FabSwingers.com forum: Pictures being shared

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i wouldn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they good pictures?

Meh, crack on.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Are they good pictures?

Meh, crack on. "

Any pic that you may have sent them privately

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If they’re public no concern, if shared having been sent privately, out of order..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are they good pictures?

Meh, crack on.

Any pic that you may have sent them privately

Only the edited good ones then.

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By *uchislife66Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

Be just between the person and me

I wouldn't like it

By the way

U look fabulous x

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Depends if I’d given permission and what kind of pics.

If I’m going to meet a guy I might show a pic of them to a friend. But I wouldn’t share intimate pics of them unless they were already public on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was aware of it, possibly displeased. Unless their mate was a hottie and wanted me as the filling in a FMF sandwich.

It’s hard to say really - it would have to be on a case by case basis. If they’re doing it against your wishes and / or without consent it’s a shitty thing to do, and depending on the circumstances / where it’s being shared possibly a criminal offence.

Trouble is once you’ve shared pics the sad reality is they’re “out there” for ever. So never share anything you don’t want other people to see.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Pretty outraged to be honest.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I wouldn’t personally care as I would look amazing on the photos they had access to

But if they show them without my knowledge-immediate block and out of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels like a mild breach of the cool code 1997.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Depends on the picture and the circumstances. Is it with my consent?

Anything sent private or of an intimate nature, then I'd be very pissed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered! All my pics are public or were public at some point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit them with a law suit for lost revenue

Hence why my content gets uploaded somewhere else that I am under contact with

I can use they free legal team to hit them with copyright

PH model contract for the win

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Hard question to answer....

Depends who they were sharing the pictures with, fab or non fab people, and in what situation/discussion your pictures were being used in and for.

General discussion

Potential "fab" threesome

Someone willing to "out" you to someone further down the line.

Also another good reason to never include your face in anything you send privately to anyone no matter how much you trust them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I wouldn’t be best pleased. Although no intimate pics are ever sent with my face on. Even to people I’ve been meeting for years.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Not bovvered.

Am I bovvered.

Do I look bovvered?

I’m not bovvered.

Yeah… but am I bovverd??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private pictures? Instant adios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hit them with a law suit for lost revenue

Hence why my content gets uploaded somewhere else that I am under contact with

I can use they free legal team to hit them with copyright

PH model contract for the win "

On second thought find out if the person or people they share them with likes what they see

Shag them first and then tell him to get to that’s what you get for share my pic

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and I'd just refuse to sign autographs for them

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Not best pleased is my answer. Even if its from one fabber to another, its a bit cheeky.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

There are some proper creepy pic sharers out there.. giving location, workplace etc

I feel uneasy even sharing a link to public pics of someone i find attractive. I would never show anyone any pics received privately.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would be raging but it will never happen as I don't send pics privately, I just post them on here for all to see.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Sorry I went off on a tangent...

But if someone shared my pics i would confront them, and if shared publicly I would be going down the legal route.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be pissed,… this is why I send pictures of other people instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bovvered.

Am I bovvered.

Do I look bovvered?

I’m not bovvered.

Yeah… but am I bovverd??"

I read this, exactly the way everyone will read it.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d be pissed,… this is why I send pictures of other people instead. "

I knew that wasn't you hanging out of Rene Zelweigger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be raging but it will never happen as I don't send pics privately, I just post them on here for all to see."

I guess people could screenshot /download though.. How could you stop it?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I would be raging but it will never happen as I don't send pics privately, I just post them on here for all to see.

I guess people could screenshot /download though.. How could you stop it? "

You can't, just a risk we all take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a straight goodbye, after saying my bit, as trust broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here. "

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d be pissed,… this is why I send pictures of other people instead.

I knew that wasn't you hanging out of Rene Zelweigger!

