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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep then I married him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep then I married him. "
that's boss

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met my perfect fab fuck buddy.. we aren’t going to get married or anything like Lorna… but he’s a great fab friend who has opened my world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't exist.

But I'd take perfectly imperfect & perfect for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "
I'm sorry about your loss, I'm glad you had some good years you'll treasure them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve met my perfect fab fuck buddy.. we aren’t going to get married or anything like Lorna… but he’s a great fab friend who has opened my world!"
love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowhere near.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been lucky with meets so I have and I suspect another chap who I’ll meet in the not so distant future will be just as perfect. Connection and intimacy are pretty key to making a fab meet perfect for me and I can usually tell if we’ll have that even before we’ve met!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven't, almost did but distance played a role

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet distance always plays a part with me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought I did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not yet distance always plays a part with me too "
occupational hazard on here

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Nope

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I thought I had during my previous time in fab, but it was not to be

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "

Ah shit, that’s awful.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Yep then I married him. "

I love this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought I did "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few I’ve spoke to that are pretty wonderful people if that’s what you mean.

#they know wh….etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I have met and had some truly wonderful encounters and experiences. For some they were perfect in that we both got what we wanted out of the time spent together. Some of those encounters haven’t even resulted in sex but friendships have been made, which for me is what I value more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think I might have

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"..."

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland


"I’ve been lucky with meets so I have and I suspect another chap who I’ll meet in the not so distant future will be just as perfect. Connection and intimacy are pretty key to making a fab meet perfect for me and I can usually tell if we’ll have that even before we’ve met! "

Lucky chap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found people who are perfect for what I want out of Fab, some escapism, snogs, naughtiness, banter, then go home afterwards with no ties. Perfect for me.

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "

That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special."

Thanks. Me too. X

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Nope.

But I'm never going to find and nor do I want to, all that I want in just one man, I'd have variety in a harem instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "

bless ya my lovely x keep smiling xx

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "

Sorry to hear this Peachy,

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "

Sorry to hear this

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

No. I havent met them yet

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Yes.. All 5 of them

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’ve been lucky had / having some amazing relationships lasting years in some cases. It’s hard to imagine anyone out there better, but every new relationship brings a new journey - that’s the fun

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We've met plenty, only need to be perfect for one night.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I'd say we have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly I have ... after 29 years happily single with most excellent fwbs, I/we met the person we wish to spend the rest of our lives with! It was a complete and utter shock to both of us, not what we were looking for at all and incredibly difficult because we're dating mainly by plane but working towards more and more permanence! The adventure is awesome and every moment is better than the last!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m very happy with what I have/had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No such thing. "

Maybe not, but it’s fun looking

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Every single one has been perfect.

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Yes, yes we have

We found each other on here and right from the start we were amazed at how similar we were. Our paths crossing was perfect timing, neither of us looking for anything more than FWB but realising we so much more potential.

As for our play friends on here - we have met some fantastic people who respect our relationship and have enriched our life’s and bought us many hot memories

K

K

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

I’ll settle for a meet first before I get the perfect partner in crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, met on here (although we had met once previously in real life when M fixed my range master)

Been together a year now!

I have also met my best friends on here so fab meets have worked very well for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought I had he was my perfect (when I say that I don’t mean he was perfect!) but now a list of minimums n if you don’t fit them then your not fit me! N he over exceeded but we struggle to get together

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

yip we met on fab 5 years ago.went through some hell regarding splitting up with our x s.we now love every minute we spend together, just love each other, life,laughs,fun and madness,, so much so that we getting married at Christmas...life couldn't get any better for us.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Yep then I married him. "

Snap

J x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and whilst I've not met mine, a lot of people have met me and I'm very confident that they met their perfect fab

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't believe in perfection but I have met some wonderful people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't believe in perfection but I have met some wonderful people. "

This is how I see things nowadays. I came to realise with my flaw as I’m actually awesome. (Open to debate) so I see others like that. It’s the flaws and imperfections of people that make them perfect to me.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I have met someone who makes my soul happy, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am - it’s not perfect (that’s a myth) but its a feeling I’d bottle if I could and that’s more than enough for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time

The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


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I did..

