FabSwingers.com forum: Sex in the dark or lights on?

By *rTongueTeaser OP Man
over a year ago

CHELMSFORD

Which is preferred and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm I like to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on for the above reason x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like soft lighting, I don’t want it completely dark but I don’t want the big light on either

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Dark room scary place but amazing but like the lights on or may get lost

and put in the wrong place

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I like soft lighting, I don’t want it completely dark but I don’t want the big light on either

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on.

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By *yder RavishMan
over a year ago

Ware Hertfordshire

Soft lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed down, so you don't have to see my face and just enough for me to see a cock unload

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on if you can’t look at me with the lights on then I am not for you

Yes I don’t mind just being something to use for the night

But I do want to feel wanted in that moment and with the lights off I don’t feel like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like flashing lights. Strobe - It makes it look like I’m moving fast.

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By *aughtybutnicecouple69Couple
over a year ago

Perth

Subtle lighting preferably.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Candle light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind lights on but don’t like big light on. Mostly just because I don’t like the big light on at any point in the day unless something is lost and I’m looking for it.

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Lights on if you can’t look at me with the lights on then I am not for you

Yes I don’t mind just being something to use for the night

But I do want to feel wanted in that moment and with the lights off I don’t feel like that "

This 100%!

Lights on so we can all enjoy what we are getting and taking part in.

Unless lights off is part of the sex game, you’re just missing out on half the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

High beams pointing at the park bench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t all women like it in the dark. Like pitch black? They do with me …

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By *trawberry shortcake 9999Woman
over a year ago

I normal meet the person in daylight first, so if they don't like me then we won't be meeting again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t all women like it in the dark. Like pitch black? They do with me … "

Lights on, bag on head could be a compromise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the lights off

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Like light on low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t all women like it in the dark. Like pitch black? They do with me …

Lights on, bag on head could be a compromise?

As long as it’s not a plastic one tied around my throat, it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind lights on but don’t like big light on. Mostly just because I don’t like the big light on at any point in the day unless something is lost and I’m looking for it. "

Same. I rarely use the big lights, I have lamps.

Pxx

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Lights on. I want to see

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Lights on bright despite cost these days. Wanna see those tits heaving and bums rising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on so I can see what I am getting

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Lights off so it’s pitch black and all parties narrating any sexual activity in the voice of Morgan Freeman really sets the mood for an erotic evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t all women like it in the dark. Like pitch black? They do with me …

Lights on, bag on head could be a compromise?

As long as it’s not a plastic one tied around my throat, it’s all good

Spoilsport

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Lights on so I can see her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shall I put the red light on? Or shall I leave the big light off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don’t all women like it in the dark. Like pitch black? They do with me …

Lights on, bag on head could be a compromise?

As long as it’s not a plastic one tied around my throat, it’s all good

Spoilsport

Whatever the good lady wants, who am I to deny her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on. I want the visuals..

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

"Like light on low "

Ooh please light so bright with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting for sure! But pitch black can be fun also. Just getting sex is the main thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dimmed lights

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Lamp on.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Lights on, but not too bright, I am a visual creature and my eyes need stimulating: not obliterating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the dark? Kinky fucker!!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

But then I also like when you wake up in the middle of the night and it's dark and you have to navigate eachother with your hands too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the lights off

Blindfold?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet during the day so theres no question of lights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On please so she can see intensity on my face and i can see her eyes when i put my willy in or when shes cummin i think watching each others reactions to things adds a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a lot more confident with the light off

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By *rTongueTeaser OP Man
over a year ago

CHELMSFORD

"I’m a lot more confident with the light off "

Definitely understand this, the exploring is great fun, hearing and feeling a good reaction can be so sexual, maybe a difference in mental and physical attraction, mental simulation is a strong important part of good sex isn't it?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sex over the kitchen worktop with the lights off could be dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft mood lighting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lights on preferably dimmed or soft lighting, I want to see everything

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over a year ago

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Lights on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an infrared light we bought for other reasons and it turns out it’s the perfect light for having sex

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Lights on preferably not blue ones unless they’re joining in

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Soft lighting, I like to see.

I don't like the big light on though, just a lamp or something, keep the atmosphere relaxing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely on. I like soft lighting or daylight. Preferably in front of a mirror so I can see everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft lighting, maybe candles, background music, wine, sets the scene perfectly

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Can't see shite all at the best of times. Lights please...

However, I have made frenetic love inside a completely sealed black rubber bag before. It was rather fun, hot, sweaty, slidy, huge sensory over load...

So dark can also work in the right setting...

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

In front of my fire with some music is always good x

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By *onningtonplumberMan
over a year ago

Donnington

Usually lights on. But have a fantasy of climbing into back of the van for a completely tactile encounter. I think the optical sensory deprivation would be extremely hornet..

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