Arghh. Ill stop clipping from celeb porn sites. Thanks for the heads up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone shared pics I’d sent them with their mates then they’re going in the bin. As in I’m calling my mates, I’m catching them slipping and I’m putting them in a wheelie bin.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here. "

I keep hearing about this group. Is it just women in it or men too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my mug shots really annoyed im very selective who gets to see me and actually quite a private person but if she managed to get a mug shot out of me then she will know how annoyed i would be

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here. "

I think that if people are sharing private pix on a telegram group then they should stop. That is pretty shitty behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

I keep hearing about this group. Is it just women in it or men too?"

Oooooh, first le clique, now a telegram group.

This feels like that episode of Frasier at the spa, always another level of speciality to be had...

Till you're in an alley way, by a dumpster.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right? "

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

Hello ladies (female member of Telegram group initiates a convo) this is Rex Holes (attaches my face pic in the message on Telegram) He’s just messaged me XYZ (attaches screenshot from message in the Telegram group)

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

I keep hearing about this group. Is it just women in it or men too?

Oooooh, first le clique, now a telegram group.

This feels like that episode of Frasier at the spa, always another level of speciality to be had...

Till you're in an alley way, by a dumpster."

. Aw I loved frasier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My rule of thumb is don't post or send any pictures that I would not be happy to go public.

It's not really cricket if a guy is showing pictures of a lady he's fucking or intends on to his mates - shows a complete lack of respect.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Not fussed, I wouldn't send anything I didn't think I looked good in. If they're "showing you off" to friends in a "look at who I'm fucking way" take it as a compliment. Of they're showing you off in a "look at the state of this numpty" maybe work on who you're sending photos too.

If they're public then, you're already showing everyone.

Don't really see the issue if I'm honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

I keep hearing about this group. Is it just women in it or men too?"

Are these groups still going?

Used to be Kik back in the day. I know there were some toxic groups there as one of the people in there used to send me screen shots whenever she was utter appalled by it all ..

Same vibe new platform by sounds of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now."

But what do they get out of that

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

Gossip and a feeling that they are part of the “in crowd”.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wouldn't bother me as much as most people probably feel jealous

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By *unfriendly 123Man
over a year ago

boston

Allot of pictures hunters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now."

That used to happen on Kik back in the day. I know as I was sent a shot of me!! This was a few years ago tbf.

Totally out of order but it happens, hence no full nudity anywhere on my profile or in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

I keep hearing about this group. Is it just women in it or men too?

Oooooh, first le clique, now a telegram group.

This feels like that episode of Frasier at the spa, always another level of speciality to be had...

Till you're in an alley way, by a dumpster.

. Aw I loved frasier "

Apparently, there are talks of a new series.

Not sure how I feel about it, fingers crossed its good, but I've been burnt before.

Now come, through the platinum door with me, into the healing warmth of the light

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

That used to happen on Kik back in the day. I know as I was sent a shot of me!! This was a few years ago tbf.

Totally out of order but it happens, hence no full nudity anywhere on my profile or in messages. "

Yeah I remember one years ago as I was invited to join but declined. Those particular ladies are no longer here though. Must all be telegram these days.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Wouldn't bother me as much as most people probably feel jealous

Where on earth does that idea come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if is a local meet or further away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

This is precisely why I don't show my face in pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private photos? Just between me and him? He'd be toast.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

I’ve no idea????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a risk, isn't it

Sending pics directly to someone (like via WhatsApp). All you can do is hope they don't post them to thier public profile or show to people you wouldn't feel comfortable with.

But, if they did.. Not sure if there's anything to be done about it???

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It's a risk, isn't it

Sending pics directly to someone (like via WhatsApp). All you can do is hope they don't post them to thier public profile or show to people you wouldn't feel comfortable with.

But, if they did.. Not sure if there's anything to be done about it??? "

Practically probably not much but I believe it is against the law in Scotland and the Law Commission is working on proposals for England which would make it an offence to share personal photos without permission.

If they share private data then GDPR might also kick in.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

I’ve no idea???? "

Exactly why I keep it all on here ..

Don't do Telegram or Twatter or any other basically gossip groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

That used to happen on Kik back in the day. I know as I was sent a shot of me!! This was a few years ago tbf.

