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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Its not a nice feeling is it.

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Its not a nice feeling is it. "

Like I said. I don’t really care . But it has made me giggle…. Other foot and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry to much

Join the club … only 999 more to go

I lost count … so Lucy be 1 thousand ??

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Its not a nice feeling is it.

Like I said. I don’t really care . But it has made me giggle…. Other foot and all that. "

I think we all care a little when that happens. We just don't like to admit it that it hurts a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If face pic is as good as your body pics, I’m amazed you were ignored x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must *

I don’t know any Lucy …

Lucyyyyyyyy u here ? Is Friday … where are you ?

She always does this in early Fridays .

Yuhhh uh

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Who is anyone else to judge? I am not a sexy guy, but that hasn't stopped me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must *

I don’t know any Lucy …

Lucyyyyyyyy u here ? Is Friday … where are you ?

She always does this in early Fridays .

Yuhhh uh "

You called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

Such is fab...onwards and upwards I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it happens. I don't consider it rude, but it is disheartening when it happens more than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a face that would sink a thousand ships, so I don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic Friday now op. Give it another whirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time it happened to me and I didn't give a shit I also made a thread about it.

Actually, that's not a true story...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face that would sink a thousand ships, so I don't take it personally "

Try me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

But do you have a pretty face OP?... Please send pics to rate

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"I have a face that would sink a thousand ships, so I don't take it personally "
bet you have a lovely face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face that would sink a thousand ships, so I don't take it personally

Try me "

Oh dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

But do you have a pretty face OP?... Please send pics to rate "

"Can you feel the lurve tonight"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a face that would sink a thousand ships, so I don't take it personally "

I'm sure that's not the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly why my face is public I wouldn’t be devastated but it would affect me a little I think even though I’m confident in my looks:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not a nice feeling is it.

Like I said. I don’t really care . But it has made me giggle…. Other foot and all that. "

The fact you have made a post about it. Tells us that you do care. Lol x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"This is exactly why my face is public I wouldn’t be devastated but it would affect me a little I think even though I’m confident in my looks: "
unfortunately some of us can't have our faces on our profile due to work

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By *unnyday321Man
over a year ago

everywhere

A face is very important though. Apart from just looks, warmth, smile, eyes can change how you feel stating the obvious. For me far more than most bodies

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

Its a daily occurrence for as men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is exactly why my face is public I wouldn’t be devastated but it would affect me a little I think even though I’m confident in my looks: unfortunately some of us can't have our faces on our profile due to work "

I know! I’m talking about me not about other people!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

This is why I just have it out there for people to see before even messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

"

Very true!

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"This is exactly why my face is public I wouldn’t be devastated but it would affect me a little I think even though I’m confident in my looks: unfortunately some of us can't have our faces on our profile due to work

I know! I’m talking about me not about other people! "

Id love to be like you but unfortunately I can't.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

If anyone is struggling they are welcome to borrow my face

I’m all about the community feel here.

We’re stronger together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone is struggling they are welcome to borrow my face

I’m all about the community feel here.

We’re stronger together!"

I already use your face for other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

Just send pictures of someone else, it's what I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal for me , people turn their backs & cross the road when they see me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"If anyone is struggling they are welcome to borrow my face

I’m all about the community feel here.

We’re stronger together!

I already use your face for other things. "

Hold onto my ears and just keep peddling

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By *eard and TattsCouple
over a year ago

Cwmbran

If a man wrote this thread he'd be getting butchered by now

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"If anyone is struggling they are welcome to borrow my face

I’m all about the community feel here.

We’re stronger together!

I already use your face for other things. "

Specially printed toilet paper?

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I use my face to keep my skull hidden. I didn't realize it might have other purposes.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

you can't be everyone's cup of tea, I've showed my face pic recently to a woman who said I was hot lol but to another woman I look like an escaped prisoner(nobody's said that, my words) , it's the eye of the beholder and you obviously gave a @#*& cos you started this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlucky

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By *hiversMan
over a year ago

Dinas Powys


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

Thoughts and prayers

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By *b72Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm sorry but if you get chatting to someone and you like them/they like you. Blanking after a face pic seems a bit vacuous, especially since the Op has a smoking hot body as well.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm with you on this one OP.... I don't care either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like. "

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do…. "

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I wouldn’t worry about , some random guys will be along soon to tell you how gorgeous you actually are and everything will be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?"

