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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was talking to a female friend and she said she keeps score over how many blokes she has slept with and rates them out of 10. And obviously this is just a private list.

Do you keep score?

As I found this strange. But each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rate them as better or worse than a wank.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Not since I was a teenager

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"I was talking to a female friend and she said she keeps score over how many blokes she has slept with and rates them out of 10. And obviously this is just a private list.

Do you keep score?

As I found this strange. But each to their own."

Sounds a pretty awful lady tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as that's something you'd expect to here from a kid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope because I have forgotten the true number a long time ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and if I tried I wouldn't be able to tally up

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

No there are some better than others but I wouldn’t score them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy show me a list once... It wasn't very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a score per se but I do have fond memories of the great times…the bad times just sort of fade away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half "

I'd give you one.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one."

watch out I may enjoy that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no! That sounds like far too much effort and rather reductive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one.

watch out I may enjoy that ! "

I am rough and selfish. Unlike Ricky Machado. For all his bluster, he is a kind and considerate lover.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I might jot something in personal notes on their profile if something was especially good or not so enjoyable. But allocating scores seems something teenage lads would do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one.

watch out I may enjoy that !

I am rough and selfish. Unlike Ricky Machado. For all his bluster, he is a kind and considerate lover."

That’s how I like it anyway ! Don’t be gentle with my Johnson !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one.

watch out I may enjoy that !

I am rough and selfish. Unlike Ricky Machado. For all his bluster, he is a kind and considerate lover.

That’s how I like it anyway ! Don’t be gentle with my Johnson ! "

This is also good. I have the sandpaper ready

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

These days, I'm just happy somebody wants to get naked with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one.

watch out I may enjoy that !

I am rough and selfish. Unlike Ricky Machado. For all his bluster, he is a kind and considerate lover.

That’s how I like it anyway ! Don’t be gentle with my Johnson !

This is also good. I have the sandpaper ready "

Prefer sea salt !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly don’t. But I could if I had 150 hands and a half

I'd give you one.

watch out I may enjoy that !

I am rough and selfish. Unlike Ricky Machado. For all his bluster, he is a kind and considerate lover.

That’s how I like it anyway ! Don’t be gentle with my Johnson !

This is also good. I have the sandpaper ready

Prefer sea salt ! "

You salty sea dog

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

One of my FWB's does this ..

I find it quite amusing haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plant a tree for every girl I fuck. It’s a Druid thing.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I don't keep a score, per se, because I only blag a few paramours per year.

However I'm always gracious enough to leave feedback on ClitAdvisor™.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I plant a tree for every girl I fuck. It’s a Druid thing. "

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You must live in one sizeable arboretum, my silvan friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Some will be better than others, it comes down to preference, connection, the tension you build prior to sexual intercourse and many other factors.

You can’t compare eggs with biscuits….

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

God no. No time for this lol

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Yes, I keep a spreadsheet, rate everyone on ten different criteria, and add those up to give an overall score out of one hundred.

OR

Good grief no, and I'm not really sure why anyone would do such a thing!

* one of the above may not be true.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I do this in reverse. I've only slept with 10 women so I rate them out of 150.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Mind you I can still remember them all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does she do that!?!

Surely if you'd slept with someone you'd remember how it was?

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I was talking to a female friend and she said she keeps score over how many blokes she has slept with and rates them out of 10. And obviously this is just a private list.

Do you keep score?

As I found this strange. But each to their own."
no its an experience can you remember everywhere you've been and what you did lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, but I'm sure plenty who have met me have clocked it up as an own goal, though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I plant a tree for every girl I fuck. It’s a Druid thing.

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You must live in one sizeable arboretum, my silvan friend."

I can’t see the woods for the trees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure how accurate a score system would be unless you had a standard, step by step, indentical sex format

But that could well be the case for someone who likes scoring people.

Bit like comparing apples to oranges.

I've not had many in my lifetime but, even in that small sample, no two partners have been remotely the same experience.

I suppose I would think as far as "would I see them again?'

But that'd be it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's not something I would do or have any interest in doing. I tend to remember who I have fucked and what they were like. I've never felt the need to keep a list or rate anyone. The only thing I would need to know is if I wanted to meet them again and I don't need a list to know that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yup, colour coded spreadsheet mate

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I was talking to a female friend and she said she keeps score over how many blokes she has slept with and rates them out of 10. And obviously this is just a private list.

Do you keep score?

As I found this strange. But each to their own.

Sounds a pretty awful lady tbh "

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dancing friend used to do this with each of his dance partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A dancing friend used to do this with each of his dance partners "

SEVEN!

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By *evonNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

No way, each encounter is different and has its own merits so would be difficult to score anyway. We certainly use our better meets to talk about during sex with each other but thats it really x

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Got mixed feelings about this. It’s not really the way to treat others. However I must admit the one ladies list I have seen was really horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A dancing friend used to do this with each of his dance partners

SEVEN!"

