FabSwingers.com forum: When people know you away from Fab

By *ockon90 OP Man
over a year ago

Halifax

What are people's opinions when someone knows/recognises your profile as they've seen/knows you away from Fab then starts giving you abuse when they clearly don't understand why people are on here and it's more than just a dating site.

I've been on here many years and chatted with people from all around the country about multiple shared interests and hobbies and made great friends along the way but this has been a first for me.

I've blocked and reported them. Was I being a little excessive or should said person grow up and realise if you nothing nice to say don't say it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren't they on here to see your profile??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What do you mean by abuse ?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why would you report them? Surely just block and move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, if you're here...they're here...right?

I got clocked in Co-Op, was weird to get home to find a message saying so....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

They do sound immature. Let's face it. All they had to do was say nothing or say hi ...... no other comment needed.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

You'd think their reaction would be milder if they thought it was just a dating site!

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By *ockon90 OP Man
over a year ago

Halifax

That was my point as well what we do on here is our private life and she just gave me abuse, she works at my local pub and recognised my account then proceeded to give me abuse I don't understand it, what happens on FAB stays on here real life and online life are separate

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Yup, if you're here...they're here...right?

I got clocked in Co-Op, was weird to get home to find a message saying so...."

were you dressed in belts ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"That was my point as well what we do on here is our private life and she just gave me abuse, she works at my local pub and recognised my account then proceeded to give me abuse I don't understand it, what happens on FAB stays on here real life and online life are separate "

Hate to ask but it matters........

What is abuse in this context ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spotted someone i used to work with... Just made sure our areas are different and carried on.. We're both here for similar needs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no need to send abuse so to block and report is not excessive...

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By *ockon90 OP Man
over a year ago

Halifax

"They do sound immature. Let's face it. All they had to do was say nothing or say hi ...... no other comment needed."

My thoughts exactly

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By *ockon90 OP Man
over a year ago

Halifax

Hate to ask but it matters........

What is abuse in this context ?"

Because she thinks she knows everything about everyones personal life and proceeded to give me lecture's. So I asked her why she was online. Which was none of my business. .. absolute hipocrate

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

Hate to ask but it matters........

What is abuse in this context ?

Because she thinks she knows everything about everyones personal life and proceeded to give me lecture's. So I asked her why she was online. Which was none of my business. .. absolute hipocrate "

So she was slagging you off for being on fab, but she’s on fab too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you married?

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By *ockon90 OP Man
over a year ago

Halifax

So she was slagging you off for being on fab, but she’s on fab too?

That was my point everyone is on here for one thing or another and it's nobody else's business just "move along and happy fabbin"g and after 8 messages of me ending with the same sentence I'd had enough and reported/blocked her

Tbf she'll piss me off if she says anything to me in the pub. My ask the landlord what days she works and just avoid the place when she's in

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By *aul_j80Man
over a year ago

Bloxwich

So she was slagging you off for being on fab, but she’s on fab too?

Tbf she'll piss me off if she says anything to me in the pub. My ask the landlord what days she works and just avoid the place when she's in"

Maybe she just wants a good seeing to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 person in the world has ever known me the rest of the world only get 65% of me

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Soooo, they're on here too, but give you grief for being on here?

Seems logical.

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