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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye. And yet we all keep coming back here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming from someone who makes a thread about puking up lol

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not at all no x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Coming from someone who makes a thread about puking up lol"

Compared to the other crap on here that's tame!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aye. And yet we all keep coming back here .. "

Just to annoy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make me feel sexy op

I dunno. People make me feel sexy, not a website, and depending how the vibe is in here, my mood goes up and down with it.

But take it or leave it, the forum is just a chat room.

When I do meet up with people, that’s when I feel my sexiest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was how I’ve explained my crabs isn’t it?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes. It depends on my frame of mind.

JAG you've got your flirt on on here before now, it can't put you off *that* much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was how I’ve explained my crabs isn’t it? "

Well I didn't wanna say ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes. It depends on my frame of mind.

JAG you've got your flirt on on here before now, it can't put you off *that* much. "

That's after alcohol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-*pops to the drinks cupboard,…

“I’ll be right back!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

Yes, I’m with you on that one.

There’s so much devaluing of people on here.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

No, I don’t think it could.

It puts me off sex with some people that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww hugs I try to keep my comments awesome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I don’t think it could.

It puts me off sex with some people that’s all "

It's just puts me off men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*puts drinks back.

“Forget it, I’m off!!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of things in the forum are said in jest /humour and lost in translation.. Or people's days +emotions impact how deeply they absorb the words

People's kinks can be very polarising too

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It’s eye opening for sure. Every time I drive past a car and a van parked up in a lay-by I now always assume it’s a secret meet!

My innocent view of the world has been tainted forever!

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

None of us would say no to Ryan, let's not say things we don't mean.

Rough night? You're normally so enthusiastic about life.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

If fab isn’t a positive experience Why don’t you just leave OP ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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My innocent view of the world has been tainted forever! "

Every time someone says “fab” to me I think it’s code for ‘I’ll jump your bones in the back room in 5!”

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It puts me off people.

It has never been a place I visit to be turned on because random pics and comments by anonymous people on the internet do nothing for me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's not put us off sex, no. Although my vag is out of bounds for two more weeks, we're just getting creative

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It can do. Some of the pictures too.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

Can I ask why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If fab isn’t a positive experience Why don’t you just leave OP ???"

Because that would please too many people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

Can I ask why? "

Why I think what I do?

Oh let's not go there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None of us would say no to Ryan, let's not say things we don't mean.

Rough night? You're normally so enthusiastic about life. "

I know I know, I need a pumpkin latte.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Have I put you off sex op?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

Can I ask why?

Why I think what I do?

Oh let's not go there "
puts you off sex?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

No it doesn't. I think people who have gone off sex gravitate towards the forums because they're too weak to leave and need the forums for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it doesn't. I think people who have gone off sex gravitate towards the forums because they're too weak to leave and need the forums for various reasons. "

What the Nanna says is probably correct.

If you discount the threads on

Squirting

Tributes to wives

Size (of various parts of the human anatomy)

Exposing breasts on a particular day

Hump days

Men forever whinging they cannot get a meet

Essex Toms inane but slightly amusing ramblings

Anal

Cheating men and women

It’s pretty slim pickings for the intellectual elite don’t you think?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No being on fab and the forum's doesn't effect my sex drive. It has stayed pretty much the same. The only thing the forum has ever done that would have any affect on my sex drive is make me either interested in getting to know someone,or the opposite and let me know those I want to avoid like the plague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It’s pretty slim pickings for the intellectual elite don’t you think?"

Intellectual Elite?

Well. This is a step up from “professional “ I want to meet these people. … I suppose in need to stop joining sex clubs and go to my local library

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I can log on to fab horny and leave thinking that a quick lady wank is definitely a better and safer option.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It probably isn’t just you but fab tends not to make me either horny or not.

Perhaps I’m weird but I don’t see the forums or the majority of my interactions here as sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It can do. Some of the pictures too. "

Yes it can

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "
gosling or Reynolds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It’s pretty slim pickings for the intellectual elite don’t you think?

Intellectual Elite?

Well. This is a step up from “professional “ I want to meet these people. … I suppose in need to stop joining sex clubs and go to my local library "

Intellect is not acquired my friend it’s bestowed!

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

The people that comment and open threads on the forum are a very ,VERY small percentage of fab. Overall fab is not a bad experience...the forums are extremely negative, judgemental and just soul crushing at times...the less time you spend on the forums the better. Unfortunately for men, that is (most of the time) the only way they get noticed...so we have to endure these torturing threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is either being tongue in cheek with her hypothesis or overthinking she is a member of a recreational sex site whose membership over 90% male of varying evolutionary stages.

