is when you first sign up. When I re-joined, before I got around to adding any photos, including a profile photo, or writing my profile I was inundated by messages. In my first 8 hours I had nearly 200 messages. Yet had no pic, or text at all. Can be quite intimidating if you were a real newbie here. I do think a lot of guys dont have a "type" purely because any hole is a goal. Although I do think some guys dont have a specific type either. Its a minefield | |||
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"I think everyone has a type but some people's type doesn't depend on a person's physiology which on a site where initial interaction is based on pictures must be difficult. We all interpret people's words through our own opinions and insecurities. I tend to avoid people who say they don't have a type because of how I feel about the phrase. This is my thoughts too but reading further up, I could have missed out on some amazing meets but that said, maybe it's just the way my head thinks but I'd probably be thinking the whole time "he doesn't find me attractive"...it's a vicious cycle and must be something wrong with me "If his willy is hard he just like something lol | |||
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"Yeah. “I don’t have a type”, “I’ll do anything” “anyone want their pussy licked” etc etc. No thanks. Men it’s ok to like slim women, fat women, tall women, short women, dark women, blonde women. Anyone takes offence that’s their issue. Just perhaps refrain from the phrase “real woman”. You're an unreal woman Nora "Offence taken | |||
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"As long as I don't have to sign a collision waver and take out an anti squash policy I don't mind at all "That's pretty rude tbh | |||
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"I think everyone has a type but some people's type doesn't depend on a person's physiology which on a site where initial interaction is based on pictures must be difficult. We all interpret people's words through our own opinions and insecurities. I tend to avoid people who say they don't have a type because of how I feel about the phrase. This is my thoughts too but reading further up, I could have missed out on some amazing meets but that said, maybe it's just the way my head thinks but I'd probably be thinking the whole time "he doesn't find me attractive"...it's a vicious cycle and must be something wrong with me
I think that it's pointless regretting meets you've turned down . It's better not to meet people you have doubts about whether your doubts are valid or not "Oh I never think about them, in my head I look at my phone, delete the message and move on, I sometimes go out loud "well he was far too hot to be speaking to me anyway" | |||
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"As long as I don't have to sign a collision waver and take out an anti squash policy I don't mind at all "Do your lovers have to take one out? Lol | |||
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"As long as I don't have to sign a collision waver and take out an anti squash policy I don't mind at all
Do your lovers have to take one out? Lol " | |||
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"We can’t win whatever we say. I can hand on heart say I don’t have a ‘type’. My long term partners and have been polar opposites. From taller than me, to tiny. From a size 6, to a size 26. I kinda get a bit down when that’s seen as “he’s and any holes a goal” type. When it couldn’t be any further from the truth. I consider myself to be quite fussy. " Came here to say pretty much exactly this. I very definitely *do not* "have a type". I am also actually pretty picky. The "No, everyone has a type" and "Pah, to men, any hole's a goal" attitudes on here have actually made me reluctant to express any specific desires on here, to prevent them just being used as ammunition. | |||
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"I am not sure if it's just me but does any of your hearts sink when you are chatting to a guy and then he says "I don't have a type"? Maybe it's in my head but my automatic thought is "he isn't fussy who he fucks, he just wants to fuck anything?" While reading between the lines, he probably means he is attracted to all types of ladies but to me in comes across a little "you have a vagina, doesn't matter about anything else". Just a question for a chilly Saturday! " Hello . I like all types of girls bodies , there are here slim girls I fancy , petite ladies , average , curvy , BBW , ssbbw . It doesn’t mean I’m not fussy . It doesn’t mean I would sleep with anyone . It doesn’t mean I would shag anything I just want to fuck . No . It doesn’t mean that . It means : “ I like you , don’t worry about if you not skinny enough or not curvy enough . I like them all anyway . Now if u came in arrogant and cruel and ignorant ? That is a straight off putting . Can be the most beautiful It means : “ as long you a sweetheart and would like to get naughty with me , don’t worry . If I wouldn’t fancy you I wouldn’t be chatting you “ I know ladies have confrontations with confidence . Ladies always think they not good enough . Specially if u mention a FFM . Boom xx u in trouble now . Cause she is not good enough , she is boring not sexy. Bla bla bla . Is not true . Is not like that at all . I understand , I know I’m not Mr Universe . I am what i am . Some love me others can’t stand me . Marmite effect . Body attraction is seriously important . But more is the face … And before all that ? is your sweetness x Your heart . My real type is a sweetheart . As naughty as possible yes . I’m lovely n very naughty. That is my real type …. If she cames in a shape of a slim lady or in a shape of a BBW … doesn’t matter . Red hards x brunettes x blondes . Yes I do . I like do like them all . That’s what it means …. I know I give the thought I’m just a desperate who just wants a shag and would shag anything … that is not true … I function with chemistry , sweetness …. but I understand … As they say : “ All Angels help to pull you down “ I like them all and I’m proud of it and I shout it out loud and I’m proud of it . ;) so yeah …. maybe not alwqys that’s what it means 