Totally out of order but it happens, hence no full nudity anywhere on my profile or in messages.

Yeah I remember one years ago as I was invited to join but declined. Those particular ladies are no longer here though. Must all be telegram these days. "

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

That used to happen on Kik back in the day. I know as I was sent a shot of me!! This was a few years ago tbf.

Totally out of order but it happens, hence no full nudity anywhere on my profile or in messages.

Yeah I remember one years ago as I was invited to join but declined. Those particular ladies are no longer here though. Must all be telegram these days.

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be raging but it will never happen as I don't send pics privately, I just post them on here for all to see.

I guess people could screenshot /download though.. How could you stop it? "

Crate a PH account

Sine up for a model account

Tick the box that covers copyright law

Hit them with a lawsuit for lost revenue

That soon sort them when they loose the house

Working to pay you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

That used to happen on Kik back in the day. I know as I was sent a shot of me!! This was a few years ago tbf.

Totally out of order but it happens, hence no full nudity anywhere on my profile or in messages.

Yeah I remember one years ago as I was invited to join but declined. Those particular ladies are no longer here though. Must all be telegram these days.

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

I bet you do

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are."

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

I wouldn't like it myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why I am VERY a reluctant to share face picture and any on here on my profile.

This has proved ALOT and why I won’t share too much.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Depends if they’re showing it to someone and saying “look how hot this guy is.” Rather than, “look at this guys small penis.”

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

You can probably guess who is in it. This is not a normal group of people to have a thread like this to themselves…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind sending a face pic but would never send nudes just in case that happens. I would feel very betrayed otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

I’ve no idea????

Exactly why I keep it all on here ..

Don't do Telegram or Twatter or any other basically gossip groups

When you say 'keep it on here'.. Do you reckon safer than WhatsApp?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

we used to put the world to rights!

Nora wasn’t one of the sources though. She was always good like that, never a sharer of confidences. Which is why she’s ace and I trust her!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

You can probably guess who is in it. This is not a normal group of people to have a thread like this to themselves….."

If it’s just women probably not as I don’t take much notice of the women on here really and don’t speak to any privately. Except one who I’ve known for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was aware of it, possibly displeased. Unless their mate was a hottie and wanted me as the filling in a FMF sandwich.

Trouble is once you’ve shared pics the sad reality is they’re “out there” for ever. So never share anything you don’t want other people to see. "

I agree with you on all of this. Definitely depends on the circumstances, and we are careful about pics we share.

F (Mrs)

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

we used to put the world to rights!

Nora wasn’t one of the sources though. She was always good like that, never a sharer of confidences. Which is why she’s ace and I trust her!

Aw. I never once shared your willy Dan!

. Promise

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

So true

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If they were private pics I sent as in face pics ( I don't send nudes etc ) I'd be furious especially as I only send face pics after I have chatted to someone for a while.

Unfortunately it does happen in groups I was in a ladies groups where others face pics and private info was shared quite regularly it's the reason I left the group and I won't join groups anymore,nor will I tolerate anyone showing me other people's private pictures or info. It's a complete breach of trust in my opinion and I wouldn't do it to anyone and I cut people off when I have found out they have done it to me in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

we used to put the world to rights!

Nora wasn’t one of the sources though. She was always good like that, never a sharer of confidences. Which is why she’s ace and I trust her!

Aw. I never once shared your willy Dan!

. Promise

Neither has he….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be really annoyed, but it’s why I rarely share pics, and even then it’s only with people I trust implicitly.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Wouldn't bother me as much as most people probably feel jealous

Where on earth does that idea come from?"

When a person is unable to have something they can't will take anything they can and still be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Privately I'll send a face pic but not publicly. My husband is a retired military officer it's frowned upon.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

You and Dan were in the clique!!!!!!!

Haha me and Dan had our own little clique

we used to put the world to rights!

Nora wasn’t one of the sources though. She was always good like that, never a sharer of confidences. Which is why she’s ace and I trust her!

Aw. I never once shared your willy Dan!

. Promise

Neither has he….

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

I’ve no idea????

