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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could have been anything that we wanted to be.

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Been told several times, I'm good for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

* don’t take this thread too seriously. Obviously.

I *shouldn’t* have to say this. But I will anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think purely for the original purpose of the site, I'd be one of the ones kicked off. I don't go to the clubs, I'm not part of a couple, I prefer one to one meets, I don't put pineapples upside down. The other guys aren't the problem, I am the other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This title makes no sense.

In by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This title makes no sense.

In by the way."

Oh crap I've now read the OP.

Out out out out!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed. "

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed. "
I agree

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

*Faux deep voice*

I'm a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not even on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not even on here....

"

But I can see you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys "

Goodfellas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iable93Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

What if I’m bored of being the good guy? Villains always have the better story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting. "

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums! "

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?"

Great film!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Are there not only Five Guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film! "

My mind went to the pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! "
Ash has finesse that is a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! "

Where did it say I was referring to him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! "

I don’t even know who he is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza. "

Kind of guessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! Ash has finesse that is a turn on. "

On a serious note I think that often people think they have to be controversial or very opinionated or supper funny to get on well on this site and you don't have to be. You can just be a decent human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

Kind of guessed"

Missed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! Ash has finesse that is a turn on.

On a serious note I think that often people think they have to be controversial or very opinionated or supper funny to get on well on this site and you don't have to be. You can just be a decent human being. "
He is honest and genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza. "

But you don't like pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

Kind of guessed

Missed you"

You too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not even on here....

But I can see you! "

Don't tell anyone...I've found a nice corner to hide in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

But you don't like pizza "

I can't erase it from my mind, I have tried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

Kind of guessed

Missed you"

Are you a pineapple kind of gal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

But you don't like pizza

I can't erase it from my mind, I have tried. "

Listen to your mind. It's giving you important instructions which are to just enjoy the damn pizza!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I one of the good guys? I have no idea, not sure what the essential and desirable criteria are but I’ll join this thread so that you can all decide if I am or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

Goodfellas?

Great film!

My mind went to the pizza.

But you don't like pizza

I can't erase it from my mind, I have tried.

Listen to your mind. It's giving you important instructions which are to just enjoy the damn pizza! "

It's more a unease feeling in my stomach. Similar to when I think about sex really.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Operation Good Guys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of the good guys? I have no idea, not sure what the essential and desirable criteria are but I’ll join this thread so that you can all decide if I am or not! "

This is it though isn't it, I suppose we all have different ideas on what makes someone good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I one of the good guys? I have no idea, not sure what the essential and desirable criteria are but I’ll join this thread so that you can all decide if I am or not! "

Yes I think you’re a Goodfella........somewhat of a sycophant but nonetheless a decent guy who would put the bins out when it’s raining!

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Good guys are OK.

It's 'nice guys' you want to run a mile from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment "

But what if you’re colour blind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment

But what if you’re colour blind?"

Good point

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Hi, I'm Chucky, wanna play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which come last? Nice guys or good guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "

I disagree with that and I think there's nothing wrong with saying you're a nice person. It's like people get pulled down when they say they think they're attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

"

Right here. We're definitely the good guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "

Jesus seems to have blagged it then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "
Any guy that screams "Alpha " is a total avoidance.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "

It's not that they are the worst but if someone has to repeatedly tell others that they are nice it usually means they are either projecting a different image or are very insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going Any guy that screams "Alpha " is a total avoidance."

Unless he has Tourette’s of course?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going Any guy that screams "Alpha " is a total avoidance."

Snap. Alpha usage by a guy screams of arrogance.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

This is a spoof thread, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting. "

Not really. They mostly attract attention seekers with nothing constructive or even vaguely interesting to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

Jesus seems to have blagged it then!"

Jesus said: "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. I have recently updated my profile. Let me know what you think."

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I am in, but would you ever believe me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good is a point of view so il just settle for being a man nothing more nothing less the ultimate man but still just a man

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's up to me to decide if I think someone is a nice guy, not them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just normal men.

We're just innocent men.

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By *ylan11Man
over a year ago

osterley

Totally agree , I’m always polite and a true gent .

Hate being tarnished by others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "

Agree completely!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys "

So if I said I was a complete evil bastard you would trust me then?

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

Veris say it all !!!

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By *alentedfMan
over a year ago

Near Newbury

Firm but fair and a little more wolf than sheep.

Take as you find I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

"

J (Mr) is actually really one of the good guys…who’d definitely make the cull, I’ll say that much lol. And I’m more than happy to share him with the right women

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good guys don’t need to state they are good guys, they just are and it’s obvious to others without the need for them to declare it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good guys don’t need to state they are good guys, they just are and it’s obvious to others without the need for them to declare it! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys

So if I said I was a complete evil bastard you would trust me then?"

