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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Have that BDSM test result thing on your profile?

Just wondering again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The what now?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nah. Took it, didn't tell me anything I didn't already know

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nah. Took it, didn't tell me anything I didn't already know "

Haha I went on there and didn’t understand half of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Too much text innit. My profile is already long.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The what now?"

You must have seen it. Loads have it!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Nope

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Nah. Took it, didn't tell me anything I didn't already know

Haha I went on there and didn’t understand half of it "

I knew what all the terms meant, Mostly, but I know what I am and what I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The what now?

You must have seen it. Loads have it! "

I don't really read profiles.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nah. Took it, didn't tell me anything I didn't already know

Haha I went on there and didn’t understand half of it

I knew what all the terms meant, Mostly, but I know what I am and what I'm not "

I think I was mostly not

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I used to Nora, but too many men claimed to be just what I'm looking for based on my results. It's the same reason I took my interests off my profile. Rather have people find out about me through conversation now

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Not on this site, I have it up on Fet.

It doesn't really mean much though

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

Nope not got it on mine.....

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"The what now?

You must have seen it. Loads have it!

I don't really read profiles. "

Haha. I do if someone sends a message and it’s half decent. So not very often

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to Nora, but too many men claimed to be just what I'm looking for based on my results. It's the same reason I took my interests off my profile. Rather have people find out about me through conversation now

"

Yeah I’ve never had interests up either. There’d only be about 2 from that list

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Not on this site, I have it up on Fet.

It doesn't really mean much though "

Does it not? Did you not really agree with the results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did do it once it told me nothing i didnt already know really altho it doesnt mention that i like tearing clothes and pinning women to things like a lion on a buffalo

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I did do it once it told me nothing i didnt already know really altho it doesnt mention that i like tearing clothes and pinning women to things like a lion on a buffalo"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did do it once it told me nothing i didnt already know really altho it doesnt mention that i like tearing clothes and pinning women to things like a lion on a buffalo

"

do it like they do on the discovery channel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this mysterious BDSM thingy..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took it, but decided against putting it on there. I think people read that about the same amount as the Sydney university thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ought to add it to mine.

I’m not sure it’s long enough, and whether it needs more to read.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear."

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have it on another site but not on here.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Far too many people. It's like the tarot of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took it but it’s not displayed in my profile

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering "

Really? I always thought you were a Babygirl, this surprises me.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining. "

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"No. Too much text innit. "

Wait, there’s text on profiles?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not on this site, I have it up on Fet.

It doesn't really mean much though

Does it not? Did you not really agree with the results?"

Well, I guess it will have different levels of meaning for each person, some will feel affinity with it and others will not.

I'm not a massively kinky person, and as such much of it didn't really apply to me. I think my top 3, were switch, brat and exhibitionist which I guess are mostly true, but this all varies with who I am with and how I am feeling at the time.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny "

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail. "

Oh no... Age ranges..

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

Really? I always thought you were a Babygirl, this surprises me."

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges.. "

I’ll message x

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges..

I’ll message x"

Oh I can’t

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges..

I’ll message x

Oh I can’t "

I'm 38 in 3 weeks... Can you wait till then?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

No, I've never done it, I can predict the results though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need an intermediary inbox service?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have taken it, just confirmed what I already knew

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges..

I’ll message x

Oh I can’t

I'm 38 in 3 weeks... Can you wait till then? "

Haha I’ve diarised

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges..

I’ll message x

Oh I can’t

I'm 38 in 3 weeks... Can you wait till then?

Haha I’ve diarised "

Tbc...

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"There is someone who has their own version, which is quite entertaining.

Is there! Is it funny. I like funny

There is indeedy... Incoming mail.

Oh no... Age ranges..

I’ll message x

Oh I can’t

I'm 38 in 3 weeks... Can you wait till then?

Haha I’ve diarised

Tbc... "

Actually I’ve changed it. Didn’t realise it was 38. I could be missing out on some sexy men there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it on my Fet account but not here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I could see it attracting too many fake doms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I've been on the website and got bored 2 questions in

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Guilty

Do I win a prize

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Nope .

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Guilty

Do I win a prize"

Yes you get to be inevitable’s lion for a night

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I can't even spell BD.....

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I can't even spell BD..... "

I can’t even remember what it stands for. Well the D anyway. I know the rest

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I take the test annually to see how my predilections fluctuate. I don't always agree with the results.