Exactly why I keep it all on here ..

Don't do Telegram or Twatter or any other basically gossip groups

When you say 'keep it on here'.. Do you reckon safer than WhatsApp?)

I've no idea what's safer tbh ..

Anyone can send pics off this site on WhatsApp or any of the other various sites I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Privately I'll send a face pic but not publicly. My husband is a retired military officer it's frowned upon."

People frown upon hubbys face picture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile. "

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

Come on, you’re not fooling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

You'd have to know it had been shared though?!?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I reckon the best defence against people sharing pictures is for someone on one of the groups to share the details of those sharing the pics. Out them and then we can all see who they are.

Nobody ever does though. It’s like this so called clique that’s been around for years apparently. Everyone seems to know who’s in it yet at the same time nobody seems to know!

Come on, you’re not fooling anyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

You mean the various legal disclaimers are nonsense and unenforceable?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had a conversation with a fab friend who is no longer on the site but had been here for many years and she said that there have always been people on here who need those little power trips and gathering and sharing info including pics is part of that. They get more of a thrill from that than they ever would meeting for sex.

Information is currency.

I've no doubt that my facepic and private details have been shared by women on here because when we were fab "friends" they were capable of sending me unsolicited screenshots of other people's private messages, personal details and places of work.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

It's all very well saying they should be named and shamed but that's against site rules and even if it wasn't I'm not naive enough to believe that my word would be taken over theirs because there are too many people suffering from fanny blindness or in awe of these amazingly popular women who have been playing this game for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can share photos and screenshots on here as direct photos. I don't think the forum is important, it's being careful who to share info and photos with, which can take time to filter out the wrong uns.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

You'd have to know it had been shared though?!? "

So if it had been shared and you didn’t know it but it was on those site before they shared it then by sharing it they had a right to share it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a conversation with a fab friend who is no longer on the site but had been here for many years and she said that there have always been people on here who need those little power trips and gathering and sharing info including pics is part of that. They get more of a thrill from that than they ever would meeting for sex.

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

Fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

Is fanny blindness contagious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

You'd have to know it had been shared though?!? "

That’s easy

Two ways find someone in the group and bribe them for screen shots

Or the second way

Make a quirk little app

That change filters on a picture or something

And have the permission set so that it scrapes all data from the phone

And hopefully one off them downloads sed app

Now you have access to all app data in that person phone including they telegram group chats

Put in a 20 page bs agreement that they have to click ok before use the app

Hide on page 9-10 as some may read the first and last page but very little read all pages

That you have the legel right to do what you like with they data

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

Fuck

You are getting this lady all tied up!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends?

I would sue them using one of the nonsensical legal disclaimers people put on their profile.

Those legal disclaimer don’t work

But yes there is away if you cover all your media under serton sites

Ie PH

Then you can sue for illegal distribution off your content as long as sed pic was on the site before they shared it

You'd have to know it had been shared though?!?

So if it had been shared and you didn’t know it but it was on those site before they shared it then by sharing it they had a right to share it?"

No bascule you and PH are the only people allowed to distribute the content

What they mean is you need proof that it was shared you can’t blindly say someone shared it without proof so you need the chat logos or screen shots from the group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x"

Did you sue them?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?"

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this entire thread has left me feeling a tad icky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I believe all of this.

One of the reasons I don’t do Face Pic Friday any more is because I knew of people who used to download and keep the pics of people harvested from such threads on the forums.

So gawd only knows what other info they kept. Weird behaviour!

I’ve given my face out to a few on here since returning some have gone reasonably quiet so who knows if / when they’ve been shared. I would hope I could trust the conversations were private but who knows?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x"

Every time one of these threads appear it's only a matter of time before one of these women comments to say it's a horrible thing to do without the slightest hint of irony.

I've never been in any men only groups so can't say one way or the other what is shared in them but I've seen private messages and pics shared in mixed groups and that's one of the reasons I'm no longer in any groupchat and in all the years I've been here I've lost count of the number of women who have told me they left various groups due to the sharing of pics and info of men that the other women in the groups were meeting.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I believe all of this.

