FabSwingers.com forum: Signs of desperation...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever had a message from somebody who wants to meet up and they're not your type? You saying no thanks but they are insistent and send you adult pictures? Not taking no as an answer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, quite often...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a number of times.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I get this late at night in clubs, when a guy hasn't had any fun with a woman or a couple and try to settle on me. It's a firm no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had to block a guy for the 4th or 5th time, losing count tbh

Just no awareness of boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you could have stopped your question after 6 words and the answer would still be no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically all men.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes and block as soon as any graphic pics or repeat messages start.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Yes, lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not desperation.

Sometimes though it's just not the right vibe. Actually talk to me like an actual person, not an object.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often than not unfortunately

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

Because if we're not and never will be interested we block so there can't be any future contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every damn day

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"No.

Because if we're not and never will be interested we block so there can't be any future contact.

I actually think that is a good idea

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

happens every day, after saying no thanks they continue, the only solution is to block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, replied a polite no thanks and got three dick pics in return the other day

Apparently I made him do it.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Most of the initial messages I get sound like that

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Thankfully no. Probably because I'm your average single male.

Anyone else has my sympathies.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, it's really annoying but also confirms that I was right to say no.

I once turned down a lady as I thought she was too young, within seconds I had about 20 photos of her tits and different lingerie saying this is what you are missing, my point kinda got proven.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

Because if we're not and never will be interested we block so there can't be any future contact.

Except for when they create a new profile

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Yes a few times but they didn't follow up with pics.

They did however suffer from short term memory loss and asked did I not know who they were?

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I've just had to block a guy for the 4th or 5th time, losing count tbh

Just no awareness of boundaries"

There one we've blocked 8 or 9 times on different accounts.

Unfathomable how he can keep doing the same thing over and over again and expect to get anywhere.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You need to practice your NO. Try saying it with a silent N and silent O , it works much better

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

All the time. It's weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost daily.

One guy today told us that he only became a site supporter because he wanted to message us so the least we could do was meet him for a social.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Twice, one was just terrible english. You know the type, english native but practically unintelligible.

And a lady who i was civil to, but politely declined but she just kept trying to persuade me.

Now however i’d like a tumble with all nationalities/races etc.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Almost daily.

One guy today told us that he only became a site supporter because he wanted to message us so the least we could do was meet him for a social."

That's incredible! The least you could do?

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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

We've had a few in the short time we've had this profile.

One has sent us exactly the same message 4 times telling us how amazing we are and asking to meet and we've told him every time that he doesn't fit what we are looking for and have no interest in chatting.

We've also had another well verified but virtually blank profile not accepting that we don't chat to lazy profiles and getting nasty when we repeatedly said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of them are knobs to be fair!

The amount of times I get: “I take it it’s a No then?” Is the most annoying thing.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"We've had a few in the short time we've had this profile.

We've also had another well verified but virtually blank profile not accepting that we don't chat to lazy profiles and getting nasty when we repeatedly said no. "

Why haven't you blocked them?

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By *exyfungirl78Woman
over a year ago

Colchester

Yes a lot of the time. They continue to message you with dick pics and then some get abusive because I’ve said I’m not interested politely.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Earns a swift block from me.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Once or twice

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By *m A FuckerMan
over a year ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

All day every day

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Have you ever had a message from somebody who wants to meet up and they're not your type? You saying no thanks but they are insistent and send you adult pictures? Not taking no as an answer...

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no never

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Its a common occurrence

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Thankfully never as I only message those I want to meet ... oh, wait, oh no, ...that means I'm the desperate one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple times daily! This is 50% of my messages probably!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Happens all the time. That’s why I’ve scaled my profile down and not been so active.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If it's single words like hi or hello I don't engage. It shows a lack of effort.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, quite a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had to block a guy for the 4th or 5th time, losing count tbh

Just no awareness of boundaries"

You are crazy hot mind... but yeah no means no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully never as I only message those I want to meet ... oh, wait, oh no, ...that means I'm the desperate one

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