FabSwingers.com forum: What do you wear for a social?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious, I’m a comfort type of girl, love leggings boots with a nice top of some sort.

What do you girls like wearing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever im wearing that day i dont dress up for anyone

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Whatever you feel most comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you meant girls im out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Depends on when & where i guess.

If it's a week daytime, then probably my suit. Evenings & weekends would be smart casual - Jeans, shoes, shirt & maybe a jumper.

At the end of the day, it's good to feel relaxed with that you're wearing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh you meant girls im out

Na guys can comment too lol. I’m a bit like you wear what I’m wearing on the day , just wondered if people expect more of an effort just for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had the opportunity to have a social yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Something tasteful and classy in leopard print. What else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol"

By the looks of your photos i dont think it'd matter what you wore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for something that ties in with where we'll be meeting and the time of day.

Comfortable is as sexy as chic or short etc

It's the person who wears the clothes after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a dress with sandals or boots depending on season.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top hat and tails. Might take a cane depending on how dandy I'm feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol"

My day to day style is quite sexy! I don’t own any joggers or trainers and only one pair of jeans. If I’m leaving the house, I’m making an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the setting, but I keep it low key mostly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll wear what I'm comfortable in. If it's just a coffee probably jeans and a top x

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Always overly dress for an occasion ,it's come in handy a few times.

Meeting at midday but still out come gone midnight , wouldn't have been able to get into certain venues if had been wearing 'day clothes' such as t-shirt and trainers

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Smart casual

leave a few buttons open when wearing shirt and sleeves rolled up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even for a social I’d expect a guy to make an effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh you meant girls im out

Na guys can comment too lol. I’m a bit like you wear what I’m wearing on the day , just wondered if people expect more of an effort just for a social. "
good girl this is the way

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Jeans and a low cut top to show a bit of cleavage and usually a waterproof jacket. I don’t do sexy attire!

It all seems to work

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well Mrs always makes the effort to look and smell good.

Even for a coffee.

Amazing how many guy's turn up looking like they are doing their gardening or clearing out the garage.

They don't usually get a second meet.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Tuxedo

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Just curious, I’m a comfort type of girl, love leggings boots with a nice top of some sort.

What do you girls like wearing?"

Wear whatever you are comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I meet someone for a social and it looks like they have made no effort I would find that very disappointing.

Also very unlikely to lead to anymore meets.

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By *SilentPMan
over a year ago

Leicester

For a social then I make an effort to look presentable without going OTT, the rest of the time I wear what is suitable for the situation on that day.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

My normal day to day clothes which is always a dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Top hat and tails. Might take a cane depending on how dandy I'm feeling."

This. And shoes.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Something tasteful and classy in leopard print. What else?

Same...

Usually at this time of year, leggings, boots and a dress/jumper dress/tunic top.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My stormtrooper kit.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Whatever I feel like wearing at the time . I had 2 socials last week, one in the evening and one during the day . The evening one I wore a dress, heels, stockings and suspenders. The other I wore jeans and a jumper .

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"Whatever I feel like wearing at the time . I had 2 socials last week, one in the evening and one during the day . The evening one I wore a dress, heels, stockings and suspenders. The other I wore jeans and a jumper . "

Note to Self - always organise socials for the EVENING time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever do evening socials

but I’d wear similar to what you wore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual, jeans or chinos, boots, shirt, jacket.

If I'm feeling really fruity, I might even tuck the shirt in.

I jest, I always tuck the shirt in.

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

Oh I'll always make an effort, whatever the time of day, or day of the week. I'm of an age now where I feel I kind of have to! But I'll dress appropriately for the chosen venue - nothing worse than feeling overdressed!!