One of the reasons I don’t do Face Pic Friday any more is because I knew of people who used to download and keep the pics of people harvested from such threads on the forums.

So gawd only knows what other info they kept. Weird behaviour!

I believe it all as well. It ties in with what Rex and OP have said and I have heard from others. The fact this is an overwhelmingly male thread just tells you everything you need to know.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Every time one of these threads appear it's only a matter of time before one of these women comments to say it's a horrible thing to do without the slightest hint of irony.

Unfortunately it's not just male pics/info that are being shared..

Sad state of affairs when you think something that should be private is being shared. Why these people do it is beyond me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients."

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!"

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!"

Not all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!"

Apart from Frank Sidebottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i wouldnt like it, and after reading this thread, I'll not bother taking part in face pic Friday.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

. Well. Most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally i wouldnt like it, and after reading this thread, I'll not bother taking part in face pic Friday. "

Good call. A lot of it is done in a friendly spirit but it is definitely abused by some.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke"

I'm as dull as dishwater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

I'm as dull as dishwater

I think the Yorkshire lass doth protest too much!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

I'm as dull as dishwater

I think the Yorkshire lass doth protest too much!"

Definitely 100% not Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have too many pictures of me, plus my face out, all over the internet to be concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

I'm as dull as dishwater

I think the Yorkshire lass doth protest too much!

Definitely 100% not Yorkshire

You mean you don’t have a whippet?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

I'm as dull as dishwater

I think the Yorkshire lass doth protest too much!

Definitely 100% not Yorkshire

You mean you don’t have a whippet?"

No but I do have a whip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Information is currency.

All I had to do was have a disagreement with someone on the forums and these women would offer me ammunition in the form of all of the above.

Some of these screenshots and facepics where from when they were meeting and chatting up to 3 years before so it just shows how invested they were with a meticulous filing system.

As soon as I stopped engaging with them for numerous reasons including the info sharing I would put money on them passing my details to the next chump to come along.

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

Did you sue them?

They weren't my pictures. Just goes to show you can't trust anyone

My face pictures were shared once now I am being sued by the recipients.

It’s a Manc thing!

Haha. Hey all mancs are hotties!

Not all

Ohh Sparkle you have just lost some of your lustre!

But still quite hot for a Tyke

I'm as dull as dishwater

I think the Yorkshire lass doth protest too much!

Definitely 100% not Yorkshire

You mean you don’t have a whippet?

No but I do have a whip

Noooooooo not my gig! Pain and death don’t interest me in the slightest, I am a pleasure kind of chap!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

What about after meeting them?

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over a year ago

"Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

Mostly agree with this - definitely the sharing pics and any personal info is a no-no.

From a safeguarding perspective if there’s any cause for concern regarding the behaviour of someone then there’s possibly a case for that.

But even then it becomes a case of hearsay and people should form their own opinions, who knows what grudges they might have against that person?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

Sharing anything without permission is completely out of order I would not be happy at all.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

There is always an element of trust in fab life and also a fair degree of personal responsibility, I think you need to do what makes you feel safe and guard against outcomes that could harm you.

As for fab “secret societies”, they have always existed in some form and are predominantly populated by people that are immature, have low self esteem, and lack control in their lives, these people seldom meet anyone for a “lifestyle” encounter and trend towards the “fantasist”/low self worth spectrum, I think that there little groups are good, because they tend to lead to massive drama falling outs with mass unlos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your pictures are being shared, that is because you are an idiot.

Safeguard yourself.

Take control of your own image.

Do not give it away.

Unless you want to.

Once you have done so, agreed to the terms and conditions.

You is fucked.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

What about after meeting them? "
I'm not too happy about that happening afterwards either

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

What about after meeting them? "

I would say that this is even worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope ...sharing anything..pictures..opinions ..about someone prior to meeting them is surely out of order

What about after meeting them?

I would say that this is even worse."

Me too xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not happy. It smacks of boasting down the pub

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn’t care less, if they really want to see my cock that bad I’ll stick it on the table for them.