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Blimey this is typical forums . Would a woman be called shallow minded if he she didn’t reply to a man she didn’t find attractive

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

But do you have a pretty face OP?... Please send pics to rate "

Well this person obviously thought no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blimey this is typical forums . Would a woman be called shallow minded if he she didn’t reply to a man she didn’t find attractive "

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone! "

Apparently so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

But do you have a pretty face OP?... Please send pics to rate

Well this person obviously thought no "

Maybe they know you.

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

Thoughts and prayers"

Appreciated. It was a tough sleepless night of rejection

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone!

Apparently so!"

But only if you’re male if you’re female you can be as choosy as you’d like and it’s called having standards

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"If a man wrote this thread he'd be getting butchered by now

"

Well lucky for him, he didn’t

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone!

Apparently so!

But only if you’re male if you’re female you can be as choosy as you’d like and it’s called having standards "

Nah it's called been a bitch/fake/time waster.

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction.

Just send pictures of someone else, it's what I do. "

Dammit why didn’t I think of that

Vx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of those test threads isn’t it?

You know where a man and a woman post essentially the same thing a couple of days apart to see how the replies differ?

As such, I’ll offer two replies and you can choose which one you prefer:

(a) that’s awful OP, what a cad they must be, I bet your face is as stunning as the rest of your pics, it’s their loss, they must be mad not to reply;

or

(b) suck it up, nobody owes anyone a reply if they don’t fancy you. Stop whining and move on. etc etc

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Last time it happened to me and I didn't give a shit I also made a thread about it.

Actually, that's not a true story..."

Thank goodness. Who would do that?

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of those test threads isn’t it?

You know where a man and a woman post essentially the same thing a couple of days apart to see how the replies differ?

As such, I’ll offer two replies and you can choose which one you prefer:

(a) that’s awful OP, what a cad they must be, I bet your face is as stunning as the rest of your pics, it’s their loss, they must be mad not to reply;

or

(b) suck it up, nobody owes anyone a reply if they don’t fancy you. Stop whining and move on. etc etc

"

But in all seriousness, sorry to hear that OP, but welcome to the club!

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Its not a nice feeling is it.

Like I said. I don’t really care . But it has made me giggle…. Other foot and all that.

The fact you have made a post about it. Tells us that you do care. Lol x"

Nah. It doesn’t

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone!

Apparently so!

But only if you’re male if you’re female you can be as choosy as you’d like and it’s called having standards

Nah it's called been a bitch/fake/time waster. "

True but you’d have a bunch of people coming to your defence. When guys post similar posts they don’t get much sympathy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

Don’t you know…you have to be attracted to everyone!

Apparently so!

But only if you’re male if you’re female you can be as choosy as you’d like and it’s called having standards

Nah it's called been a bitch/fake/time waster.

True but you’d have a bunch of people coming to your defence. When guys post similar posts they don’t get much sympathy! "

Well no I fully agree, women get away with anything on here.

It's awesome.

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"This is one of those test threads isn’t it?

You know where a man and a woman post essentially the same thing a couple of days apart to see how the replies differ?

As such, I’ll offer two replies and you can choose which one you prefer:

(a) that’s awful OP, what a cad they must be, I bet your face is as stunning as the rest of your pics, it’s their loss, they must be mad not to reply;

or

(b) suck it up, nobody owes anyone a reply if they don’t fancy you. Stop whining and move on. etc etc

But in all seriousness, sorry to hear that OP, but welcome to the club! "

Thank you. I feel I belong

V x

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"This is one of those test threads isn’t it?

You know where a man and a woman post essentially the same thing a couple of days apart to see how the replies differ?

