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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't

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over a year ago

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not a chance in hell!!!

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By *istress ValeporcaCouple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

no, look what happpened when you turned up wearing a burka Bob lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No in a word

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By *vana sukalotWoman
over a year ago

In a land of make believe (Derby)

No way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, there are enough nutters here, without going in blind, besides for me I have to fancy someone to meet them.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"no, look what happpened when you turned up wearing a burka Bob lol x "

lol hey you. That was your pants you put them on my head..and no you are not having them back

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not a good idea. All too easy for someone to describe themselves as extremely sexy and turning up looking like an aged wreck. Not a good thing for either of you

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I have done once, but we had been chatting online for aggggges and we were only meeting socially whilst he was visiting the area.

He was (and still is I hasten to add in case he reads this) bleedin' gorgeous.....

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Nope

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

no.................

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Like your sense of humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

eh .. attach a face pic to a message !

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Like your sense of humour!

But all true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, never , never. Have you ever seen that episode of the office when he's waiting for his blind date?

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

eh .. attach a face pic to a message !

If I'm not going to see them why should I

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

Absolutely not - ever.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Like your sense of humour!

But all true

I know! I read your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Like your sense of humour!

But all true

I know! I read your profile!

looks are nice but person is more important anyway

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

actually i did meet a guy without having seen him before about 2 month ago .. had been chatting to him for ova a year and happened to be up newcastle so text him to meet up .. it wasnt till i was in the pub waiting to meet him till the penny dropped that i didnt actually know wot he looked like .. doh !!

he was however a delight so disaster averted !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

well I'm glad you all agree I thought it was just me being fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met Kate on a blind date. That was 32yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a few "blind" meets, but only for social meet though.

It's no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done but experience has taught me not to again

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

No pic not meet for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I saw mystery meet, I thought this was going to be a thread about kebabs, but that would have been mystery 'meat' - silly me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few times , it adds a little excitement .

We have also found in the past that the camera can indeed lie .

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We did and it turned out to be one of our best meet's

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?

well I'm glad you all agree I thought it was just me being fussy

It's not fussy at all, I would never meet if I hadn't seen them and liked what I saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would u know them?

red carnation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as a single female safety first!

I always ensure I see them on cam or various pics to ensure they are genuine.

I've heard stories of guys doing this and then turning up to the meeting point and the lovely lady they expected turned out to a big hairy biker

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"No as a single female safety first!

I always ensure I see them on cam or various pics to ensure they are genuine.

I've heard stories of guys doing this and then turning up to the meeting point and the lovely lady they expected turned out to a big hairy biker

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Can see where you are coming from. On the occasions where I did not have a face picture I had spoken to them on the phone though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Met Kate on a blind date. That was 32yrs ago

Is that why you are wearing dark glasses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

Not in a million years

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How would u know them?

red carnation?"

Stonking huge hardon

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have done but experience has taught me not to again "

Yeah well....sorry

Ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never.

I get abuse when I say no thanks after seeing a picture so can only imagine how some men may react to a no in person. Not worth the risk for me I'm afraid.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not. "

How about if I gently suck said thumb

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By *awty nannaWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

I have done, met a guy from another site, had been chatting to him for a long time, was his humour that did it for me, and three and a bit years later we still meet for mutual fun,,,,,

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

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You just have such a way with.... thumbs

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Had to look at your profile and now amused!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm is personality enough to prompt a meet should be the real question.

I wouldn't not meet due to lack of picture however I would only meet socially with a definite no to more than that.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

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Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I do it all the time do not see another way of doing it

Had to look at your profile and now amused!!

Be here all week

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

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Now that sounds like a real man at work

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

Now that sounds like a real man at work

It's not how fast you can get to where you are going its as much about the journey

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

Now that sounds like a real man at work

It's not how fast you can get to where you are going its as much about the journey

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Actua;;y I was teasing earlier and I quite agree with you. Goes along the lines of teh other thread. I take my time in getting to know people before I decide whether I want to meet them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

Yes but only in a place with a back exit where I can have a friend waiting in a car with the engine running.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

Now that sounds like a real man at work

It's not how fast you can get to where you are going its as much about the journey

Actua;;y I was teasing earlier and I quite agree with you. Goes along the lines of teh other thread. I take my time in getting to know people before I decide whether I want to meet them or not.