The mr

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "
it doesn't bother me the pics are out there in the Internet orbit someone or somebody has them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

Had an issue with a local man doing this. Likely others too. It's shit.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I would be pretty annoyed actually. Picture sharing happens without consent and the only way around it is not to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your pictures are being shared, that is because you are an idiot.

Safeguard yourself.

Take control of your own image.

Do not give it away.

Unless you want to.

Once you have done so, agreed to the terms and conditions.

You is fucked."

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I wouldn’t be happy at all

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I would find that quite a turn on tbh x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here. "

Whaaat

hope it’s their own photos!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

My feelings on pictures being shared, not something I’d do.

I honestly don’t know why anyone would need to do this - I don’t think I’d lose sleep over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the cool kids at school that used to smoke behind the bike shed slagging anyone and everyone that wasn't present at the time off

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

I’d be fuming personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x"

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering)

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

As I tend not to send explicit pics, I wouldn't have an issue, and I definitely don't share any sent to me

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Depends if they were public pics or private.

We always work with the worst case scenario in mind and act accordingly when sharing pics and avoid having faces or identifiable features showing.

Also the reason we don't do video chat as you have no control if the content is recorded and shared anywhere.

Not that we assume everyone would do this but you have to protect yourself against the minority if you want to be descriet x

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"Are they good pictures?

Meh, crack on.

Any pic that you may have sent them privately

Private pictures should be kept private but sometimes people say "Phwoar, look who I'm seeing tonight". I would probably take it as a compliment, but I understand why some people may not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend once send me a pic and say "Isn't this your ass?", and it was indeed my ass. That someone had appropriated. I sleuthed my way to finding who had sent it, and to this day I regularly remind them publicly that they had saved my ass pictures for public use on the basis that it's more embarrassing for him than me. This wasn't on FAB btw.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't agree that there's a massive difference in whether the pics are public or private.

Obviously if they are private it's a shitty thing to do and there's no excuse for doing it. Trying to pretend that it's necessary for your own personal safety is bull because those who use this excuse would be the first to kick off if the shoe was on the other foot and someone else shared their images for "safety" reasons.

As already said it's not just men sharing womens pics and women sharing men's. Many of these so called chatgroups are renowned for sharing pics of both sexes.

I would also question why anyone would need to share public pics unless it's to mock or demean.

Some of the women I mentioned in a previous post used to copy public pics from other women and attach them in messages which usually asked "what do you think of this shit?","how hideous does she look?" or "she really doesn't have mirrors in her house!"

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By *musedforlifeMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

This is the reason I don't send pics...plus no-one wants to see them anyway

Think it's out of order that they've sent them on though, not something I would do as I feel it breaks trust between people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could add a (real) nightmare tale to this. Not happened on fab but it still makes me angry several years later.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering) "

I addressed it to the person/s who sent everything and contacted some people privately who's images/info were being shared to make them aware x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering)

I addressed it to the person/s who sent everything and contacted some people privately who's images/info were being shared to make them aware x"

good work.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

If you have public photos then assume at some point someone can easily screen shot and circulate/use/fake/photoshop you!

Just because you didn’t show your face don’t assume you are not instantly recognisable by the clothes/lingerie/jewellery you wear

And don’t assume your messages are private either!

The other site I use does not allow screen shots at all of anything and anyone doing so is outed!!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"If you have public photos then assume at some point someone can easily screen shot and circulate/use/fake/photoshop you!

Just because you didn’t show your face don’t assume you are not instantly recognisable by the clothes/lingerie/jewellery you wear

And don’t assume your messages are private either!

