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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It happens every so often.

How common is it for a tradesman to turn up on time? They do in porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly sure that a moustache wearing plumber isn't fucking every woman over the washing machine on a daily basis.

Hope that helps

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I rarely watch porn... but have lots of real life experience

Not all women squirt, I do but not often. Having said that anal always makes me squirt.

Many women don't orgasm via penetrative sex and a surprisingly high number of us ladies are bi

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s surprisingly difficult to find a tradesman willing to fuck you to cover your payment, apparently…

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By *acknickMan
over a year ago

london

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely watch porn... but have lots of real life experience

Not all women squirt, I do but not often. Having said that anal always makes me squirt.

Many women don't orgasm via penetrative sex and a surprisingly high number of us ladies are bi

Nita "

I squirt as long as I’m hydrated and comfortable with who I’m with, and I can squirt like a pornstar then! But men always seemed surprised by it, and super turned on at the idea… I just think it’s messy and embarrassing to be honest, it’s more likely to make me hold back cumming at all just to avoid it! It also means I struggle to cum from penetration because I can’t squirt whilst they are in m

How many of us women are genuinely bi and not just sexually flexible when in the situation?

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By *acknickMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm fairly sure that a moustache wearing plumber isn't fucking every woman over the washing machine on a daily basis.

Hope that helps"

?? Great answer mate!

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By *ritishguyMan
over a year ago

chatburn

Really? Well you are stunning, but everyone's got yo make a living x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for a happy ending at a massage parlour and see what happens?

I'm sure the overly endowed blonde fitty wouldn't oblige

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?"

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

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By *acknickMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm fairly sure that a moustache wearing plumber isn't fucking every woman over the washing machine on a daily basis.

Hope that helps"

I dont know what the two question Marks are doing at the beginning of my reply was meant to be a laughing emoji! So ignore them mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really? Well you are stunning, but everyone's got yo make a living x"

Thank you

I see your point…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really? Well you are stunning, but everyone's got yo make a living x

Thank you

I see your point… "

Use the above sentence more often,

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By *exyPirateMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"It’s surprisingly difficult to find a tradesman willing to fuck you to cover your payment, apparently… "

I’m happy to exchange odd jobs for sexy payments…..

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…"

I actually lost my viginity with my 22 yr old step sister when I was 17.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…"

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I actually lost my viginity with my 22 yr old step sister when I was 17."

Fair, I figured it must happen…2 questions though: is it legal? And was she stuck in a washing machine?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Squirting - not something that's ever happened with my body. I'm perfectly happy with that.

Orgasms - need clitoral stimulation of some kind, penetration alone doesn't do it. I also never cum from the use of vibrators or wands, even if directly on my clit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

"

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little… "

I bet someone somewhere is currently googling "vocabulary porn"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

What about all the taxi driver stuff?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Squirting - not something that's ever happened with my body. I'm perfectly happy with that.

Orgasms - need clitoral stimulation of some kind, penetration alone doesn't do it. I also never cum from the use of vibrators or wands, even if directly on my clit. "

That last one is unusual, usually every woman’s kryptonite is a wand… have you tried the air pulsing toys like the Womaniser? It’s just different enough to feel great at what the others don’t do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about all the taxi driver stuff? "

Some of them are Uber and I don't mean that in a good way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little…

I bet someone somewhere is currently googling "vocabulary porn""

and they will turn something up! - probably teacher or school related…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…"

I personally think that that is a sick genre of porn as it is sexualising the family dynamic, especially the whole step parent/step child dynamic. It should be banned as it promotes an abuse of power that involves minors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about all the taxi driver stuff?

Some of them are Uber and I don't mean that in a good way "

Some of them should be paying their customers hazard pay for injuries occurring during the ride, and not the could kind of injuries..or ride..

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Squirting - not something that's ever happened with my body. I'm perfectly happy with that.

Orgasms - need clitoral stimulation of some kind, penetration alone doesn't do it. I also never cum from the use of vibrators or wands, even if directly on my clit.

That last one is unusual, usually every woman’s kryptonite is a wand… have you tried the air pulsing toys like the Womaniser? It’s just different enough to feel great at what the others don’t do. "

Not tried one like that, no. I mean, I have Mr KC's tongue on demand, so.....