All sounds rather delightful to me

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Have done it a few tones with the same guy but wouldn't do it again. Not because anything bad happened, the guy was very nice, followed the rules and even brought my keys in as I had left them in the door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never meet a gent without seeing his face pic first.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

Now that sounds like a real man at work

It's not how fast you can get to where you are going its as much about the journey

Actua;;y I was teasing earlier and I quite agree with you. Goes along the lines of teh other thread. I take my time in getting to know people before I decide whether I want to meet them or not.

All sounds rather delightful to me

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I think, as others have stated before me, that you get to know a person on here through several layers. The forums, the verifications, their profile and mostly their emails and pms. I just like to take my time and I am friends with quite a few I probably wont ever meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No as a single female safety first!

I always ensure I see them on cam or various pics to ensure they are genuine.

I've heard stories of guys doing this and then turning up to the meeting point and the lovely lady they expected turned out to a big hairy biker

Can see where you are coming from. On the occasions where I did not have a face picture I had spoken to them on the phone though. "

Yh but they had onv spoken to a lady friend the guy had got to speak on the phone

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

What happens when u have seen a pic agree to meet and it turns out that they used their friends pic?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"What happens when u have seen a pic agree to meet and it turns out that they used their friends pic?"
That would be instant death... of the meet!

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"I have done ona couple of occasions and it was ok but rule of thumb I probably would not.

How about if I gently suck said thumb

You just have such a way with.... thumbs

Well one needs to start somewhere to find all the best bits

Would you say the thumbs are the best starting points?

I grab what I can and work from there

Now that sounds like a real man at work

It's not how fast you can get to where you are going its as much about the journey

Actua;;y I was teasing earlier and I quite agree with you. Goes along the lines of teh other thread. I take my time in getting to know people before I decide whether I want to meet them or not.

All sounds rather delightful to me

I think, as others have stated before me, that you get to know a person on here through several layers. The forums, the verifications, their profile and mostly their emails and pms. I just like to take my time and I am friends with quite a few I probably wont ever meet. "

Taking your time is never a bad thing it helps to stop burnt fingers

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Taking your time is never a bad thing it helps to stop burnt fingers

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I am usually a very quick decision maker as I said on anther thread but in the context of meeting people off this site or teh scene in general it does not work like that for me. I dont have a lot of time for socialising and I guess it is about not having that luxury that makes me be a bit careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done in the past, but learnt by my mistakes lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

No way in Hades...anyway my OH vets em so i dont have to worry .....

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"
Was just thinking that byt the time we are meeting somebody most of us have seen the other person's private parts... and we worry about their faces... Sounds hilarious in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

We wouldn't but we always like to cam with people before meeting in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

Nope never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i first started meeting i did and it was Sreck over 20 stones and green teeth and smelling like had not been in bath for months. lol

I leaned my lesson never meet with out seeing a up= to date pic first. I know would not help with smell .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt now but i have done in the past. met one very nice man and a couple of bad ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might but I would have wanted to chat on the phone and have a good reason for not having a face picture. In general though I would lose interest long before the meet stage without a picture.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Photos mean nothing.. Cam only is the way to go.. be silly to meet without seeing the actual person first.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Photos mean nothing.. Cam only is the way to go.. be silly to meet without seeing the actual person first."

So what about the people that do not do cameras very well, there's always the chance you miss out on someone exceptional

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

We would.After all a nice pic doesnt always make a nice person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And i like to see live web cam before a meet just to make sure pics not 10 years old .

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Photos mean nothing.. Cam only is the way to go.. be silly to meet without seeing the actual person first.

So what about the people that do not do cameras very well, there's always the chance you miss out on someone exceptional

We have chatted alot so I guess sometimes a foto would have to do

But in general chatting on a web cam gives you a good idea of what people are like..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actually meet without first seeing a face photo of the person they are meeting?"

Never ever in a millon years

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

8 inches plus.... yeah

less........... NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"8 inches plus.... yeah

less........... NO"

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I did once meet a guy I'd been chatting to for a long time and was attracted to his personality!! He and joked and assured me I wouldn't me disappointed and I certainly wasn't he was bloody gorgeous but that was a complete one off!!

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I did I met my Sir without seeing a face pic and 14 months on I'm very pleased I did. I was feeling wreckless that day and it paid off but now insist on face pics

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