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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?

I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish

Would I be a disappointment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd disappoint me going for hours to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'd disappoint me going for hours to be honest. "

Hours is a bit of a stretch

I'm not that fit lol

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week

I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum

If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I love making guys cum but I also love fucking for hours

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?

I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish

Would I be a disappointment? "

Hell no

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i just love to cum,,

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week

I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum

If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted "

That's a kinda sad view of what's supposed to be an enjoyable activity

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Probably less so if I knew it was due to meds but yeah, I'd hate missing out on the cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer - yes!

I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer - yes!

I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours. "

Could I come twice in the first ten minutes and get it over with?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't be disappointed. I wouldn't want you to go on for hours though so we'd need to reach a compromise.

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

It does a little but only because I’d be worried in my own head I hadn’t satisfied them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid the meds before sex

Problem resolved, your welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer - yes!

I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours.

Could I come twice in the first ten minutes and get it over with? "

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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It does a little but only because I’d be worried in my own head I hadn’t satisfied them "

That's my issue aswell,I don't want people to think it's their fault. Even my partner got a little upset at first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Avoid the meds before sex

Problem resolved, your welcome "

Yeah I don't think that's how it works lol

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford


"Avoid the meds before sex

Problem resolved, your welcome "

I’d say don’t do this at all meds are there for a reason and even if you did swerve it for a session it’s likely it’s still in your system any way…. Or was you jesting hmmm

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No it wouldn't disappoint. Especially if I knew beforehand.

I don't always climax and if that disappoints a bloke ..... he's allowed that feeling though it won't bother me.

There are so many ways of enjoying a good sex session and of ensuring those that want to orgasm can do ....

A good seeing to has it's place it's not essential nor is it the be all and end all.

It's more important to me to know that my 'partner' ( who ever that may be ) feels good and enjoyed what took place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it wouldn't disappoint. Especially if I knew beforehand.

I don't always climax and if that disappoints a bloke ..... he's allowed that feeling though it won't bother me.

There are so many ways of enjoying a good sex session and of ensuring those that want to orgasm can do ....

A good seeing to has it's place it's not essential nor is it the be all and end all.

It's more important to me to know that my 'partner' ( who ever that may be ) feels good and enjoyed what took place. "

^^^ agreed

So long as I knew what to expect or not expect. It's only fair not to leave a partner wondering and questioning your enjoyment and satisfaction with them

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, not really. As long as I've had a good time.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Does it bother you when a man doesn't finish?

I've recently started taking new meds for my anxiety and now I can go for hours but I give up out of exhaustion rather than finish

Would I be a disappointment? "
as I'm only on fab for bukkake gangbang play.. yeah for me it would be a disappointment.. however if I was playing 121 it would be less of an issue but that's not what I'm here for x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Yes, I’d be disappointed. If the guy doesn’t cum within an hour, I’d just leave it. My attention span can’t cope haha.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

If I’m honest, yes. I love that part of it. Although I would never show disappointment or say anything as wouldn’t want to hurt any feelings or make someone feel bad. I would also rather be told beforehand that this could be the case.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

My Mrs has no desire for me to cum, mainly due to post nut comedown and its not something I am particularly fussed about. She enjoys the feeling of a cock in her, not the end result. In fact she prefers to play with guys who won't cum.

I think it's a very individual thing though, as demonstrated here, for some women it's a fundamental reason to have sex.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It would bother me unless we have a conversation and so I was aware. I might be trying to help you finish and feel it's only fair if we both orgasm, but if I know that it's harder for you, or you don't want to or it's unlikely to happen then I would be fine about it. Communication is key

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By *r SteelhammerMan
over a year ago

belfast

I like to make the girl cum before myself it's rude not to but anyone want to go for hours it will save me knocking six out a day

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

Not at all. What would disappoint or upset me is if the guy was dissatisfied.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Honest answer - yes!

I love having sex for hours but the man would need to cum once,twice maybe more in those hours.

Could I come twice in the first ten minutes and get it over with? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this about that shelf you've been waiting ages for?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Is this about that shelf you've been waiting ages for?"

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I come with my own shelf

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Yes, my husband & I were talking about this last week

I'm a bareback lady, a guy shooting inside me is where I get my enjoyment from & is usually what triggers me to cum

If he doesn't cum, nor will & so both our times will have been wasted

That's a kinda sad view of what's supposed to be an enjoyable activity "

But it's the cum I enjoy, I can forgo the sex, to me the most enjoyable bit is them cumming, that the bit I look forward to, that's what usually makes me cum

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No but I would prefer to know in advance what to expect.

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