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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

This is why I would Ike a true fwb not just a fuck buddy very hard to find x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

sometimes that's all we want too. Most people add 'maybe more ' to the end of a social invitation though which always puts me off. 10/10 to you for being crystal clear

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

It helps that I'm already owned by a couple. Expanding a group of friends is fine, if people click over a social then it perfectly acceptable to arrange future meets in a club, assuming I get permission from Mistress. But no, Sunday is just for beer, football and putting the world to rights round a table.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Agreed it is perfectly acceptable to arrange to meet 'for more' at a later date. That's how we do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?"

Good point !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Surely he can choose who he wants to socialise with.

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?"

It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."

Fair point well made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."

FAB....

The final resting place of the eternal optimists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely he can choose who he wants to socialise with."

He is and us and others can choose to be sceptical.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely he can choose who he wants to socialise with.

He is and us and others can choose to be sceptical."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."

I’m really not being a dick here but surely you see the irony in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?"

In his defence I rarely enjoy the company of other men, I get on better with women always have and likely always will. I tend not to enjoy the bravado that tends to happen on a "Lads night" whereas I can happily chat for hours with a lady and not expect anything more

Doughnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

In his defence I rarely enjoy the company of other men, I get on better with women always have and likely always will. I tend not to enjoy the bravado that tends to happen on a "Lads night" whereas I can happily chat for hours with a lady and not expect anything more

Doughnut "

I’m not disputing any of this. I’m just giving a reason why many won’t take him up on the offer.

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Yes, people can be a mess of contradictions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "

No men?

I can pretty much guarantee somewhere along the line will be some kind of come on.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "

Sounds awesome!

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

Sounds awesome!

"

Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

Sounds awesome!

Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon. "

We wouldn’t force you to do anything… you would hand it over willingly

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

Sounds awesome!

Sorry, people on my Hotlist aren't allowed, too much temptation. Plus, you might force me to hand over my Lego Millennium Falcon. "

If it's the UCS, I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would do that even with some men on here if they bring their lychee juice !

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "
sounds great

Let us know if you get lucky.

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great

Let us know if you get lucky. "

I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost given up trying for social only meets. It's often a case of never say never for more but it's more damn hot to let that develop unplanned.

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By *amasoporkyCouple
over a year ago

midlands

We seem to find as soon as we mention top of our list is a fun social they seem to ignore us and run a mile

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"We seem to find as soon as we mention top of our list is a fun social they seem to ignore us and run a mile "

Yeah, I'm too old to go chasing pump & dump, it's a kids game. There's a time and a place for that.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"We seem to find as soon as we mention top of our list is a fun social they seem to ignore us and run a mile "

Yep! It's a sure way for the conversation to go cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you want is perfectly acceptable in my book, I’d do exactly the same for company

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.

Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.

Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP. "

I hope those lucky two people answer your message promptly and set a date

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm crystal clear that a social is just that and clothes will stay on.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd love a social only with people. I'm just a bit of a procrastinator when it comes to actually organising things.

Sod it, I'm going to message two people and suggest actual days. Great thread OP.

I hope those lucky two people answer your message promptly and set a date "

Aww thank you Fratellis! It's really nice when people answer messages promptly isn't it? Makes you feel all warm and happy inside.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great

Let us know if you get lucky.

I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about

"

That could suggest that you at least want to talk about sex

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Op I agree Sunday should just be a chilled one football few drinks and go home. Sounds like a good day hope you get your social

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. sounds great

Let us know if you get lucky.

I could just invite vanilla mates, but there's less to talk about

That could suggest that you at least want to talk about sex "

Bay bee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" sometimes that's all we want too. Most people add 'maybe more ' to the end of a social invitation though which always puts me off. 10/10 to you for being crystal clear"

This tends to put us off too. We often look for social only but that expectation always seems to be there somewhere when sometimes all you want is to chat and have a laugh.

Pxx

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester

You are all beautiful people, namaste ??

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday. "

this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.

If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!

I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!

did you post on the meets page?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

OP there is a derby social if you check in the meets section, if you are looking for likeminded company for a social

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"OP there is a derby social if you check in the meets section, if you are looking for likeminded company for a social"

There is, but I'm going to watch the game. If conversation contains stuff that you wouldn't bring up with vanilla friends then it's comfortable.

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By *ackbydemand OP   Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.

If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!

I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!

did you post on the meets page?"

No I didn't, I haven't really perused the forum that much and social meets can branch off into people slipping away for a sly BJ. I'm there to watch football, if sexy talk starts I'm comfortable knowing I can talk. But, and I can't stress this enough, there will under no conditions be sex at the end.

By the way, that's only my rule, if 2 other people turn up, then slope of together for a cheeky BJ then more power to them, they deserve it.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Sometimes I just want to have a couple of beers, watch a game in a sports bar and chat rubbish for a couple of hours with like minded people. Not looking to hook up, not looking for a cheeky handjob under the table, not looking for back to mine afterwards.

Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

this is very interesting. I only come to Fab for sex things because I can't talk about sex things with my family, friends, other social groups and other support groups and because I don't have a sex therapist.

If I want to watch a game....I just go to my local pub and start talking to other people watching the games on. Lol!

I chat enough rubbish on the forum and with my usual social life. Lol!

did you post on the meets page?

No I didn't, I haven't really perused the forum that much and social meets can branch off into people slipping away for a sly BJ. I'm there to watch football, if sexy talk starts I'm comfortable knowing I can talk. But, and I can't stress this enough, there will under no conditions be sex at the end.

By the way, that's only my rule, if 2 other people turn up, then slope of together for a cheeky BJ then more power to them, they deserve it."

Ok Good luck. I will be at work while the men at work cry about who's losing. Lol!

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Good luck with your search

If you were on my doorstep it would be my idea of a great social.

I understand wanting to be able to relax, take off the mask, and not have to watch what you say.

Daft things as normal as mentioning your wife but also your owner for example, even though the conversation is normal about music or art or politics, you can't openly talk about the people in your life over a pint with Barry from Work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman or couple, in Derby on Sunday.

This line is that makes people sceptical. If you only want a few beers and to watch some sports why can’t it be a man?

It's fine to be sceptical, but generally single men tend to broach the subject of a cheeky blow job and totally ruin it."

not the pals I drink with.

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