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"Tuxedo "

I see your tuxedo and I raise you - a WHITE tuxedo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its an organised social then i 'dress to impress' - heels +dress for instance... I think last time i wore a jumpsuit with heels

On Saturday I'll probably wear black tight trousers +a black top /jacket, simply because I'll be on the train and have to do a bit of walking

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I like to dress unconventionally smart with a naturally contemporary flair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best gym shorts and T-shirt combo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to dress sexy, little dress and heels. With something to change down too in my bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to dress sexy, little dress and heels. With something to change down too in my bag

x "

Liar

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Summer a dress winter jeans and top with boots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart Casual always.

I don't dress overly smart because that's not me. I'd rather someone see me for my honest self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to dress sexy, little dress and heels. With something to change down too in my bag

Liar

Umm I have the pics to prove it

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol

My day to day style is quite sexy! I don’t own any joggers or trainers and only one pair of jeans. If I’m leaving the house, I’m making an effort

Women can still ' make an effort ' but not be wearing short skirts, silk blouses or tight dresses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol

My day to day style is quite sexy! I don’t own any joggers or trainers and only one pair of jeans. If I’m leaving the house, I’m making an effort

Women can still ' make an effort ' but not be wearing short skirts, silk blouses or tight dresses "

Should have known someone would jump in this as some personal affront!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hoody, leggings, trainers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hoody, leggings, trainers.

Leggings you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually jeans, nice trainers, a polo neck or t shirt or a jumper if it's cold. Suppose I try and make an effort with my hair too

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Whatever I feel like on the day... Sometimes I like getting dressed up, sometimes not... But mostly I do as I get bored of only wearing my work stuff or PJs

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I wear something sexy! A tight dress or a mini skirt and silk blouse. I don’t do comfort unless I’m home alone

Ah see they just seems too much effort for me lol

My day to day style is quite sexy! I don’t own any joggers or trainers and only one pair of jeans. If I’m leaving the house, I’m making an effort

Women can still ' make an effort ' but not be wearing short skirts, silk blouses or tight dresses

Should have known someone would jump in this as some personal affront! "

Relax...I'm not taking it personal or as an affront. Just making an alternative point

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

jeans tanned shoes nice shirt..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Jeans and t shirt. I don’t bother with anything smart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ever happens I'd imagine smart casual.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I often wear a nice dress

Or jeans and a smart top .

Depends when and where I'm meeting them.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Same stuff I'd wear for a night out with friends.

I'd be quite disappointed if a couple or single guy didn't make some effort for an initial social meet or a big swingers social gathering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hoody, leggings, trainers.

Leggings you say?

Primark's finest.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I try to make an effort. Shirt, nice sneaks, do my hair

And I appreciate it when the lady makes an effort too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met an online friend a few weeks ago and I wore a pretty dress with tights and boots.

I guess it all depends on what you're doing. I was just sucking dick in the local beauty spot so I didn't need to make too much of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met an online friend a few weeks ago and I wore a pretty dress with tights and boots.

I guess it all depends on what you're doing. I was just sucking dick in the local beauty spot so I didn't need to make too much of an effort."

Ok, that second part made me ugly snort with laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met an online friend a few weeks ago and I wore a pretty dress with tights and boots.

I guess it all depends on what you're doing. I was just sucking dick in the local beauty spot so I didn't need to make too much of an effort.

Ok, that second part made me CUTE snort with laughter

I fixed that for you.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Usually a dress, hold ups and heels but it depends on the weather.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

An air of desperation and a tinge of loneliness. Always works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that depends on the time and place

And the person I am meeting

Ie couple and woman nothing to outrage midi dress or skirt or leggings with lingerie underneath just incase

Guys depending on the place and time if it’s day time the same as above

If it’s a night time pub meet or something then something short

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Whatever I feel comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An air of desperation and a tinge of loneliness. Always works."

They call her Desperate Meli.

She's not actually that smelly.

But she's loneeeeeely.

She can whisper French words and if you offer her a fuck she will gently sigh and say "ouiiiii"

Desperate Meli.

She's actually rather sultry.

I personally think she's lovely and look at that bum.

Divine.

I made that song just for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met an online friend a few weeks ago and I wore a pretty dress with tights and boots.

