FabSwingers.com forum: Dumped by text

By *orny bi sub 82 OP Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Has this ever happened to anyone else, I find it so callous guys would even do this, rather than talk about things x #feelingshitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hope you’re okay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My pal got dumped this way. I took him out and got him horrendously d*unk.

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

No?!!

Faaaark... So callous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

No?!!

Faaaark... So callous"

I know! It was cowardly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to dump my step dad on behalf of my mother because she didn't have the balls to do it

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By *XXDREAMMan
over a year ago

sudbury

"I had to dump my step dad on behalf of my mother because she didn't have the balls to do it

Next level hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, 4 years together, living together for 3 of those and he text me at a work on a Monday morning.

Went straight home and put all his stuff in bin bags & left them at the front door.

Not my finest moment

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years. "

Don't blame him either. And he managed 12yrs? Man was a Saint

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't think there are any nice ways to dump someone, but there are better ways than text. The comedian Nick Page has a great routine about being dumped by Parcelforce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years.

Don't blame him either. And he managed 12yrs? Man was a Saint "

What is it with you? Two threads in 60 secs I’ve seen you attacking her on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sacked from a job by txt !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has this ever happened to anyone else, I find it so callous guys would even do this, rather than talk about things x #feelingshitty"

I don't think mobile phones had been invented when I was last dating!

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Text.... 6 years and a child together.

Not sure if I win or lose here!

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely sometimes it's better by text though? When I was 18 I travelled 3 hours to meet my boyfriend just to have him dump me as soon as I got off the train.

I'd much have preferred a text that time around.

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

Wow a fair few then? Basically I'm still friends with ex gf (known each other for 9 years) and he gave me the ultimatum. Then radio silence when I tried it explain things. We've only dated for a month!! Suppose that's the price to pay for dating a much younger guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told me she was nipping out to the shops. Texted me 10 mins later.

I was playing with our 1 year old son at the time.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years. "

Shit, you "win"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Ouch . Respect . Sorry hear that …

I got out after my baby girl was 2 , I not even knew we had brake up … i left cause she was being evil to me …

Never came to know why , not even a sms

I never cheated or tried to or anything

Really don’t get it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got dumped by text by a previous long term partner. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years.

Shit, you "win"!"

It's ok, apparently I deserve it and he was a saint lasting that long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

After 12 years. "

Oh … sorry to hear such a thing

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By *orny bi sub 82 OP Man
over a year ago

Shropshire

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Ouch . Respect . Sorry hear that …

I got out after my baby girl was 2 , I not even knew we had brake up … i left cause she was being evil to me …

Never came to know why , not even a sms

I never cheated or tried to or anything

Really don’t get it .

Ouch I feel ya, it's the not knowing bit that's the worse I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think there are any nice ways to dump someone, but there are better ways than text. The comedian Nick Page has a great routine about being dumped by Parcelforce

That’s cause you don’t dump people .

You just tell them with honesty that is not going to happen .

My ex Bev we are great friends . Was my honesty that kept us friends and she is an Angel who helped me a lot after we brake up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Ouch . Respect . Sorry hear that …

I got out after my baby girl was 2 , I not even knew we had brake up … i left cause she was being evil to me …

Never came to know why , not even a sms

I never cheated or tried to or anything

Really don’t get it .

Ouch I feel ya, it's the not knowing bit that's the worse I guess? "

Respect for you as well . Sorry hear your story .

Yeah . Guess makes part of her pleasure in the torture …

Me personally don’t understand . I hate drama .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather be dumped by text than face to face. Can grieve in privacy and saves any awkwardness or embarrassment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Take that 5 and raise it to 11.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Never been dumped by text, but got made redundant by one though

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Nope, never dumped by text.

Did get completely ghosted by someone after 3 years on Christmas Eve.

But not by text, that would just be cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?"

Wow, Tom, a post that made me actually think

. I think I'd prefer to be ghosted than have a text. Being ghosted let's you know they don't know how to deal with it, so chickened out. Receiving a text let's you know they think a text is fine, and I'd rather they were ignorant than rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dumped over whatsapp and was instantly blocked on any and all platform and she moved.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

Wow, Tom, a post that made me actually think

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yup ..happened to me a month ago after eight year's relationship

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I ended my 13 year relationship via text. It was the only option given the circumstances surrounding the breakup.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Has this ever happened to anyone else, I find it so callous guys would even do this, rather than talk about things x #feelingshitty"

I had a lover try this.... I called him immediately and demanded a face-to-face conversation....

He obliged but spend the whole time with his head in his hands. Looking back poor thing. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I had to dump my step dad on behalf of my mother because she didn't have the balls to do it

OMG!!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I got dumped via WhatsApp after 5 years together

Text.... 6 years and a child together.

Not sure if I win or lose here! "

Fark!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

Wow, Tom, a post that made me actually think

Being ghosted is no fun either, I'd rather know they were just a knob.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Its not good to dump and not good to be dumped .

Either way then you are dumped..

No winners here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. "

I am surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not good to dump and not good to be dumped .

Either way then you are dumped..

No winners here"

Usually around 0630 in the morning is without doubt the time to..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I wouldn’t do that and I am the lowest of the low

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?"

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

I wish someone had taught my ex this trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

I wish someone had taught my ex this trick. "

Two attempts for that ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

I wish someone had taught my ex this trick.

Two attempts for that ?! "

I'm laid down, it's harder to type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

I wish someone had taught my ex this trick.

Two attempts for that ?!

I'm flicking my bean, it's harder to type."

Gotta be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a text better than being ghosted.. ?

...or coming home after a week away in another country for work and your home is empty

...that's not just ghosting that's a disappearing magic trick

I wish someone had taught my ex this trick.

Two attempts for that ?!

I'm flicking my bean, it's harder to type.

Gotta be done "

Dam you got me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread makes me realise why I don't do Internet, or phones,...

And no one is going to waste a postcard and stamp on dumping me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this thread makes me realise why I don't do Internet, or phones,...

And no one is going to waste a postcard and stamp on dumping me

Challenge accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of but i understand why tho she learned well

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