It’s not Opposite Day!

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We can play the squid games and eliminate the bad ones ?

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By *as2cheatMan
over a year ago

harrow

I’m bad, very bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

Jesus seems to have blagged it then!

Jesus said: "I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. I have recently updated my profile. Let me know what you think.""

It’s a bit cryptic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m bad, very bad "

But can you accommodate?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You don't have to say you're nice or a good guy. The way you carry yourself, your attitude and how you interact with others tells most people what they need to know

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im a bad guy an absolute swine,,

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm sooo bad... I mix the red and green wine gums...

Who can do better ?...

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I'm not 1 of the 'ass kissing good guys' I'm a horny, naughty, cheeky, sexy bastard & you will love it cause!

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment

But what if you’re colour blind?"

The odds just wouldn't be in your favour

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

If only it was that easy.

I just ramble though, winge and confuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going Any guy that screams "Alpha " is a total avoidance.

Snap. Alpha usage by a guy screams of arrogance. "
screams narcissist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment

But what if you’re colour blind?

The odds just wouldn't be in your favour "

Red and green should never be seen well at least those with protanopia ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going Any guy that screams "Alpha " is a total avoidance.

Snap. Alpha usage by a guy screams of arrogance. screams narcissist lol"

Is that not a crocus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like joining clubs where I’m the only guy. I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like joining clubs where I’m the only guy. I’m out"

As in coming out?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I am good at being average, does that count as being a good guy

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I don't know it's up to the ladies to decide that

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

I happen to think that good guys don't need to shout about how good they are, their actions and behaviour speak louder than words ever will.

In my experience 90 % of guys who spout on about how good a person they are turn out to be dicks.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

No

Single me, yes

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By *ilverSwordMan
over a year ago

Belfast-ish

I'm a good guy I'm also up way too late lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a good bad guy I think?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

"

I coulda been a contender.....

Winston

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Nah, I'm not into joining factions.

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

I'm in the good, the bad ,and the ugly club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want a good guy.

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

I try so hard to be good but I can’t help being an absolute cunt at times…..wicked sense of humour that brings out the bad in me.

I do try to behave myself…..sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very thought provoking thread in the early hours of the morning, after some deliberation I would probably say I can be quite bad at being a good man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In. I’d certainly like to think so.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

I coulda been a contender.....

Winston "

Even with that filthy glint in your eye Winston...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

It's not that they are the worst but if someone has to repeatedly tell others that they are nice it usually means they are either projecting a different image or are very insecure."

Agreed! I find that they can turn very easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want a good guy. "

"Good, because I'm bad at everything". Yak yak yak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A very thought provoking thread in the early hours of the morning, after some deliberation I would probably say I can be quite bad at being a good man. "

Nobody is perfect! The reality is that we are all probably on the business end of the creepy scale given that we're on here, probably spend too much time on here at the expense of going out and doing good things in the world, added to all the other things we do as easy as breathing, but which are bad to people or beings in places far away from our little bubbles.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going "

Then if that's the case, I go with good verifications from fabbers with many verifications. I also go how they conduct themselves with me

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"I know I'm exceptionally biassed however Hot Ash is definitely one of the nicest guys on the forums. He is never controversial or causes any issues whatsoever. I know this thread wasn't necessarily about naming people but like I said I'm biassed.

I like a some controversy and issues. Makes them exciting.

Yup I like guys who have opinions and viewpoints! Too many yes men in the forums!

I didn't say he didn't have opinions or view points though did I! Ash has finesse that is a turn on.

On a serious note I think that often people think they have to be controversial or very opinionated or supper funny to get on well on this site and you don't have to be. You can just be a decent human being. "

Great point Lorna. As a newcomer on here I have definitely gone through various iterations of the way I try to present myself... I mean, I'm always ME but I've tried to be various versions of myself of you like. In an attempt to be more appealing, of course. But I do feel that after a couple months and a couple meets I'm growing up and settling down and just being... myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

Then if that's the case, I go with good verifications from fabbers with many verifications. I also go how they conduct themselves with me"

Quite right. Let the verifications say whether you're a good guy or not! Especially multiple ones and from heavily verified Fabbers.

Given I have zero, I must be an awful person :D

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"I think the site could do with a traffic light system

Red tab for the sex, fuck now tribe

Yellow for the, little saucy chat, build up to more sexual chat

Green for the, let's talk clean to start

It would save a heap of time wasting and disappointment "

Hey, great idea! Like a traffic light party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guy who says they're a 'good guy' or a 'nice guy' is definitely one of the worst guys going

Then if that's the case, I go with good verifications from fabbers with many verifications. I also go how they conduct themselves with me

Quite right. Let the verifications say whether you're a good guy or not! Especially multiple ones and from heavily verified Fabbers.

