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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.... on its head

What sort of messages would MEN like to receive ?

Do you like a measured introduction or do you prefer a 'you're hot, wanna meet ?' approach ?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I get a lot of one line messages along the lines of nice pics or I like your profile. I don't mind one liners, that is all I need really, I can take if from there, usually I reply with 3 or 4 paragraphs about myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I just clarify to any men that may be scared to reply, the question was asked in general and refers to mail from all site users, not just me

Had visions of men sat round thinking 'I'm saying nowt, I don't want that nutter messaging me'

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Can I just clarify to any men that may be scared to reply, the question was asked in general and refers to mail from all site users, not just me

Had visions of men sat round thinking 'I'm saying nowt, I don't want that nutter messaging me' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify to any men that may be scared to reply, the question was asked in general and refers to mail from all site users, not just me

Had visions of men sat round thinking 'I'm saying nowt, I don't want that nutter messaging me' "

Again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

difficult to know.

being a man if i sent out friends requests without any prior communication it would lead to a block.

yet couples send me requests in the same manner nearly everyday.

question is.do they really know what they want?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if I was looking...

I would love a message that is crafted following the reading of my entire profile, understanding my preferences and the identification that they believe they meet them. That they would sell themselves enough to me to get my interest from any others. It is about OUR mutual pleasure and not just for her to get an orgasm, wipe her fanny with a tissue, pull her knickers up and leave....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I was looking...

I would love a message that is crafted following the reading of my entire profile, understanding my preferences and the identification that they believe they meet them. That they would sell themselves enough to me to get my interest from any others. It is about OUR mutual pleasure and not just for her to get an orgasm, wipe her fanny with a tissue, pull her knickers up and leave...."

Are knickers optional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... on its head

What sort of messages would MEN like to receive ?

Do you like a measured introduction or do you prefer a 'you're hot, wanna meet ?' approach ?"

Men get messages???? Friggin eck!!

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

What a good question Bussy.

Im interested to see the replies...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any kind of approach currently would make me fall off my seat n click logout by accident in all the excitement!!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I prefer messages that bring out their personality not necessarily bothered what the initial content is - if that makes sense?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Three phrase Haiku with a representation of two juxtapositioned images and a 17 syllable count (well, actuall 'on', but lets not split hairs) always goes down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know when I get a message aimed at me and not Mrs Artful

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Three phrase Haiku with a representation of two juxtapositioned images and a 17 syllable count (well, actuall 'on', but lets not split hairs) always goes down well. "

Haikus can be fun

But they don't always make sense

Refrigerator

Fancy a shag?

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows


".... on its head

What sort of messages would MEN like to receive ?

Do you like a measured introduction or do you prefer a 'you're hot, wanna meet ?' approach ?"

Dont mind what lind of messages I get as long as they are positive and result in me and a lady bumping bits

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