They're pleasurable definitely, but I've never cum using any kind of toy, unless fingers or tongue have also been on my clit.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I've only recently started squirting and that was after meeting my fwb for 4 months before it started.

But only from cowgirl with him.

Another guy I've started meeting regularly it only happens when he fingers me not from penetrative sex.

When I'm using my toys on myself it doesn't happen

Other guys I've been with it doesn't happen at all

Its not something I like happening either

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little… "

If you like that you should see what other words I know (hurriedly loads up a thesaurus on another tab)

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little…

I bet someone somewhere is currently googling "vocabulary porn""

It's called Countdown

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

Not chøked as in REALLY chøked, but I get very, very turned on giving deepthroat. It helps having next to no gag reflex. However, I need to trust the person.

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By *acknickMan
over a year ago

london


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…"

Dont think it's illegal but deemed a bit taboo. My mate has three kids with his cousin and they're getting married now. They had to have tests every pregnancy to make sure the kids wouldn't be born disabled but if it's legal for cousins to do it I cant see why it would be illegal for stepsiblings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I personally think that that is a sick genre of porn as it is sexualising the family dynamic, especially the whole step parent/step child dynamic. It should be banned as it promotes an abuse of power that involves minors."

In forum its always good to leave moral high ground at the doorstep....however porn caters for many many types of tastes, what is vomit to you is another person's caviar

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

I don’t enjoy that. I prefer anal personally.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

I don’t enjoy that. I prefer anal personally.

Mrs "

Thats a long way to go to make you gag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

I think the pleasure women derive from throat fucking etc. is based on (what I suspect is probably a misconstrued concept spread through porn) the premise that it feels good for men and therefore the pleasure produced for the guy is what we enjoy it for.

Does deepthroating actually feel good for guys or does it hurt when it hits the back of the throat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I'm not too sure, I think porn focused on stepfamily would probably fall into the family/teen category. Porn focused on actual blood related family tends to fall into the Taboo category, of course this is just as fictious as all porn.

Either way it's remarkably ubiquitous across porn sites nowadays, a bizarre reflection of societies wants

Is it strange that your use of “ubiquitous” just turned me on a little…

I bet someone somewhere is currently googling "vocabulary porn"

It's called Countdown"

Love this line!!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

I think the pleasure women derive from throat fucking etc. is based on (what I suspect is probably a misconstrued concept spread through porn) the premise that it feels good for men and therefore the pleasure produced for the guy is what we enjoy it for.

Does deepthroating actually feel good for guys or does it hurt when it hits the back of the throat? "

Deep throating does nothing for me, all the nerve endings are in head of the penis so that's where all the business should be taking place... of course this could be different for other people with dicks

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

I've managed a few times with toys. Not during sex though. However at the right angles I will leave a puddle but it's not gushing like in the movies. It's a very odd sensation before it happens though. Rather similar to needing to pee so hard for me to relax and just let it happen

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I actually lost my viginity with my 22 yr old step sister when I was 17.

Fair, I figured it must happen…2 questions though: is it legal? And was she stuck in a washing machine? "

It is legal, and no we were in a caravan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

Not chøked as in REALLY chøked, but I get very, very turned on giving deepthroat. It helps having next to no gag reflex. However, I need to trust the person."

I have no gag reflex, but a small throat, so I’m not very good at it.

I prefer to be ch oked via neck or breath played via covering nose and mouth personally - more dominating use of control I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do step siblings really get stuck in washing machines that often?

Does anyone?!

Is step sibling sex technically illegal/classified as family sex? Because your not actually blood relatives but marriage declares family…

I actually lost my viginity with my 22 yr old step sister when I was 17.

Fair, I figured it must happen…2 questions though: is it legal? And was she stuck in a washing machine?

It is legal, and no we were in a caravan"

Close enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't cum that easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women don't cum that easily. "

But yes we are awesome at acting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

That a dom can just demand and take what he wants. Chocking and slapping makes you dom

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

I don’t enjoy that. I prefer anal personally.