I don't share the results on here because it's not the right site for it. There seems to be a fairly strong anti-kink vibe amongst swingers, so I don't want to reduce my chances even further by appearing to be *too* into it.

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By *nickers pants guyMan
over a year ago

Cork killkenny laois Limerick Offaly kildare carlow Dublin Waterford and everywhere else


"Have that BDSM test result thing on your profile?

Just wondering again "

Don't like lists prefer to talk through what each other likes than be handed a shopping list lol

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I have the results... somewhere on my phone, not on my profile though

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't need a Big Dick Silly Moo list to put people off. I'm capable of doing that all by myself.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I don't need a Big Dick Silly Moo list to put people off. I'm capable of doing that all by myself. "

. Must admit it puts me off. But most things do to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

100% humble

99.9% number one top forumite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering "

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nope

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's yawn-fest seeing them on profiles, especially as many of them have just 2 or 3 other words about the person.

I don't have 1, of course

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I have the results... somewhere on my phone, not on my profile though "
mm

.

I'll have to borrow your phone for a while

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Have that BDSM test result thing on your profile?

Just wondering again "

Nah. Not a priority/important for me. I know already I'm half vanilla and a switch.

Plus it kind of takes the fun out of getting to know a person sexually.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?.. "

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one "

Fair enough. I like to know how serial killers think.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one

Fair enough. I like to know how serial killers think."

Yeah a lot of people do I think

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one

Fair enough. I like to know how serial killers think.

Yeah a lot of people do I think "

Anyway Victor. Have you done the test?

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By *am450Man
over a year ago

North Kent/Greater London


"I took it, but decided against putting it on there. I think people read that about the same amount as the Sydney university thing."

This definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one

Fair enough. I like to know how serial killers think.

Yeah a lot of people do I think

Anyway Victor. Have you done the test?"

No BDSM doesn't appeal to me. I have kinks, pain isn't one of them, beyond maybe dishing out a light spanking..

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope. I'm not sure I'm really into that side of things. Like neat little boxes. I like intensity and good fucking. Simple.

Same reason my interests don't appear.

I’m not into it. Was just pondering

So kind of BDSM -curious then..?..

No, not at all. People intrigue me, things I can’t get my head around intrigue me. I like to know how people think, why they like certain things.

I’m a weird one

Fair enough. I like to know how serial killers think.

Yeah a lot of people do I think

Anyway Victor. Have you done the test?

No BDSM doesn't appeal to me. I have kinks, pain isn't one of them, beyond maybe dishing out a light spanking.. "

It’s a bit subjective I think. There’s certain things I like that people have said come under that umbrella. I don’t really like labelling things really. I did the test for a laugh. There were a lot of 0 percents

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I used to Nora, but too many men claimed to be just what I'm looking for based on my results. It's the same reason I took my interests off my profile. Rather have people find out about me through conversation now

"

This is the real problem with putting too much on your profile about what your into and what your after. Some people think it will help find the right people but it doesn't. Especially with couples and single ladies profiles. People will disingenuous tailor their conversation with you around your tick boxes. Best to keep your hand tight and let them reveal their cards first. I'm privy to a lot of messages My Girl gets on her profile and naturally the ones we get on our couples. It's also amazing how many people back track when you point out what they are into or propose is not for you. Which I don't get because surely you'd think they'd want to find the right person rather than any person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys already struggle to read my profile Nora. That's just going to add to another it's to long excuse.

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Did the test Nora awhile back, failed badly didn’t get half the question’s

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to Nora, but too many men claimed to be just what I'm looking for based on my results. It's the same reason I took my interests off my profile. Rather have people find out about me through conversation now

This is the real problem with putting too much on your profile about what your into and what your after. Some people think it will help find the right people but it doesn't. Especially with couples and single ladies profiles. People will disingenuous tailor their conversation with you around your tick boxes. Best to keep your hand tight and let them reveal their cards first. I'm privy to a lot of messages My Girl gets on her profile and naturally the ones we get on our couples. It's also amazing how many people back track when you point out what they are into or propose is not for you. Which I don't get because surely you'd think they'd want to find the right person rather than any person? "

Definitely this. The only thing on fab that people know I like is tightey whiteys and smooth balls

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport


"Not on this site, I have it up on Fet.

It doesn't really mean much though "

Same

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