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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

After some advice or help

Recently had two meets arranged with two ladies in the Uk both Cancelled due to me not having been verified, but I see some men/women join and instantly get verified without meeting so what do people do ?

Call and speak, FaceTime and speak or is there other ways

Any suggestions or help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tend to find that those people that get verified instantly, are returning members being verified by people they met previously.

If you had meets arranged and they’ve been cancelled for that reason, I’d say it was highly unlikely they were ever going to turn up. Or if they we even women.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I suspect those "ladies" may not have been "ladies". Obviously you must talk to each other on the phone before you try and meet. Do some basic checking.

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate

Two main options...

1) Go on cam in the Chat Rooms and ask someone to verify you in there

2) Look at the MEETS, EVENTS section and sign up and attend your local Social - the organiser and maybe even potential new friends will certainly verify you.

Hope that helps!

Gary

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

So they arranged to meet you and then changed their mind because you're not verified?

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

Thank you for the advice it helps indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up UpTheBrum social. Holding one in Worcester this month x

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys


"After some advice or help

Recently had two meets arranged with two ladies in the Uk both Cancelled due to me not having been verified, but I see some men/women join and instantly get verified without meeting so what do people do ?

Call and speak, FaceTime and speak or is there other ways

Any suggestions or help"

Socials are definitely a valid strat for single guys to get initial veris

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

I was thinking that far too many wasting peoples time thanks for reply

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

I was thinking that far too many wasting peoples time thanks for reply

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

When you see a Lady who joins and gets a meet verification 6 minutes later, it's probably a Man who's created a "Single Female" profile and verified the profile himself.

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

Thank you

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

Yes well one did other made an excuse but my photo is verified but I had no verification after 12 months plus on the site so she eventually pulled out I even suggested a FaceTime call then a social so perhaps she was fake

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london


"When you see a Lady who joins and gets a meet verification 6 minutes later, it's probably a Man who's created a "Single Female" profile and verified the profile himself."

I don’t understand people that do this, what the hell do they expect to get out of it?

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

Blimey …..I’ve been a doctor too long

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys


"When you see a Lady who joins and gets a meet verification 6 minutes later, it's probably a Man who's created a "Single Female" profile and verified the profile himself.

I don’t understand people that do this, what the hell do they expect to get out of it?"

If its possible it cheats the whole 'will only meet verified members' bit...

I thought unverified members couldn't verify others though?

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By *weedeldumbCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Leeds & Harrogate


"When you see a Lady who joins and gets a meet verification 6 minutes later, it's probably a Man who's created a "Single Female" profile and verified the profile himself."

Its not even that sometimes. A lady we met on here told us she first got sent a verification by a man simply sending his number. That was the whole veri - just his number.

They're trying to be inventive to beat the very stiff (pun intended) competition.

She did reject it of course

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By *oc1982 OP   Man
over a year ago

Hanbury

Thanks I will

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"When you see a Lady who joins and gets a meet verification 6 minutes later, it's probably a Man who's created a "Single Female" profile and verified the profile himself.

I don’t understand people that do this, what the hell do they expect to get out of it?"

Sexual kicks when they get messages, it's nothing new unfortunately.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Thanks I will "

If you click "reply +quote" we can see who you're replying to"

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"After some advice or help

Recently had two meets arranged with two ladies in the Uk both Cancelled due to me not having been verified, but I see some men/women join and instantly get verified without meeting so what do people do ?

Call and speak, FaceTime and speak or is there other ways

Any suggestions or help"

I would suggest if you got to the point where you've arranged a meet and then they've pull out because you haven't got a verification it's not the lack of verification that's the real reason. People pull out of meets all the time. Sometimes a change of mind, sometimes things have come up, sometimes they've had a better offer. People are rarely up front and often look for polite excuses. You not having veri is a natural excuse to use. But I'm sure in reality they knew this from start and they still made plans with you. Not having a verification is by far not that big a barrier. We all start off the same without one and we still get there. Plus verifications don't mean a lot and lots of us just don't really do verification. So I would just concentrate on everything else and not worry about the verifications.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering the same myself. Will try and get a cam chat going one evening. Though tbh I have chatted a few times on messages so could ask friends to verify I guess?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"After some advice or help

Recently had two meets arranged with two ladies in the Uk both Cancelled due to me not having been verified, but I see some men/women join and instantly get verified without meeting so what do people do ?

Call and speak, FaceTime and speak or is there other ways

Any suggestions or help"
some people don't need veris or require them in return, just move onto the next

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Almost certainly fake.

Why would you arrange and then say no because you checked veris.

You do your due diligence before arranging a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering the same myself. Will try and get a cam chat going one evening. Though tbh I have chatted a few times on messages so could ask friends to verify I guess? "

Only if you have actually met, otherwise it makes a mockery of the process

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