Given I have zero, I must be an awful person :D"

Personally, I'd rather make up my own mind than take the word of some random horny stranger. Verifications are just weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let others decide that for me. I like to think I’m aright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best to be, feedback has always told me I am

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’d like to think I’d make the cut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it like an Alpha, if you say you are you are not?

If good guys finish last, I’m certainly not a winning any races in here am I?

So yes, I think I’m just normal, I show respect where it’s due, never lashed out at a rejection, don’t copy and paste etc.

And here’s the thing, I do think good guys don’t get what they want, we just become fine with what we have.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

"

I wouldn’t want to be in any club that would let me join

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

To good (nice) for my own good sometimes x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"You don't have to say you're nice or a good guy. The way you carry yourself, your attitude and how you interact with others tells most people what they need to know "

Exactly this ^

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

I coulda been a contender.....

Winston

Even with that filthy glint in your eye Winston..."

I really don't know what you mean young lady.

Winston

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you

Yes I’m a good guy

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys

Try to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the good guys not spooning it for the bad guys yet? Don’t we out number them 100-1?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Isn’t this the same as saying you’re an alpha male or a Dom.

I’ll prefer to let others decide whether they think I’m a good guy. My opinion of me and others opinions of me could be very different…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, I know YOU are. It’s just the others that let us all down, right?

Maybe Fab should limit the amount of men on the site? Whatcha think, Fabsters?

Obviously though, WE would make the cut, yes? Obviously.

Yeah. We’re different .

We’re not like the others are we? They just ruin it for the good guys like us.

It would just be the others than would be culled.

Who’s with me in good guy club? Only say you’re in if you’re one of the good ones. Obviously.

"

Probably everyone here thinks they're good but when a guy would read forum posts or updated profiles or profiles themselves from females obviously they're not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many nice guys

Spoiler alert...

They aren't nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think I’m in this club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far too many nice guys

Spoiler alert...

They aren't nice"

Beautiful haiku

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

I would like to think so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Far too many nice guys

Spoiler alert...

They aren't nice

Beautiful haiku "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all, ah fantastic!

Good Guy Club membership is coming along nicely! It’s good to see who are in the 10%, not like that 90% who ruin everything for us good ones..

I mean I’d be knee deep in clunge by now if it wasn’t for the bad guys and their behaviour putting the ladies off us good guys.

I’m not wrong am I, comrades?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a membership fee to be paid, like a subscription?

Because I’m out! I’m not that nice.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Morning all, ah fantastic!

Good Guy Club membership is coming along nicely! It’s good to see who are in the 10%, not like that 90% who ruin everything for us good ones..

I mean I’d be knee deep in clunge by now if it wasn’t for the bad guys and their behaviour putting the ladies off us good guys.

I’m not wrong am I, comrades? "
150% correct Dan...I'm a good guy too

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Morning all, ah fantastic!

Good Guy Club membership is coming along nicely! It’s good to see who are in the 10%, not like that 90% who ruin everything for us good ones..

I mean I’d be knee deep in clunge by now if it wasn’t for the bad guys and their behaviour putting the ladies off us good guys.

I’m not wrong am I, comrades? "

Haha, I must say I do sometimes wonder how different the dating game would be if so many women weren't carrying this burden of hurt/disappointment/resentment around with them. Seems they're just waiting for each new fella to confirm what they think they already know. Not blaming - no doubt we men are actually to blame. Just saying - it'd be like going back to the Garden of Eden, everyone so trusting and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all, ah fantastic!

Good Guy Club membership is coming along nicely! It’s good to see who are in the 10%, not like that 90% who ruin everything for us good ones..

I mean I’d be knee deep in clunge by now if it wasn’t for the bad guys and their behaviour putting the ladies off us good guys.

I’m not wrong am I, comrades?

Haha, I must say I do sometimes wonder how different the dating game would be if so many women weren't carrying this burden of hurt/disappointment/resentment around with them. Seems they're just waiting for each new fella to confirm what they think they already know. Not blaming - no doubt we men are actually to blame. Just saying - it'd be like going back to the Garden of Eden, everyone so trusting and innocent "

Could you imagine!? I don't think I physically can imagine a dating landscape that isn't fucked up

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m sure everyone is good until they’re not

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Morning all, ah fantastic!

Good Guy Club membership is coming along nicely! It’s good to see who are in the 10%, not like that 90% who ruin everything for us good ones..

I mean I’d be knee deep in clunge by now if it wasn’t for the bad guys and their behaviour putting the ladies off us good guys.