If fab has a diminishing effect on your libido perhaps it’s time to depart?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No me being too insane to have sex puts me off having sex mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

Nah, but the messages'll do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. gosling or Reynolds? "

Both please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on. "

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

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Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Not just you. It is same really not on this site. Mostly people are lovely but a few just put you off with attitudes. Some men in particular are arrogant and think they can do whatever they want to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ability to read information online is really useful.

However actual interaction/communicating online, I find is one of the worst ways to talk to someone.

If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?"

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

You have just described Tommy Cooper!

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on. "

You turn me on

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like the flirty amusing women...and the pictures lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes sense. Seeing sex related content at all times can really just overload the mind where you may just feel overwhelmed with it all. I might turn off the site images for a while so I can still use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on. "

You have just described Tommy Cooper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes sense. Seeing sex related content at all times can really just overload the mind where you may just feel overwhelmed with it all. I might turn off the site images for a while so I can still use the forums "

I thought I was weird when I turned off images *hi 5

People talk about desensitised a lot on here, I think it’s a thing.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

Nah, but the messages'll do it "

Yep... Zero respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Really?

Flattered

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on.

You turn me on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on.

You turn me on "

Flattered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes sense. Seeing sex related content at all times can really just overload the mind where you may just feel overwhelmed with it all. I might turn off the site images for a while so I can still use the forums

I thought I was weird when I turned off images *hi 5

People talk about desensitised a lot on here, I think it’s a thing. "

Desensitised is a much better way to describe it. At the minute, it feels like I can see a great profile with the hottest pictures in existence and think "meh". That's not a knock on them at all by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

I like people that are interesting and positive and say funny things. You can just tell that some people enjoy life and have fun. They're the kind of people that turn me on.

You turn me on

Flattered!"

Haha. You wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said, it puts me off particular people.

Sometimes the forums, or particular men in the forums, make me giggle and that turns me on.

A person that’s seems full of fun is a big turn on.

Can you elaborate as to what full of fun means?

No"

That’s not much fun is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some pictures do yes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes sense. Seeing sex related content at all times can really just overload the mind where you may just feel overwhelmed with it all. I might turn off the site images for a while so I can still use the forums

I thought I was weird when I turned off images *hi 5

People talk about desensitised a lot on here, I think it’s a thing.

Desensitised is a much better way to describe it. At the minute, it feels like I can see a great profile with the hottest pictures in existence and think "meh". That's not a knock on them at all by the way."

People wouldn’t believe me if I say I don’t open profiles until I start talking my Dm. For the same reason you just said, meh! There’s loads of good photos, seriously hot pictures. But that’s all they become. A picture and not a person for a long time.

The op is into something to a point. Fab doesn’t turn me on.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I do like the forums and there's no comment that will put me off i believe , what i found is always same questions , same content what becomes a bit boring sometimes or not so exciting .

One thing that i would love to see here is a live chat room like fb mss enger platform

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, doesn't put me off sex but definitely turns me off people I would have like(d) to have sex with when you read some of the things they come out with.

I'm sure the feeling is mutual.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Noooooo. I like reading the forums sometimes. It’s entertaining. Why would it put me off sex? I’m not having sex with those people. Definitely doesn’t make me want sex though.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If you are put off by what people post why read them?

As an adult you have a choice to see what you want to.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe less time on the forums equals more time having sex?

I have a new theory that those profiles that vanish and quickly return are in fact unable to do both at the same time and the period of time they're UNLOS is actually used to have as much sex as possible using their new profile during the two week window they can't use the forums, and then once they're allowed back in they cease all sexual activity until their next short term break.

Wild, I know. But it could just be true......

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes sense. Seeing sex related content at all times can really just overload the mind where you may just feel overwhelmed with it all. I might turn off the site images for a while so I can still use the forums

I thought I was weird when I turned off images *hi 5

People talk about desensitised a lot on here, I think it’s a thing.

Desensitised is a much better way to describe it. At the minute, it feels like I can see a great profile with the hottest pictures in existence and think "meh". That's not a knock on them at all by the way.

People wouldn’t believe me if I say I don’t open profiles until I start talking my Dm. For the same reason you just said, meh! There’s loads of good photos, seriously hot pictures. But that’s all they become. A picture and not a person for a long time.