Mrs

Thats a long way to go to make you gag "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've managed a few times with toys. Not during sex though. However at the right angles I will leave a puddle but it's not gushing like in the movies. It's a very odd sensation before it happens though. Rather similar to needing to pee so hard for me to relax and just let it happen"

Snap! I’m always paranoid it might be pee so I hold it back - I end up perpetually edging, unable to push myself passed the barrier without someone’s assist or I bail early

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

Not chøked as in REALLY chøked, but I get very, very turned on giving deepthroat. It helps having next to no gag reflex. However, I need to trust the person.

I have no gag reflex, but a small throat, so I’m not very good at it.

I prefer to be ch oked via neck or breath played via covering nose and mouth personally - more dominating use of control I think "

Well they do say practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That a dom can just demand and take what he wants. Chocking and slapping makes you dom "

The amount of guys on here who seem to think that they can dominate you in the first meet with barely a conversation as a foundation for immense trust is baffling?! I think the definition of sexual domination and submission has been lost amongst the OF and porn videos so that men don’t think anything of it, but it’s meant to be an intense emotional connection as well as sexual with it only being possible if the sub (more often women, I think) can trust that they completely safe with the dom (probably more often/traditionally men) and ultimately that the sub is in control of the sessions progression, not the dom… that’s just my 2cents…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women don't cum that easily. "

Do most women cum as much as women in porn appear to?

I fear as a multiorgasm-er I might have a less than average perspective on this one…. Even as a bi woman I’m terrible at knowing the signs in other women (I’m really awkward in general with other women though to be honest …)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

Not chøked as in REALLY chøked, but I get very, very turned on giving deepthroat. It helps having next to no gag reflex. However, I need to trust the person.

I have no gag reflex, but a small throat, so I’m not very good at it.

I prefer to be ch oked via neck or breath played via covering nose and mouth personally - more dominating use of control I think

Well they do say practice makes perfect "

That’s pretty much the only options if you need quiet too, sometime I think people do it literally just to shut me up for a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fairly sure that a moustache wearing plumber isn't fucking every woman over the washing machine on a daily basis.

Hope that helps

I dont know what the two question Marks are doing at the beginning of my reply was meant to be a laughing emoji! So ignore them mate "

Did you use your phones emoji? If so it doesn't work on here. You need to use the sires emojis

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Women don't cum that easily.

Do most women cum as much as women in porn appear to?

I fear as a multiorgasm-er I might have a less than average perspective on this one…. Even as a bi woman I’m terrible at knowing the signs in other women (I’m really awkward in general with other women though to be honest …)"

I'm a one-cum woman. Looooooooong reload time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

Not chøked as in REALLY chøked, but I get very, very turned on giving deepthroat. It helps having next to no gag reflex. However, I need to trust the person.

I have no gag reflex, but a small throat, so I’m not very good at it.

I prefer to be ch oked via neck or breath played via covering nose and mouth personally - more dominating use of control I think

Well they do say practice makes perfect

That’s pretty much the only options if you need quiet too, sometime I think people do it literally just to shut me up for a minute "

Gives you something to do while they descale the washing machine I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That a dom can just demand and take what he wants. Chocking and slapping makes you dom

The amount of guys on here who seem to think that they can dominate you in the first meet with barely a conversation as a foundation for immense trust is baffling?! I think the definition of sexual domination and submission has been lost amongst the OF and porn videos so that men don’t think anything of it, but it’s meant to be an intense emotional connection as well as sexual with it only being possible if the sub (more often women, I think) can trust that they completely safe with the dom (probably more often/traditionally men) and ultimately that the sub is in control of the sessions progression, not the dom… that’s just my 2cents…"

Spot on though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is ANYONE into either being called daddy by their partner or calling him daddy as you go at it?

It creeps me out and makes me cringe and laugh so much when I see it in porn

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm usually much, much slower to get around to things. And rather slower during the activities. Obviously, editing can occur in my memories, just as with porn.

Average porn cock is 8" plus, like the guys on fab, with poor eyesight who brag too readily

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I'm fairly sure that a moustache wearing plumber isn't fucking every woman over the washing machine on a daily basis.

Hope that helps"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Is ANYONE into either being called daddy by their partner or calling him daddy as you go at it?

It creeps me out and makes me cringe and laugh so much when I see it in porn "

It's not for us, at least.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Women don't cum that easily.