I’m not wrong am I, comrades?

Haha, I must say I do sometimes wonder how different the dating game would be if so many women weren't carrying this burden of hurt/disappointment/resentment around with them. Seems they're just waiting for each new fella to confirm what they think they already know. Not blaming - no doubt we men are actually to blame. Just saying - it'd be like going back to the Garden of Eden, everyone so trusting and innocent

Could you imagine!? I don't think I physically can imagine a dating landscape that isn't fucked up "

Wonder what the opposite of this is? I mean from the Ladies' perspective, what "burden" do we men seem to them to be labouring under which is getting in the way of more harmonious dating relations..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never trust the ones who describe themselves as good guys "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm too nice and take things to seriously. I also try not to take anything to heart. But I am always friendly regardless if your an arse to me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all good then

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like bad girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*cough*

Just a reminder : I’m one of the good guys, ladies, right?

Just remember that. Take notes. Send boob pics to my inbox.

Timely bump, I think, given recent debates.

Who else is one of the good guys?

Let the ladies know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s usually the ones with good or nice in their username that end up dishing out the most shit

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By *ot_Guy999Man
over a year ago

Close by...

IN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm golden.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m alright, although it’s really for others to say.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I am not

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Well I like to believe I am, never quite got the bad boy appeal but that's probably because I'm just a little envious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the definition of a good guy?

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Nope absolutely NOT although it does depend on what you consider a good guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best are the good guys who have a naughty streak that properly comes out to play when and if appropriate.

Fortunately, I’ve met intriguing, captivating, engaging gentlemen of Fab. Not to say, they were boring or otherwise lacking the ability to engage in debauchery. A gentleman who has the skill of being good and equally very, very bad is my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m alright, although it’s really for others to say."

We've only ever exchanged a couple of messages via a Forum game, but I'd say you're one of the good guys Adam

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

I’m one of those men with a penis so, automatically makes me shit I think

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

In, but obviously self praise is no praise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good in many ways, bad in many good ways too.

You judge.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Timely bump, I think, given recent debates."

I think I’ve missed these debates.

Were they mass debates?

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By *outhCoastSinnersCouple
over a year ago

so close you could touch


"I think purely for the original purpose of the site, I'd be one of the ones kicked off. I don't go to the clubs, I'm not part of a couple, I prefer one to one meets, I don't put pineapples upside down. The other guys aren't the problem, I am the other guys"

Ideal type. If only a majority were like this, I'd be a happy bunny girl.

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By *outhCoastSinnersCouple
over a year ago

so close you could touch


"The best are the good guys who have a naughty streak that properly comes out to play when and if appropriate.

Fortunately, I’ve met intriguing, captivating, engaging gentlemen of Fab. Not to say, they were boring or otherwise lacking the ability to engage in debauchery. A gentleman who has the skill of being good and equally very, very bad is my type. "

My radar is so off, I get stuck with nice and a bit boring. How do you find the gentlemanly BAD guys. They're hiding!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"*cough*

Just a reminder : I’m one of the good guys, ladies, right?

Just remember that. Take notes. Send boob pics to my inbox.

Timely bump, I think, given recent debates.

Who else is one of the good guys?

Let the ladies know! "

God no… I am at the villain arc of my fab swingers life.. having a bloody blast!!!

You know when grandad says the most inappropriate things … I’ve reached the two shits stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats the definition of a good guy? "

Well obviously people like you, and me. You know, we’re not like the other men who give the rest of us a bad name. They ruin it for us. But we’re different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a special sniffer to personally detect them from behind my mobile across the internet.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Despite my serious nature on here I am actually the most fun you’ll have without a blindfold handcuffs and selection of root vegetables!!!

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I have a special sniffer to personally detect them from behind my mobile across the internet. "

Do me do me

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I'm in, but I'm one of those rare individuals who is able to take responsibility for his own actions, sucesses and failures and doesn't try and pass the buck and blame other people for things

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By *TAXMan
over a year ago

Watford

I’m definitely in !!!

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

No im just the man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

*bump*

Just a reminder, I’m one of the good guys. Not one of those bad guys that give us good guys a bad name.

Fanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I’m just a bellend.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Before this thread closes I just want to let everyone know I'm one of the good guys too. Nice guys finish last

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By *uchasGMan
over a year ago

Northwest

I've always been good

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Terrible person, fantastic cock

LvM

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Decent man here, being that has found me some great people too meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re all one of the good guys.

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By *triker0079Man
over a year ago

London

Like to think I'm a good guy

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Fuck me a thread back from the dead

I'm sure there are many people here would say I'm a good guy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet 99% of men will say they are a good guy but it just upto them and whoever there with to prove it

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