But he was a prick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special.

Thanks. Me too. X"

I've reached the stage of not giving too much credit up front. I'll only believe it is genuine interest when I see it lasts & it has held fast for a while in person.

So many say what they think will get them what they want from you with the least amount of effort. The 'any holes a goal' brigade. But if it's fake it's not sustainable, so time is your friend in these things and why I don't do quick anything on here as a rule.

Lots come on playing 'escape from the ho_elife' with no intention of following through.

Others want a fuck & go but say they want fwb or more 'sure we'll see what happens'....right

You wouldn't need a crystal ball tbh

So it's the chill, the steady & 'only when I'm ready' for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met someone who makes my soul happy, who understands me and appreciates me for who I am - it’s not perfect (that’s a myth) but its a feeling I’d bottle if I could and that’s more than enough for me xx"

Definitely more than many ever find

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Yep then I married him. "

Likewise.

A

*her. Not him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time

The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not "

Hope she returns n stays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

She was who i was born to meet she gave me the happiest moments of my life but the universe only wanted to tease me with that happiness for a short time

The only thing that has kept me breathing is the hope that shes smiling and the need to be here for the moment shes not

Hope she returns n stays "
i do miss her but at this point i only hope shes happy i have got her back if she needs me either way thats what i promissed

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Nope.

But I'm never going to find and nor do I want to, all that I want in just one man, I'd have variety in a harem instead "

This is the dream

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "

Showed his true colours... A blessing before you met! Probably saved some heartache x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I did..

But he was a prick "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had for a few years but it ended recently, it wasn't to be.

I have been lucky and reconnected with someone that is, how long for who knows.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes! More than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think I might have J x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

Showed his true colours... A blessing before you met! Probably saved some heartache x"

I’m trying to see it that way. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I think I might have J x "
like this

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

That’s horrible hope you find someone else that is special.

Thanks. Me too. X

I've reached the stage of not giving too much credit up front. I'll only believe it is genuine interest when I see it lasts & it has held fast for a while in person.

So many say what they think will get them what they want from you with the least amount of effort. The 'any holes a goal' brigade. But if it's fake it's not sustainable, so time is your friend in these things and why I don't do quick anything on here as a rule.

Lots come on playing 'escape from the ho_elife' with no intention of following through.

Others want a fuck & go but say they want fwb or more 'sure we'll see what happens'....right

You wouldn't need a crystal ball tbh

So it's the chill, the steady & 'only when I'm ready' for me "

Yeah I get that x

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"Yep then I married him. "

And what a fantastic couple you two make

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I've meet a few

And we good friends on & off fab

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

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By *oxy babeWoman
over a year ago

gower

Yes, we met 4 months ago and are completely compatible in every way and the passion and intensity we experience when together is like nothing we’ve ever experienced before with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's absolutely no reason why people cant meet their soulmate here , it's as good a place as any , it has happened before and will again , it could happen when least expected, don't rule anything out ,and if it does .. wayyyyy ta go !!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yep. Wasn't even actively looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special. "

You are very beautiful . Sorry hear that .

I just had the biggest let down of the year too .

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Surprisingly I have ... after 29 years happily single with most excellent fwbs, I/we met the person we wish to spend the rest of our lives with! It was a complete and utter shock to both of us, not what we were looking for at all and incredibly difficult because we're dating mainly by plane but working towards more and more permanence! The adventure is awesome and every moment is better than the last! "

This is lovely. So happy for you my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some lovely folk which is all I'm seeking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's absolutely no reason why people cant meet their soulmate here , it's as good a place as any , it has happened before and will again , it could happen when least expected, don't rule anything out ,and if it does .. wayyyyy ta go !! "

You’d think so but many people have preconceptions of what fab can and can’t be in regards of meeting people for more than sex

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Every week at least once I think yes I could live with this person then naaaa

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Yes I have I thought I met them last year but that didn't workout sadly which was probably my fault then I met S and my journey in this scene has taken a completely different route so much so we now have a couples profile on here and everything just seemed to click into place #Hannabarbera

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "

Sorry to hear about your loss how sad

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Yes, we met 4 months ago and are completely compatible in every way and the passion and intensity we experience when together is like nothing we’ve ever experienced before with anyone."