Do most women cum as much as women in porn appear to?

I fear as a multiorgasm-er I might have a less than average perspective on this one…. Even as a bi woman I’m terrible at knowing the signs in other women (I’m really awkward in general with other women though to be honest …)"

I don't think so. I come frequently, very easily when I'm in the right mood and with the right person (literally they could thrust a couple of times and I'll have had four orgasms) but I don't think it's that common. At all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shour about all that but I do commend the user name

Awesome Dj

https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCB6R4ceqzkFiNX6FjDNzuKw

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all?

I think the pleasure women derive from throat fucking etc. is based on (what I suspect is probably a misconstrued concept spread through porn) the premise that it feels good for men and therefore the pleasure produced for the guy is what we enjoy it for.

Does deepthroating actually feel good for guys or does it hurt when it hits the back of the throat?

Deep throating does nothing for me, all the nerve endings are in head of the penis so that's where all the business should be taking place... of course this could be different for other people with dicks "

Those same nerve endings will still picj up sensations when they're in a different place, such as down a throat - they'll just be different.

Conversely, for the oral giver, they have different sensations picked up via their throat, compared to inside our mouths. This includes sensations of taste. The mouth is very richly supplied with nerve endings in abundance, compared to back in the 'throat' and they have different functional abilities.

Some of the pleasurable sensations that some men get are from the tightness further back, as well as the squeezing of muscles, tightening up the passageway. The gagging, if it occurs, can give pleasure, though probably less so for the deep throater. We're all different, which is what makes sex so great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello all new to this

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Women moaning when they masturbate... Not something I do in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello all new to this"

Run and hide mate it not for the faint hearted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

You claim to have been on the site for over a year and you need to be educated about recreational sex ?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

No and no... Can't think of anything worse. I find out degrading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women moaning when they masturbate... Not something I do in real life. "

What would you moan about?

Surely you are preoccupied?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women moaning when they masturbate... Not something I do in real life. "

Not even that the ceiling needs painting?

You must be a keeper

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By *rLothbrokMan
over a year ago

Lancs

During your annual check up, the doctor/nurse isn’t going to blow you

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

in my experience not many unless they've had a load to drink before hand lol

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

We are all totally different, some women orgasm over and over quite easily others once and that's enough of that for them, men are the same some cum quick and can go again in minutes, other men you have to work hard, everyone's so different and as such you should listen and feel your partner to see what's working for them and not what's working for you x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We are all totally different, some women orgasm over and over quite easily others once and that's enough of that for them, men are the same some cum quick and can go again in minutes, other men you have to work hard, everyone's so different and as such you should listen and feel your partner to see what's working for them and not what's working for you x"
other men work hard at pleasing the woman I know I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all totally different, some women orgasm over and over quite easily others once and that's enough of that for them, men are the same some cum quick and can go again in minutes, other men you have to work hard, everyone's so different and as such you should listen and feel your partner to see what's working for them and not what's working for you x"

Words of stating the obvious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are all totally different, some women orgasm over and over quite easily others once and that's enough of that for them, men are the same some cum quick and can go again in minutes, other men you have to work hard, everyone's so different and as such you should listen and feel your partner to see what's working for them and not what's working for you xother men work hard at pleasing the woman I know I do "

Is pleasure hard work?

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3


"It’s surprisingly difficult to find a tradesman willing to fuck you to cover your payment, apparently… "

Unless you squirt?

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By *ete262Man
over a year ago

worksop

Those super Mario brothers get about a bit don't they?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? in my experience not many unless they've had a load to drink before hand lol "

Jo can squirt but not gush.

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
over a year ago

SA3


"Is ANYONE into either being called daddy by their partner or calling him daddy as you go at it?

It creeps me out and makes me cringe and laugh so much when I see it in porn "

Totally agree, it’s creepy. I am a proud dad, it’s a very different thing and literally makes me feel physically sick when those things get conflated

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We are all totally different, some women orgasm over and over quite easily others once and that's enough of that for them, men are the same some cum quick and can go again in minutes, other men you have to work hard, everyone's so different and as such you should listen and feel your partner to see what's working for them and not what's working for you xother men work hard at pleasing the woman I know I do

Is pleasure hard work?"

not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

Personally I don’t like that - don’t get me wrong, I love giving oral but if anyone tries to c hoke me with their cock, it will be game over for the fun

F (Mrs)

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Women moaning when they masturbate... Not something I do in real life.

