FabSwingers.com forum: Recently my partner departed this world

By *1harrogate OP Man
over a year ago

harrogate

How do I go on

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Sorry to hear that OP

I've not been in your situation so don't feel I can offer advise but, one day at a time is all I can say.

Feel free to message if things get "noisy" and you need a chat

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

I am so sorry. If I may say just one thing is talk and probably not on FWB. I don’t know you though and maybe it’s what you want to comfort you

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My condolences OP

I have been through it myself..... I won't sugar coat it, it's not easy, it will be very raw..... but time is the healer, slowly you will re build your life albeit in a different way. It's a long road unfortunately and difficult to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know you op. But my heart just says you must go on.

Greatest condolences.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news

I am a widow. I was married for 25 years. Everything was really difficult at first but things do improve over time. I suggest you change the text on your profile as you won't want to receive messages asking to meet you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss, OP.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sorry to hear about your bad news

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By *ooking4othersMan
over a year ago

Here ...

Sorry for your lose. Reach out and talk with family and friends.

Also, call CRUSE or ATALOSS or look at their websites for more info ... its all free.

Thru time you things will look better ... good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats horrible sorry to hear that hope you find a way

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm sorry to hear this. Things improve with time and they'd want you to enjoy life.

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By *ambslass54Woman
over a year ago

Yaxley, Peterborough

So sorry to hear of your loss. Please seek help from family and friends and talk to other groups even samirtans they helped me when I lost my husband. It does take time but he will always be with you xx

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By *ovespudsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Sooo sorry for your loss.

I lost my partner of almost 30 years to cancer after a 7 year battle. I myself sought counselling with my local hospice for a few years during her illness and after her death.

All I can say is talk to a professional. 4 years later I now have a new gf, also a widow, and life is good.

Hang in there.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm so sorry for your loss

There's some charities out there that can help ,look up Cruse bereavement online.

Sending you a big hug ,maybe see your gp too if you're really struggling.

I hope you have a good support network op x

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Take it easy on yourself, grief is a very individual personal thing.

I found that when i hit a raw moment i would immediately remember something about them that would make me smile or even laugh.It hurts because we loved them and the two go hand in hand..big hugs op.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Keep yourself free from pressure, including self-imposed. Get support from others who will nurture you, even if you're unsure of what you might want or need. Consider some time in nature, a walk, perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I go on"

Sending condolences for your loss.

There’s no right or wrong answer - let yourself feel all the emotions and feelings, take as much time as you need because there is no time limit and just get through a day at a time

Our inbox is open if you need to offload - sometimes chatting to strangers is comforting

F (Mrs)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm suspecting you mean left FAB ? or swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having lost a very close friend at the start of the year OP I can certainly relate to your loss, all I can suggest is find the time to process the loss and grief you must be feeling in the way you feel will help, take one day at a time, live a life she would of wanted you to have and when you have low points (trust me you will) remember a happy moment or two you shared and smile.

Go on in her memory, and you will be happy again

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