Awwww that’s lovely. Really pleased for you.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

I'm hoping I have, but still very early days.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"...

I thought I had. Clicked completely. Swapped messages and VM’s for days (dozens every day). The chap said he’s moving back to leyland (where I live) from abroad in a few months. We both said we were looking for someone special and hoped it might be each other.

Then we had a telephone conversation. Turns out he’s 5 years older than his profile. Not a huge deal - but when VMing again he had a massive rant about women on here who are nothing to look at but demand younger men (we’ve all seen this type of post on the forums ) - and when I replied I was blocked.

This was only last night. I’m kinda sad really - thought I’d actually found someone who might be special.

You are very beautiful . Sorry hear that .

I just had the biggest let down of the year too .

"

Oh I’m sorry to hear that lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, n still goin after 7yrs

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By *aldeeCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Yep, I was on fab as a single girl and he was on here as a single guy. We've been together 9 months and now engaged. Now on here as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did, but she died about four years ago. We were so sexually suited it always felt too good to be true. At least we had a few years of fantastic fun. "

Ah man, sorry to hear this. Treasure those memories

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By *alking HeadMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I couldn't talk to anyone about it, I couldn't even attend her funeral. Nobody knew about us and we just had a few years of illicit happiness a couple if times a week. I suppose it was like the first few months of a vanilla relationship but eked out over a much longer period. I just wish I could relive it all again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wendy was my perfect fabber…but then we divorced and haven’t found another…

Being single on fab is soul destroying!

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Have I bollocks

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I wish but sadly no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me"

You should have moved to Japan also if at all possible, when that fish is left back into the water it's very very hard to find someone that you click with like that again .

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By *intiemintieWoman
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Nope. Distance... I may as well be on Mars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I met them. They’re too childish for fab. They’re very neurotic and play childish games fit for a teen. Simply because I once posted a meet verification from someone they disliked they blew their top at me!!! They block me, unblock me and each time after I send the first message, I play the fool and follow with their replies along only for them to ghost me and then block me again, thankfully this time I’ve blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still haven't met my 1st haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think I have and then they do or say something that makes me never want to see them again

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in


"Yes, yes we have

We found each other on here and right from the start we were amazed at how similar we were. Our paths crossing was perfect timing, neither of us looking for anything more than FWB but realising we so much more potential.

As for our play friends on here - we have met some fantastic people who respect our relationship and have enriched our life’s and bought us many hot memories

K

K"

This is us also,started off as fuck buddies then feelings went deeper, fell in love and now live together, our paths crossed at the right time also, feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each fab event we've had has in it's own right been brilliant - even the one where a couple flitted the moment they set eyes on us :

We get something from just the idea of doing all sorts of naughty things and sometimes they actually happen but they don't have to for it to open our horizons and give us amazing experiences with or without extra anatomy - remember folks 90% of sex is in the mind.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I thought I met them. They’re too childish for fab. They’re very neurotic and play childish games fit for a teen. Simply because I once posted a meet verification from someone they disliked they blew their top at me!!! They block me, unblock me and each time after I send the first message, I play the fool and follow with their replies along only for them to ghost me and then block me again, thankfully this time I’ve blocked them.

"

In fairness I don’t think it’s a question of being childish - though some of their methods are childish.

Even as a mature adult the verification process can be a major head fuck. You have an amazing time with someone - particularly when you’ve met several times and developed a connection - then read a verification someone’s given that indicates they had just as amazing time with another person - and another.

We’re all aware that fab isn’t about exclusivity - but having it literally in your face can be difficult for many and isn’t necessarily ‘childish’ imo.

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By *rs W AnchorWoman
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Yep. I've found my kinky best friend on fab. He encourages and supports me as well as joining me as I delve into this crazy world. Not going to get married or anything but we very much enjoy what we've got together

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I've been here exactly one month and already seen some amazing people.