Not even that the ceiling needs painting?

You must be a keeper "

It doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

Us women aren’t all size 6 blonde bombshells with shaved pussies…and squirting? Sometimes - depending on how I’m touched and what with lol

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me?

Us women aren’t all size 6 blonde bombshells with shaved pussies…and squirting? Sometimes - depending on how I’m touched and what with lol

F (Mrs)"

Will you marry me?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

All the best girls love giving blumpkins

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Is ANYONE into either being called daddy by their partner or calling him daddy as you go at it?

It creeps me out and makes me cringe and laugh so much when I see it in porn "

Not for me. So cringy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me?

Us women aren’t all size 6 blonde bombshells with shaved pussies…and squirting? Sometimes - depending on how I’m touched and what with lol

F (Mrs)

Will you marry me?"

Yes, Yes, YES!

F (Mrs)

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"Do females really like to be fed cock and c hoked by them as much as they portray in porn? Or do the majority of women not enjoy that at all? "

Nope. This feels very much like a male thing I’m told I should like. And certainly not without prior discussion.

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By *urga2076Woman
over a year ago

London


"During your annual check up, the doctor/nurse isn’t going to blow you "

Haha. I have the most gorgeous dentist and just fantasising about him as he has me laid out on his bed is enough for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women don't cum that easily.

Do most women cum as much as women in porn appear to?

I fear as a multiorgasm-er I might have a less than average perspective on this one…. Even as a bi woman I’m terrible at knowing the signs in other women (I’m really awkward in general with other women though to be honest …)

I don't think so. I come frequently, very easily when I'm in the right mood and with the right person (literally they could thrust a couple of times and I'll have had four orgasms) but I don't think it's that common. At all. "

I’m the same! Which means 3 things:

1) I wish I could hang a bag of electrolytes from my bed post during sex so I don’t dehydrate so much

2) if the sex is bad or something isn’t clicking with a person then I REALLY notice… and it’s a bit of a giveaway to them too

3) and this last one I mean in an atmosphere, even if I just sound like a greedy, selfish, insensitive brat - I’m often not satisfied by the time a gent cums, which isn’t the problem, the fact that the minute their dry they lose all sexual interest and the sesssion comes to an abrupt end that I hadn’t been mentally prepared for, it completely ruins the atmosphere and takes the fun away from the whole session (no matter how “generous” or ”accommodating” or “patient” they were towards me, at the very least give a girl a warning its cumming soon so she can prepare, but at most maybe don’t make her out to ungrateful when she already feels like she a cheap hocker that has fulfilled her purpose - especially when your not even leaving the cash on the nightstand AND she still has to leave sexually frustrated?!)

I’d rather no sex than sex that leaves me feeling like that…

But that might have be a me thing rather than a joint experience thing that others get too…

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

porn is staged its not real it has a director that says "moan now" or "cum now" I want sex to be a thing of beauty a natural flow also porn uses people who have had their bodies cosmetically adjusted to suit the industry pump up breasts or silicone and lip fillers god what are the futures like for our kids seeing this rubbish trying to emulate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens every so often.

How common is it for a tradesman to turn up on time? They do in porn. "

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Women don't cum that easily. "

Some do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me?

You claim to have been on the site for over a year and you need to be educated about recreational sex ?"

Could you please clarify the tone this was intended to be received in? It’s difficult to sense tone through typed word sometimes, especially furthered by the limiting emojis to assist with whether something is sarcasm or a joke, or flirty or friendly, or…otherwise.

Please clarify so that I am on the same page

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

I'm sure a turkey baster full of water is used to prime the squirt shot

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I can squirt multiple times when stimulated by hand. Penetrative sex by a penis feels totally different both are pretty amazing.

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By *irery aussieMan
over a year ago

perth

Been lucky enough that I've meet several girl who can squirt and made it happen to one girl you said she had never even had an orgasm. I think it come down to being completely comfortable woth the person at letting them take you beyond your normal finishing point. Must also note this has always happend during fingering never sex

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By *sh8286Couple
over a year ago

Guildford


"Squirting - not something that's ever happened with my body. I'm perfectly happy with that.

