FabSwingers.com forum: When

By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

When men just assume you want to meet instead of just wanting a chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair your bio kind of implies that’s what you’re looking for so I can understand the confusion.

However yeah. It’s not instashag is it? You have to be prepared to put in the ground work and get to know someone before they’ll be prepared to meet… if they’re not prepared to wait then move on

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Not all of us.

Many of my fab friends are purely platonic.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Exactly

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Is that so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works in reverse too when women think you should be grateful they have pulled you out of the sea of penis totally clueless we get to choose too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a second part of this post?

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Didn’t say you did not have a choice

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

No that’s it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When men just assume you want to meet instead of just wanting a chat "

Your profile says you're looking for something regular? Perhaps make it clearer with exactly what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's amore!

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Where is the fun in that lol can’t make every thing easy

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Yeah lol

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Why wouldn't they though? There's no swinging without meeting.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Fab confuses the hell out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah lol "

If you use 'reply+quote' people can see which comment you're replying to

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.

Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's about?

I mean, kinda gives the faf impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.

Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet."

I do that - delete it the opening message is just asking for a meet. Why would I ever meet some total stranger? Head wobble that people think someone might meet from an approach like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less chat and more sucky fucky is my moto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op do you mean when the first message is a request to meet ,I delete those.If I've never spoken to someone I'm not gonna want to meet them.

Or is it they assume you're meeting because you've chatted?.if I chat to anyone I always tell them I'm happy to chat ,but can't promise a meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

To be totally honest I prefer a bit of chat to get to know someone before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is like a lot of the conversations I have with random women that message me out of the blue then only talk in one short sentence replies .. Is it just me that gets this sort of thing from random local women? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes "

Thought so!

It’s a service I provide that attracts them all so the other local men get all the interesting convos

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate my profile as says “not meeting” in big letters in several places, and they still try their luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Thought so!

It’s a service I provide that attracts them all so the other local men get all the interesting convos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mate my profile as says “not meeting” in big letters in several places, and they still try their luck

I get guys telling me how fun I sound. Clear proof guys don't read.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Oh I get these! They initiate the conversation then expect you to do all the work. Once it becomes clear they're boring/distracted/whatever I block them

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Where is the fun in that lol can’t make every thing easy "
I want it easy please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that off some blokes, then it’s like shit text tennis…. I delete in the end and keep deleting any further messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be totally honest I prefer a bit of chat to get to know someone before meeting "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's about?

I mean, kinda gives the faf impression. "

Are you a man?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who's about?

I mean, kinda gives the faf impression.

Are you a man?...

Don't broadcast it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be totally honest I prefer a bit of chat to get to know someone before meeting

Same here!"

This should be the norm!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"When men just assume you want to meet instead of just wanting a chat "

What about it?

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Less chat and more sucky fucky is my moto

I hope you have that as your signature on every email you send. And have it framed on your wall, under Live, Laugh, Love

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