The op is into something to a point. Fab doesn’t turn me on. "

The irony is that the OP has issues with apparent melee that is the Fab Forum, the lack of decorum and the propensity for the Neanderthals among us to vent their loins with crass and banal retorts. Yet her profile starts with O Fuck Off?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Nope, doesn't put me off sex but definitely turns me off people I would have like(d) to have sex with when you read some of the things they come out with.

I'm sure the feeling is mutual. "

What should I say to you so we can have sex. That has probably not worked already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. I take this as a challenge. And I’d like to be the first guy from fab you choose to try to turn you on.

*watches p*rnhub for good technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, doesn't put me off sex but definitely turns me off people I would have like(d) to have sex with when you read some of the things they come out with.

I'm sure the feeling is mutual. "

So the forums are sort of an early warning system to filter out potential playmates..........very clever!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

I think a lot if what is said in the forums is with a sense if irony or humour highlighting some attitudes on the site in general - some ladies ive spoken to about actual messages theyve received - makes my toes curl and my willy disappear for the winter - im amazed any woman will have sex with us given the level of some behaviour on here

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m not here for sex but when I was the forum didn’t put me off. It may have put me off some folk, it was a good filter. I’m not visual and the forum was a great way to see what people were like. Sex should be fun and with people that stimulate your mind. I found Swing in the forum or he may have found me. He didn’t post things that put me off him or sex. His posts made me laugh. Other types of posts I ignored then and I do now, why read stuff that makes you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot if what is said in the forums is with a sense if irony or humour highlighting some attitudes on the site in general - some ladies ive spoken to about actual messages theyve received - makes my toes curl and my willy disappear for the winter - im amazed any woman will have sex with us given the level of some behaviour on here "

I just like the fact that some folks take the forums seriously!

As that great orator once said

“The forums are a cruel and shallow erotica trench, a long plastic hallway where Neanderthals and keyboard warriors run free, but where good people die like hero’s in a muddy ditch. There is however a negative side.”

Don’t you think?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

Agreed in regards to the lounge ..

It's been a miserable serious place for months and it certainly doesn't get me twitching

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By *atchingupforlosttimeMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I don’t think that’s true, would you really turn down Mr Reynolds???

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

I make you right. There's some pretty scabby and abrasive contributions. I suspect some are attempted humour but some make you wonder if there's a different agenda.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Just make sure that you DON'T google for the things you've not heard of. Eg. don't under any circumstances try to find out what "purple ironing" is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, doesn't put me off sex but definitely turns me off people I would have like(d) to have sex with when you read some of the things they come out with.

I'm sure the feeling is mutual.

So the forums are sort of an early warning system to filter out potential playmates..........very clever!"

Yes. If you've been around a long time it's a good way to see if you'd click with someone as you get a good feel for a person. And it's a good way to see who's feeding you shit too. I've chatted to men who say I'd be the only one they want to meet, how much they love my body type, yet you piece together a picture of every woman they are saying the same thing to when you use the forums often.

So it doesn't put me off sex, but definitely puts me off people I might have wanted sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In so far as using the forum allows you to get probably a better feel for a profile that their pics and bio alone, I think it makes me like the people I like more, and able to distinguish the ones I won't/don't better also. Win:win. OK, we talk a load of receptive bollox, but I'm totally on board with that, do it at work too only with less lingerie. Can't take this place too seriously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which begs the question ...... Why keep in returning?

Is it a way to control, to keep you turned off at the idea of sex or are you expecting a different result?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

I make you right. There's some pretty scabby and abrasive contributions. I suspect some are attempted humour but some make you wonder if there's a different agenda. "

What other agendas are there?

Monty Pythons Spanish Inquisition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, no. There are some 'preferences' expressed that leave me feeling a little green, but they aren't mine so it doesn't matter. What it has made me realise is that fab is the least likely place I will find it. I stay solely because of the interaction on the forums, and the few people I chat to. Sad, but true.

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By *4DY-FWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nothing puts me off sex. A certain attitude can put me off a person, but I wouldn’t take it too seriously or dwell on it with somebody I’d never met.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

I make you right. There's some pretty scabby and abrasive contributions. I suspect some are attempted humour but some make you wonder if there's a different agenda.

What other agendas are there?

Monty Pythons Spanish Inquisition "

Nobody expects the inquisition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing puts me off sex. A certain attitude can put me off a person, but I wouldn’t take it too seriously or dwell on it with somebody I’d never met. "

I think it’s a case of someone overthinking the wonderful world of fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

I make you right. There's some pretty scabby and abrasive contributions. I suspect some are attempted humour but some make you wonder if there's a different agenda.