I don't know what a perfect fabber is, but it's an incredible gathering of beautiful, fascinating people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still waiting. .. *opens filters

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I suppose I should say yes really shouldn't I, you know what with having a fiancé I absolutely adore to bits thanks to here. But I don't believe in perfect. I don't have an idea of what my perfect fabber would be because everyone is a little bit flawed and that's what makes them occasionally eyerollingly brilliant.

I've met some truly beautiful people who make me think, want to cry, want to devour them. Challenge me. Arouse me effortlessly. Maybe they're my kintsugi of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah but it doesn't say fabber just fab

I've taken that as an event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I had but turned out to be nothing but drama, jealousy and lies … all the things we had both said we didn’t want or need when looking for a connection.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I have, to an extent.

If it weren’t for the distance.

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, she's my girlfriend now

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

I have indeed!!!

happy to call him my man I'm one very lucky lady

Sweet

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Dunno because ive never Met them in person but I chat to some lovely people on here. Proper conversations not FAF … and oooh I want to lick marshmallows off your inner thigh… proper conversations like ‘ hey awesome tits FAF?’ So much nicer when you open with a compliment!!!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Many times, for many reasons, but because I think I am ever-evolving (pretentious monkey that I am), there has never been one fab to end them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now "

What about the five seconds rule?

Or does that only apply to stuff dropped on the floor?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now

What about the five seconds rule?

Or does that only apply to stuff dropped on the floor?"

I licked him again after he fell on the floor...because I'm dirty like that

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I did and I followed Beyoncé' advice and I put a ring on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. And I licked him so he's mine now

What about the five seconds rule?

Or does that only apply to stuff dropped on the floor?

I licked him again after he fell on the floor...because I'm dirty like that "

Awesome

You got class & style

(Said in that - country ayynd western fake deep south accent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh but he turned out to be not so perfect in the end.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've made some incredible friends who've changed my life forever.

Perfect? No. I don't believe it exists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ladies I have come across who are wonderful have been miles and miles away! Sigh

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I did and I wasn't even looking for anything, he swept me off my feet and one year later we're still together and going strong x

Tg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not yet ... but I live in hope

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Several times.

A few total arsewipes but my fab journey has sent me great friends and lovers. All perfect for me either at a point in time or longer.

V x

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I thought I had but turned out to be nothing but drama, jealousy and lies … all the things we had both said we didn’t want or need when looking for a connection. "

Sorry to hear that. It’s shitty.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met ? On here .. a 'meet' .. what's that then?!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Dunno because ive never Met them in person but I chat to some lovely people on here. Proper conversations not FAF … and oooh I want to lick marshmallows off your inner thigh… proper conversations like ‘ hey awesome tits FAF?’ So much nicer when you open with a compliment!!! "

Great user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had anyone said “No I haven’t, but the people who have met me have” yet?

If not, can I be the first? Fanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met the most beautiful perfect wonderful lady on here and fell instantly in love with her...had the most amazing six months of my life with her

See my story from a previous profile...' The girl who has my heart forever '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep then I married him. "

What she said!...not her husband though!! (Who I am sure is lovely!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime I wake up and look in the mirror!!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Pah!!

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By *eviant KnightMan
over a year ago

Norton

Unfortunately not,

The search continues

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

For now, yes but I'm sure there's always potential to meet better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For now, yes but I'm sure there's always potential to meet better"

If the poor chap is reading that, he's just taken a downward spiral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes,long time ago now though.Found each other on here,met a few times,decided we clicked really well and had a great three years on here as a couple.Sadly she moved back to Japan for family reasons,but the three years we had were everything I'd ever wanted from swinging.I live in hope of someday finding another swinging partner that's so compatible with me

You should have moved to Japan also if at all possible, when that fish is left back into the water it's very very hard to find someone that you click with like that again ."

As much as I wanted to,I couldn't leave my kids behind and there's no way on earth their mother would allow them to move with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For now, yes but I'm sure there's always potential to meet better

If the poor chap is reading that, he's just taken a downward spiral "

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By *g1231974Man
over a year ago

wetherby

Yes but not on Fab! And unfortunately was visiting from America. Total Fab superstar material though!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yep. Right guy wrong time. In a parallel universe I’m with every perfect person I’ve ever met Juat not in this one.

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