Orgasms - need clitoral stimulation of some kind, penetration alone doesn't do it. I also never cum from the use of vibrators or wands, even if directly on my clit.

That last one is unusual, usually every woman’s kryptonite is a wand… have you tried the air pulsing toys like the Womaniser? It’s just different enough to feel great at what the others don’t do.

Not tried one like that, no. I mean, I have Mr KC's tongue on demand, so.....

They're pleasurable definitely, but I've never cum using any kind of toy, unless fingers or tongue have also been on my clit."

I'm the same. I'm a big squirter (honestly not all it's cracked up to be, it would be nice to fool around without having to lay waterproof sheets down!) I can have fun with a toy but will rarely cum and often end up more frustrated than I started! My other half can make me squirt easily, as could the gent we met the other week who was exceptionally talented with his tongue....

I've also started squirting through penetration which is something that's only been happening in the last few months - that is far less common from my understanding but I'm not an expert!

But yes I love a toy but it won't often make me cum. Need a skilled man for that

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

So my personal experience (a bad one) of deep throating my girl friend at the time was that she gagged, twisted her head away and bent my cock in the process…. I was fine with that until blood started to come out of the tip of me, quite a lot of it too! It was scary for both of us and the doctor I saw said it was probably just the twisting that had caused the wall of one of the blood vessels to tear slightly and it would clear up in a day or two…. I was duly shaved at the time which I think flustered her a bit but the moral of this tale is don’t believe you can or should do everything you see in porn

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Fully shaved that is!

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By *ornyhubbyhornywifeCouple
over a year ago

Neath


"I don’t know about you all, but with the vast majority of people using porn (or professional erotic material of some kind) as their main reference on sexuality, bodies, sexual ability and setting expectations for sexual encounters, how much of it is accurate? How much staged? How common is that really? Etc.

So I thought maybe we could start a thread to share real life experiences and ask the questions we always wonder about but not sure who to ask them to etc.?

I’ll start with a curiosity…

*how common is it for a woman to squirt when they cum?

Porn claims it’s something every woman does, but I’m not convinced it’s as common as that…

Can someone please Sexually Educate Me? "

I squirt multi time with my hubby. Never did till I met him tho. It's all great fun until your left sleeping in the wet patch & wish you didn't lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Squirting - not something that's ever happened with my body. I'm perfectly happy with that.

Orgasms - need clitoral stimulation of some kind, penetration alone doesn't do it. I also never cum from the use of vibrators or wands, even if directly on my clit.

That last one is unusual, usually every woman’s kryptonite is a wand… have you tried the air pulsing toys like the Womaniser? It’s just different enough to feel great at what the others don’t do.

Not tried one like that, no. I mean, I have Mr KC's tongue on demand, so.....

They're pleasurable definitely, but I've never cum using any kind of toy, unless fingers or tongue have also been on my clit.

I'm the same. I'm a big squirter (honestly not all it's cracked up to be, it would be nice to fool around without having to lay waterproof sheets down!) I can have fun with a toy but will rarely cum and often end up more frustrated than I started! My other half can make me squirt easily, as could the gent we met the other week who was exceptionally talented with his tongue....

I've also started squirting through penetration which is something that's only been happening in the last few months - that is far less common from my understanding but I'm not an expert!

But yes I love a toy but it won't often make me cum. Need a skilled man for that "

I can squirt/cum with a toy as long a im not the one controlling it, solo I’m rarely able to cum at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I squirt multi time with my hubby. Never did till I met him tho. It's all great fun until your left sleeping in the wet patch & wish you didn't lol."

Seconded on the puddle problem! I wish I didn’t squirt most the time

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

I have meet some right gushers...bed soaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the great Squirt debate again..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have meet some right gushers...bed soaking "

Have to agree with you.

Gushing is more the word than squirting in non porn land.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I need to point out that many young men see porn as a way to education into sex. I was lucky as I had a much older girlfriend who took time to show me what buttons when stimulated were the right ones and never enter from behind unless invited!!

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