What other agendas are there?

Monty Pythons Spanish Inquisition

Nobody expects the inquisition "

But we look good in our red uniforms!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Some folk are only here for attention on the forums and have no intentions of meeting. Red flags for me are those that have no photo verification ( so easy to do) , no meeting verifications and no public photos. Sometimes I wonder if they are actually the gender they claim to be, after all they have done nothing to prove they are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some folk are only here for attention on the forums and have no intentions of meeting. Red flags for me are those that have no photo verification ( so easy to do) , no meeting verifications and no public photos. Sometimes I wonder if they are actually the gender they claim to be, after all they have done nothing to prove they are real "

Women pretending to men sending dick pics to fend off the competition?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No. But that's only because I use the forums for shits and giggles

There are a fair few gems in fab to be discovered

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Just make sure that you DON'T google for the things you've not heard of. Eg. don't under any circumstances try to find out what "purple ironing" is..."

Pollyyyyyyyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. But that's only because I use the forums for shits and giggles

There are a fair few gems in fab to be discovered "

Not at the same time one hopes?

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I can see why some of the things men post on here would put women off, but its a good way to find out what they are like with going through a week of messaging.

Not me though, I'm a gem,

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"Just make sure that you DON'T google for the things you've not heard of. Eg. don't under any circumstances try to find out what "purple ironing" is...

Pollyyyyyyyyyy "

Oh god, I googled it.

They even do collection!?!?!

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, Fab has put me off of late so my profile says not meeting. I know there are some "gems" but JFC the comments about women on the forum are horrific sometimes. I can't be arsed to engage right now.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

It has to an extent, and it’s because of the comments that are seen banded around about in regards to people.

On top of that, body confidence issues as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums in general are just a place to vent and generally heavily frequented by those with no other form of entertainment. Just look at the span of hours and frequency of posting of the most prolific, other than a few hours when asleep they are here 24/7.. That's not unique to this forum either. It's a bit like a drug. The only thing that's missing from this forum is the annoying git that answers every single thread with "use the search button" comment.

The forums, the chat rooms nor the profiles turn us on especially. It's meeting the people from interactions in all three areas that make for the turn on moments or playing out some of the stuff we see or read here by ourselves. In other words it's a means to an end - the end being threesomes, foursomes or moresomes and the filthy talk we have about all of those things in our private times.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

No o/p. I like the forum and cam room chat/humour. Anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to conclude:

I'm too weak and need the forums.

I'm far too intelligent to be here (this seems most likely).

I may or may not be female.

I'm not full of fun (kinda glad about this, I hate those people).

I should leave.

Don't Google.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Some folk are only here for attention on the forums and have no intentions of meeting. Red flags for me are those that have no photo verification ( so easy to do) , no meeting verifications and no public photos. Sometimes I wonder if they are actually the gender they claim to be, after all they have done nothing to prove they are real

Women pretending to men sending dick pics to fend off the competition? "

Oh definitely. So many men pretending to be women on here. That’s why those profiles are never photo verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some folk are only here for attention on the forums and have no intentions of meeting. Red flags for me are those that have no photo verification ( so easy to do) , no meeting verifications and no public photos. Sometimes I wonder if they are actually the gender they claim to be, after all they have done nothing to prove they are real "

I don't do meeting verifications as I just don't like them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

So many men pretending to be women on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on Fab put me off sex with people on Fab. I don't fuck forumites on this profile anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People on Fab put me off sex with people on Fab. I don't fuck forumites on this profile anyway. "

^Her other profile's Insider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People on Fab put me off sex with people on Fab. I don't fuck forumites on this profile anyway.

^Her other profile's Insider."

inside her

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. gosling or Reynolds?

Both please? "
lol OK I'll arrange it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People on Fab put me off sex with people on Fab. I don't fuck forumites on this profile anyway.

^Her other profile's Insider.

inside her"

In Cider.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve disassociated the fab forums with sex now. I only come on now to find out which hot beverage people drink before bedtime, what gas mark people prefer to have their oven set at and whether they butter their toast left to right or vice versa.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I’ve disassociated the fab forums with sex now. I only come on now to find out which hot beverage people drink before bedtime, what gas mark people prefer to have their oven set at and whether they butter their toast left to right or vice versa. "

There are some genuine swingers on the forums mate so don’t write it off. However they tend to have good photos, a decent bio and both photo and actual meet verifications. Jurys out if they haven’t unless they prove otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like using the forums to find people to fuck, but the forums also put me off certain men too! I had a whole period when fab put me off men altogether (more the messages than the forum) but I always find the forums amusing if nothing else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It’s pretty slim pickings for the intellectual elite don’t you think?