I guess it all depends on what you're doing. I was just sucking dick in the local beauty spot so I didn't need to make too much of an effort.

Ok, that second part made me CUTE snort with laughter

I fixed that for you.

Awww you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious, I’m a comfort type of girl, love leggings boots with a nice top of some sort.

What do you girls like wearing?"

It very much will depend on the time of day and type of meet - but we would always make an effort of some description. I do like the “jeans and a nice top” combo with a blazer and funky shoes or boots…also love dressing up properly but been a very long time since I’ve done that lol. At the end of the day, as long as you are comfy that’s all that matters

F (Mrs)

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here. "

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

Well thats a lie, look at those funky socks you're wearing

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Just curious, I’m a comfort type of girl, love leggings boots with a nice top of some sort.

What do you girls like wearing?"

I'm quite an eclectic dresser. I can dress up or down. I dress smart casual with my own individuality stamped on it. Pretty much how i wpuld dress on a first date.

Tonight for example my social meet cancelled two hours before. I was already dressed so I took my self out anyway.

Im sat in a scrumptious Carluccio's with Grappa wearing green eyeshadow, sparkly black crystal earrings, an Afro twist out, my Citizens two tone Eco drive, my island girl wristlets, healing crystals that a colleague made for me, A silver and diamanté initial pendant chain, nude lips, nude nails, knee high stretch boots, leather look stretch jeans, green polyester long kaftan, a yellow strappy top, a poncho scarf and a fake fur coat. No false nails no false lashes. Ive got clip ins and contacts on. Most importantly no bra!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

Well thats a lie, look at those funky socks you're wearing

I was counting socks and underwear,I generally don't go out in just those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

Well thats a lie, look at those funky socks you're wearing

I was counting socks and underwear,I generally don't go out in just those! "

Wasn't even.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

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I wouldn't even go there, unless you want me to start going through all your threads.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

Well thats a lie, look at those funky socks you're wearing

I was counting socks and underwear,I generally don't go out in just those!

Wasn't even. "

Those socks, shoes and a hoodie and you're starting a whole new trend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always depend on the type of social and time of the year for me

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

I have clothea for every occasion. Ball gown and wedding dress yup but doubt i could fit into them now.

I play five a side football outside so shorts, leggings and hoodies are super important especially im winter. I got invited on a cucle social meet so.... Unsexy fitness kit it is... If you do out door stuff you also get muddy. So... Not going to be wearing your best doing that are you.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

We go for clean and tidy, not over dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A banana outfit

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"Always make an effort, I don't think I own any clothes that are classed as dress down ones

No leggings,shorts,trousers,jeans or jogging bottoms here.

Add in hoodies and they are literally all the clothes I own!

I have clothea for every occasion. Ball gown and wedding dress yup but doubt i could fit into them now.

Still would be wearing a nice dress and boots and thats not the type of outdoor activities I prefer

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"An air of desperation and a tinge of loneliness. Always works.

They call her Desperate Meli.

She's not actually that smelly.

But she's loneeeeeely.

She can whisper French words and if you offer her a fuck she will gently sigh and say "ouiiiii"

Desperate Meli.

She's actually rather sultry.

I personally think she's lovely and look at that bum.

Divine.

I made that song just for you. "

Lemmy!

I love it so much, it's the best song in the world. Obviously. You really are World's Top Forumite.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My lucky pants just in case I end up bonking you

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

Shirt and trousers

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I try to put on a bit of slap and look presentable, but don't try too hard as its not a date. They're always warned that post-coital me will be sweaty and red-faced with messy hair. Lucky most people meet me for my boobs as I have a great face for radio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it always depends on the venue. If it's A-day time coffee meet then jeans in the nice top.

If its in a pub, bar or restaurant in the evening then whatever I would normally wear for a night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean pants. In case I get lucky. Don't want him to see any skidders.

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m immaculately dressed every time I leave the house

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By *trawberry shortcake 9999Woman
over a year ago

Clean, casual clothes, will depend where and what we plan for the social

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