The other site I use does not allow screen shots at all of anything and anyone doing so is outed!! "
really omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering)

I addressed it to the person/s who sent everything and contacted some people privately who's images/info were being shared to make them aware x"

Well done, its hard to stand up and do the right thing under that kind of pressure x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering)

I addressed it to the person/s who sent everything and contacted some people privately who's images/info were being shared to make them aware x"

A forum member sent me details of a conversation about me on Telegram she was privy to and where she thought I was being ungraciously disparaged. Thankfully some people do have a conscience

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I've been in the position of being shown pics and been given info of other site members (no idea why they thought I'd be interested) which is why I was pondering the question x

I was thinking about this last night Sparkle... did you address it in the T chat, or with the individuals? (no judgement, just wondering)

I addressed it to the person/s who sent everything and contacted some people privately who's images/info were being shared to make them aware x"

Good for you OP.

Well done for standing up for decent behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It happens regularly on the Telegram group that a few from here are on. It’s the reason I’ve reduced my time on here.

But that is people sharing their own pics right?

No. I’ll give you an example and I’ll use my own name to protect the innocent.

They’re amongst you, some are online now. It’s just goes against the spirit of the site. I don’t send messages to anyone other than the ones I’ve spoken to regularly now.

But what do they get out of that

I’ve no idea????

Exactly why I keep it all on here ..

Don't do Telegram or Twatter or any other basically gossip groups

When you say 'keep it on here'.. Do you reckon safer than WhatsApp?)

I'm not sure what senseof safety you all get from saying 'only on fab' there's no stopping anyone from lifting things from here

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Just my face n nothing explicit, I wouldn't care too much

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

This is pretty much why I don't send explicit pics unless I know you very well

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I couldn't care less if the pics were explicit because they could be of anyone.

I'd have more of an issue with people who have to use other people's facepics and personal info as a way of ingratiating themselves with others.

If you're ever in any doubt over who's sharing your details you only have to look at who in your circle is always the first with the inside scoop on what everyone else is doing and is so friendly and approachable with half the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This puts me off socials as you can't police folk sneaking a pic or just taking selfies all around you. Clubs might have protocols but open socials won't be able to have that level of control. Especially those arranged by fabbers ad hoc as opposed to higher level events.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"This puts me off socials as you can't police folk sneaking a pic or just taking selfies all around you. Clubs might have protocols but open socials won't be able to have that level of control. Especially those arranged by fabbers ad hoc as opposed to higher level events."

I think most people are decent and respect the privacy element of the site. There are just a few bad apples who, frankly, need to get a life. The site would be a lot better if more people called this behaviour out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually seen very few people take photos at Socials.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually seen very few people take photos at Socials."

I've not taken that step just yet and won't until I feel a little more assured about a few things. But that is good to hear

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Has never happened at any social I've been to either.

People show more respect than that usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 100% agree bad form needs called out but rules here prevent it. Hard to deal with crappy conduct without it but I realise the rules are there for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has never happened at any social I've been to either.

People show more respect than that usually.

It's true - no matter how much I begged for a snap of your cleavage, the answer was always NO

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I 100% agree bad form needs called out but rules here prevent it. Hard to deal with crappy conduct without it but I realise the rules are there for a reason."

I am not sure I buy the site rules argument. I am pretty sure that if the site owners/mods were presented with evidence that other profiles were being misused on social media and the profiles of the people who were doing it could be identified then they would take action. People could just dm the site owners directly…..

Maybe site rules need to be amended to ban people from discussing profiles on social media to help cover this?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just out of interest what would worry you about a photo taken at a social?

Surely everyone is dressed, generally in a bar environment and it would just look like a photo taken in a pub.

I've yet to go to an organised social where there was a 12 ft banner with 'Swingers' hanging from the wall.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your pics were being shared between someone you were planning on meeting/have met and their friends? "

Behind your back with out consent is 100% wrong . Is cheating on you . specially if u asked never to share . Or if u point out for discretion .

I hate them . Because of them now a lady wouldn’t trust u a selfie .

and is very sad u go for a meal or a drink and chat a lady who you really like , and can’t have not even a single selfie because she just don’t trust any fucker .

Don’t blame them .

I could never do that . Massive miss respect .

If there is a need of sharing to a third party , you ask the lady for her permission .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A photo taken at a social could be passed around message groups.

If the person doesn't have or want face pics on Fab, it is an invasion of their privacy.

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