As such, I’ll offer two replies and you can choose which one you prefer:

(a) that’s awful OP, what a cad they must be, I bet your face is as stunning as the rest of your pics, it’s their loss, they must be mad not to reply;

or

(b) suck it up, nobody owes anyone a reply if they don’t fancy you. Stop whining and move on. etc etc

"

I love multiple choice. I choose...drum roll... (b)

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I know what is outrageous my landlords rent increase. I am genuinely worried I may become homeless at this rate, what with the price of energy bills,food prices and now this rent increase very worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sent a face picture and have been ignored ever since. Now that doesn’t happen very often.

Rood I tell you.

V x

Please note although the facts of the case are true the fact that I may appear to give a shit is total fiction. "

It’s a polite no. Move on.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Last time I sent a face picture I was turned down explicitly over my current facial hair.

It's still a triumph, though — I actually got a response!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the constant rising prices of Freddos outrageous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the constant rising prices of Freddos outrageous. "

You know Greggs sausage rolls have gone up again. That’s outrageous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to a guys world on here lmao

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"Welcome to a guys world on here lmao"

To true, if I ever get asked for face picture I know that's it end of messages

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Its not a nice feeling is it.

Like I said. I don’t really care . But it has made me giggle…. Other foot and all that.

The fact you have made a post about it. Tells us that you do care. Lol x

Nah. It doesn’t

V x "

Not even a tiny little bit? Not even a "I don't really care, but will stop what ever else I'm doing and open a thread about it to discuss it" bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are lost for words by your beauty ?

That’s what i usually tell myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?"

I’m talking about people who block you because of your appearance, I’ve spoken to a lot of people on here that I wasn’t initially attracted to, but met them in real person or got talking to them, to find they are attractive in many other ways….

One photo doesn’t always portray that person, who they are and what is attractive about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No matter what we tell ourselves, it always hurts to some degree when people reject you based on your face. Unlike our bodies, which we have a majority of control over, being rejected based on your face is more personal because it's out of your hands what you look like.

Agreed!

Sometimes our bodies are out of our hands too. Shallow minded people don’t always look so beautiful themselves, maybe that’s why they behave like they do….

What makes someone shallow minded? If they're not attracted to someone?

I’m talking about people who block you because of your appearance, I’ve spoken to a lot of people on here that I wasn’t initially attracted to, but met them in real person or got talking to them, to find they are attractive in many other ways….

One photo doesn’t always portray that person, who they are and what is attractive about them. "

Nothing wrong with blocking someone you find unattractive either it stops them contacting you again!

I’d never meet someone I find unattractive!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I use my face to hang my sunglasses and hat on

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It is a bit of a pain.

I've had a couple of messages ignored this week by fellow Tgirls, who usually respond to us other Tgirls, so I feel your frustration.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I actually use facepic Friday to dispose of people that keep sending me messages, I’m like “well you ask for it” and they’re like “oh you look sexy” in that wobbly, not quite convinced tone and then…….silence

Back to blissfully keeping my inbox empty, my OCD demands it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yeah we’ve had it and we’ve done the same - never quite sure if you should say ‘sorry not for us’ or not.

Couples especially as more often than not, one will be attractive (to us), the other won’t, so never quite sure how to respond

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we’ve had it and we’ve done the same - never quite sure if you should say ‘sorry not for us’ or not.

Couples especially as more often than not, one will be attractive (to us), the other won’t, so never quite sure how to respond

K"

Personally, I'd prefer a "sorry, not for us. All the best", especially if we've exchanged a few messages and seemed to have got on before the face pic was sent. Seems a bit cold to not reply at all after although it is their choice.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Yeah we’ve had it and we’ve done the same - never quite sure if you should say ‘sorry not for us’ or not.

Couples especially as more often than not, one will be attractive (to us), the other won’t, so never quite sure how to respond

K

Personally, I'd prefer a "sorry, not for us. All the best", especially if we've exchanged a few messages and seemed to have got on before the face pic was sent. Seems a bit cold to not reply at all after although it is their choice."

Yes, I would also prefer a "Sorry, not for me / us" message. However, I can completely understand why people don't feel able to send them.

I really, really appreciate it when people make the effort to actually and explicitly turn me down.

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By *irginie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Maybe they are lost for words by your beauty ?

That’s what i usually tell myself "

Of course!!!! Why didn’t I think of that.

Hurrah

V x

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