Intellectual Elite?

Well. This is a step up from “professional “ I want to meet these people. … I suppose in need to stop joining sex clubs and go to my local library "

You've got to be invited to the platinum fab level for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like using the forums to find people to fuck, but the forums also put me off certain men too! I had a whole period when fab put me off men altogether (more the messages than the forum) but I always find the forums amusing if nothing else! "

God forbid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. gosling or Reynolds?

Both please? lol OK I'll arrange it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve disassociated the fab forums with sex now. I only come on now to find out which hot beverage people drink before bedtime, what gas mark people prefer to have their oven set at and whether they butter their toast left to right or vice versa. "

There are lots of forumites who meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like using the forums to find people to fuck, but the forums also put me off certain men too! I had a whole period when fab put me off men altogether (more the messages than the forum) but I always find the forums amusing if nothing else!

God forbid "

Lol!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Intellectual elite. Fucking hell.

I quite like the fora. The people I've met thanks to it. Sure, sometimes the posts towel dry my vagina but I don't know... can't take it too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I quite like the fora. The people I've met thanks to it. Sure, sometimes the posts towel dry my vagina but I don't know... can't take it too seriously. "

Brilliantly put as always

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"Intellectual elite. Fucking hell.

I quite like the fora. The people I've met thanks to it. Sure, sometimes the posts towel dry my vagina but I don't know... can't take it too seriously. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex "

This is because you are a man.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex "

I suspect some may take that as a challenge.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, fab puts me off way more than it turns me on, I've seen to many cocks, cum dripping vag's and arseholes than I'd like to see in a lifetime.

On the other hand though I've met some amazing people and had great meets.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex

This is because you are a man."

You are being obtuse now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex

This is because you are a man.

You are being obtuse now. "

You spelt realistic wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums. "

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anything has the ability to put me off sex

This is because you are a man.

You are being obtuse now.

You spelt realistic wrong. "

Yes it probably does put you off sex with some!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex "

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

"

You seem very angry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

You seem very angry!"

That's not angry.

It's called not falling for shit.

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By *ingeringfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I find the forums interesting but I admit that the general experience can be a nasty hit to confidence a lot of the time. Thanks to fab I've gotten a thicker skin and learned that some people can just be cruel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP i salute you for your views

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one gets me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP i salute you for your views "

I'm not having sex with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one gets me. "

I totaly get you love your profile awesome read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP i salute you for your views

I'm not having sex with you

"

No one has sex with anyone this is fab remember its forvwomen to feel better and make men feel like shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP i salute you for your views

I'm not having sex with you

"

love this response!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

I find a lot of things that are said in the forum to be pretty gross.

People will judge me through the lens of ageism / stereotyping and they'd be very wrong ..... im neither sensitive nor prudish

A lot of what is said isn't sexual , sensual or arousing. It's just playground vulgarity because some need it for sex substitution .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

You seem very angry!

That's not angry.

It's called not falling for shit.

"

Why on Earth are you on this site?

You profile is just a list of rants and forumites reduce your libido!

The hypothesis that the forum contributors can be a good indication of giving someone a very wide birth are probably justified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one gets me. "

Probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

You seem very angry!

That's not angry.

It's called not falling for shit.

Why on Earth are you on this site?

You profile is just a list of rants and forumites reduce your libido!

The hypothesis that the forum contributors can be a good indication of giving someone a very wide birth are probably justified!"

Gutted

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"

Or more specifically the forums.

The forums can and do put me off people, who could otherwise be seen positively for having hot bods etc. But putting me off people I have decided to dislike on the basis of their personality doesn't put me off sex full stop.

If an idiot dissed my favourite sandwich, I'd still eat it.

No, it's the gaping sticky clunge and death-gripped erection pics that put me off sex

The pictures I'm immune to now.

People with a personality, whether I agree with them or not I actually like.

It's the same guy referring to about 20 women in the one thread as beautiful.

The guys that so obviously ignore everyone else and go after the "hot" ones.

The compliments that just scream desperate that i cringe for them.

The best are the guys that bang on about how it's all about "the connection", then you see what they write in the tits/arse/pussy/knuckles/shoulders out threads.

You seem very angry!"

When a woman voices an opinion or shares information , it is because she has the level of intelligence to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a random question, completely unrelated to anything on here. Does it state in the rules if you can call someone a knob or not?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Just a random question, completely unrelated to anything on here. Does it state in the rules if you can call someone a knob or not? "

It doesn't use that word but it warns against attacking others verbally.....