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"I get what you're saying but if you think about it, that means guy's can't win. I've seen men berated on here for saying they like slender women "What's wrong with bigger women then? What about a real woman?". For saying they like bigger "real" women " Don't you know slim women can have curves too?". And then when they say they genuinely don't have a type, they get berated for being "desperate". " “All angels help to fall “ | |||
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"Even if they say on their profile that they're "not fussy" immediate turn off." I wouldn’t feel very appreciated either . | |||
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"I'd generally agree with you. It's a bit like people who say they like all music, it's highly unlikely to be true. There's another element to having a type for sex vs a relationship. People generally don't want to have a relationship with someone who lives a negative self destructive lifestyle, but that doesn't mean they aren't attracted to someone who is larger. If you sit on the sofa every day eating multi packs of crisps and tubs of ice cream, you might still be appealing from a physical perspective to someone and have mutual sexual compatibility, but they'd probably not want a relationship with that person because of their negative life style. " Yeah that's why I say I like many types of music and not all music. I wonder if there's a correlation between people who like many body types and many types of music and those that have a defined type, are they fixed on one genre of music too. | |||
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"I'd generally agree with you. It's a bit like people who say they like all music, it's highly unlikely to be true. There's another element to having a type for sex vs a relationship. People generally don't want to have a relationship with someone who lives a negative self destructive lifestyle, but that doesn't mean they aren't attracted to someone who is larger. If you sit on the sofa every day eating multi packs of crisps and tubs of ice cream, you might still be appealing from a physical perspective to someone and have mutual sexual compatibility, but they'd probably not want a relationship with that person because of their negative life style. Yeah that's why I say I like many types of music and not all music. I wonder if there's a correlation between people who like many body types and many types of music and those that have a defined type, are they fixed on one genre of music too. " I get this, when you can appreciate many things for many reasons you’re never short of anything to listen to I hear ya  | |||
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"I am not sure if it's just me but does any of your hearts sink when you are chatting to a guy and then he says "I don't have a type"? Maybe it's in my head but my automatic thought is "he isn't fussy who he fucks, he just wants to fuck anything?" While reading between the lines, he probably means he is attracted to all types of ladies but to me in comes across a little "you have a vagina, doesn't matter about anything else". Just a question for a chilly Saturday! Hello . I like all types of girls bodies , there are here slim girls I fancy , petite ladies , average , curvy , BBW , ssbbw . It doesn’t mean I’m not fussy . It doesn’t mean I would sleep with anyone . It doesn’t mean I would shag anything I just want to fuck . No . It doesn’t mean that . It means : “ I like you , don’t worry about if you not skinny enough or not curvy enough . I like them all anyway . Now if u came in arrogant and cruel and ignorant ? That is a straight off putting . Can be the most beautiful It means : “ as long you a sweetheart and would like to get naughty with me , don’t worry . If I wouldn’t fancy you I wouldn’t be chatting you “ I know ladies have confrontations with confidence . Ladies always think they not good enough . Specially if u mention a FFM . Boom xx u in trouble now . Cause she is not good enough , she is boring not sexy. Bla bla bla . Is not true . Is not like that at all . I understand , I know I’m not Mr Universe . I am what i am . Some love me others can’t stand me . Marmite effect . Body attraction is seriously important . But more is the face … And before all that ? is your sweetness x Your heart . My real type is a sweetheart . As naughty as possible yes . I’m lovely n very naughty. That is my real type …. If she cames in a shape of a slim lady or in a shape of a BBW … doesn’t matter . Red hards x brunettes x blondes . Yes I do . I like do like them all . That’s what it means …. I know I give the thought I’m just a desperate who just wants a shag and would shag anything … that is not true … I function with chemistry , sweetness …. but I understand … As they say : “ All Angels help to pull you down “ I like them all and I’m proud of it and I shout it out loud and I’m proud of it . ;) so yeah …. maybe not alwqys that’s what it means
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as long as she moves...
I definitely have preferences... and its more about connection for me.
And I can't see myself with skinny girl...dont find them physically attractive.probably too afraid to smother them too | |||
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