I find knob pretty tame but knobs might find it objectionable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a random question, completely unrelated to anything on here. Does it state in the rules if you can call someone a knob or not?

It doesn't use that word but it warns against attacking others verbally.....

I find knob pretty tame but knobs might find it objectionable. "

They generally do.

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over a year ago

I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth "

It's subjective though. Not a fact

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth "

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Just a random question, completely unrelated to anything on here. Does it state in the rules if you can call someone a knob or not? "

It's best to not call anyone anything. Ribbing people you know is generally acceptable, if it's widely known you know each other and are joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

It's subjective though. Not a fact"

Its a fact to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a random question, completely unrelated to anything on here. Does it state in the rules if you can call someone a knob or not?

It's best to not call anyone anything. Ribbing people you know is generally acceptable, if it's widely known you know each other and are joking.

"

Ah I know I know.

I can be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

It's subjective though. Not a fact"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan.

I find a lot of things that are said in the forum to be pretty gross. I

People will judge me through the lens of ageism / stereotyping and they'd be very wrong ..... im neither sensitive nor prudish

A lot of what is said isn't sexual , sensual or arousing. It's just playground vulgarity because some need it for sex substitution ..... "

If anybody doesn’t treat the forums with a degree of scepticism and jocularity then more fool them.

You have the ultimate censor in not participating or contributing to the subject matter.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have to admit, there's a few torsos on this thread I wouldn't mind getting my hands on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs. "

So your saying there is no such thing as a person who's a cu%t dont believe youve never called anyone that yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs. "

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling! "

I'm too tired to debate.

I'm right.

End of.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"The OP is either being tongue in cheek with her hypothesis or overthinking she is a member of a recreational sex site whose membership over 90% male of varying evolutionary stages.

If fab has a diminishing effect on your libido perhaps it’s time to depart? "

Varying evolutionary stages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling! "

What you on about im not talking about a view point just some people on here are cu#ts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

So your saying there is no such thing as a person who's a cu%t dont believe youve never called anyone that yourself"

No Lee...... YOU said that.

If you read what I wrote. That's what I said .

Im really interested in how you came to the belief that I've never called anyone a CUNT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling!

I'm too tired to debate.

I'm right.

End of. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling!

I'm too tired to debate.

I'm right.

End of.

"

I'm really not having sex with, stop agreeing with me!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling!

What you on about im not talking about a view point just some people on here are cu#ts"

Yes Lee. That's right.

Tell me, How does a person become a cunt ?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

So your saying there is no such thing as a person who's a cu%t dont believe youve never called anyone that yourself"

Someone met me in person and when I told them my Fab name said oh I always thought you was a bit of a cunt, but you're a right laugh.

She thought it, others might not.

All subjective, and name-calling isn't allowed on here because it goes against the ethos of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

So your saying there is no such thing as a person who's a cu%t dont believe youve never called anyone that yourself

No Lee...... YOU said that.

If you read what I wrote. That's what I said .

Im really interested in how you came to the belief that I've never called anyone a CUNT"

What are you talking about you said ah dont call someone a cunt cause they have different opinion IM NOT DOING THAT im calling someoneva cunt cause they are one thats it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You never come across as Cuntish Nanna......

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

When you start flinging around ad hominem fallacies you've lost the argument.

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Or does Fab actually put you off sex?

Or more specifically the forums. The comments people come out with just make me eurrgrhhhh.

I'm pretty sure it is just me judging by most of the comments, but I have never wanted sex less than I do right now.

I'd even say no to Ryan. "

Not specifically the forums, but Fab in general is great to begin with but just gets tiresome in the end with what feels like colossal expectations on ‘you’.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"You never come across as Cuntish Nanna...... "

Maybe they caught me on an off day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well this ended lovely.

I'm off to drink coffee rum.

Yes that's right, Kraken Roast Coffee Rum!!!

(It deserves capitals for each word)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you should be allowed to be honest and if someones a cu%t its just the truth

No that's not true Lee. That's basically how immature people react when someone voices an opinion that differs to theirs.

Exactly! Debate a point, don’t resort to name calling!

What you on about im not talking about a view point just some people on here are cu#ts"

That’s a viewpoint! You thinking they are doesn’t make it fact! You might think they are a c**t and other people may not agree with you. It’s only your opinion that they are one and a lot of that will be down to your own bias.

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