Ha! if only

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

No but providing she keeps it to herself I don't see the issue

Surely making a note of them and how good she thought they were together is helpful as it means she could contact the good ones for another meet if of course they wanted to too, you wouldn't want to meet someone again that didn't do it for you would you?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"A dancing friend used to do this with each of his dance partners

SEVEN!"

Surely more? God i said this was not on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's over the age of 20 I'd say she's a tad immature.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't keep score, but I damn well know which ones I want to invite back

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

It's like once you leave drama school, you get out of the habit of "counting the lines".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I don’t keep score!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

The majority of people on fab do this.

They’re called verifications…

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Wait - if someone said "I write in my diary about every one of my meets" nobody would think it odd...but the spreadsheet is a low hanging fruit for jokes! I once was chatting to a woman who kept one such spreadsheet, unfortunately lost during a hard drive fail. She was genuinely bereft to have lost her records, which was her memento.

Worth remembering also that some of us have autistic tendencies, OCD tendencies etc. Having sex with multiple people is a pretty extreme experience, and comprising a list is one way of processing it, putting some order to something that frankly is very chaotic.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've got a list of who I've met from here, purely because my memory is rubbish. I don't score them though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lost track of my body count, but I'd probably write a few sentences rather than rate if I did this. That would be a lot nicer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but i do keep orgasm records in my orgasmic file on my phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of 10?

It’s a 1 or a 0 for me

I’d either do it again or I wouldn’t

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"The majority of people on fab do this.

They’re called verifications… "

Very good point. We all like them and sometimes I admit have craved them

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No don't score! Some have been more memorable than others! But my number is still under 20 just! For my 65 years so do remember them all x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Yes, I keep a spreadsheet, rate everyone on ten different criteria, and add those up to give an overall score out of one hundred."

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Do you use Microsoft Excel or Google Sheets? Just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do you keep score?

…."

Yes. And I’m winning.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

No, I don’t some will always be more memorable than others for one reason or another but that’s about it.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Yes, I keep a spreadsheet, rate everyone on ten different criteria, and add those up to give an overall score out of one hundred.

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Do you use Microsoft Excel or Google Sheets? Just curious."

Always Excel, the pivot tables are easier to do than in Sheets

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Yes, I keep a spreadsheet, rate everyone on ten different criteria, and add those up to give an overall score out of one hundred.

•

Do you use Microsoft Excel or Google Sheets? Just curious.

Always Excel, the pivot tables are easier to do than in Sheets"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept a list when I was younger -- no scoring, just names.

For a while it was about clocking up numbers (I think that's a guy thing), but then it became about remembering people as individuals, because I think that's kinda important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worth remembering also that some of us have autistic tendencies, OCD tendencies etc. Having sex with multiple people is a pretty extreme experience, and comprising a list is one way of processing it, putting some order to something that frankly is very chaotic."
That'll be me then -- took several decades on this planet before my aspergers was formerly diagnosed, so it's more than just a tendency.

Never considered it as a method for organising my chaos though, but that does make a lot of sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep lists of everything - books I've read, races and times, work I've done to my house. So yes, I keep a list of men I've had sex with. I don't give them a score. I just make a note of where they're from.

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By *ndiiiMan
over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"It's not something I would do or have any interest in doing. I tend to remember who I have fucked and what they were like. I've never felt the need to keep a list or rate anyone. The only thing I would need to know is if I wanted to meet them again and I don't need a list to know that. "

Totally agree.

You know those youd want to fuck again, and those that were , thanks, maybe see you again......not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does she do that!?!

Surely if you'd slept with someone you'd remember how it was? "

Just what I was thinking, how many is she sleeping with 3 or 4 a night ?!?

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I know exactly how many people I've had the privilege of sleeping with, but I certainly don't assign them a rating. Every experience is unique and entirely its own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got an invite from a lady of Fab and above her bed was an electronic scoreboard with her previous lovers scores for

Artistic content

Style

Technical ability

Timing

Needless to say my predecessor had 9.9 in all categories.

Unfortunately I slipped whilst performing a triple salchow and was graded accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t every time is unique

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

Mordor

Sex or admin, sex or admin...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was talking to a female friend and she said she keeps score over how many blokes she has slept with and rates them out of 10. And obviously this is just a private list.

Do you keep score?

As I found this strange. But each to their own."

Wonder if there are bonus points for artistic interpretation and content?

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

No. But one night down the pub My Girl asked me how many. I said not a lot. She said put a number on it. I honestly didn't think it was a lot. But then casting my mind back and I remembered this one and that one and the lost went on and on. The numbers really racked up fast and we were both shocked. Especially because within that time I'd been in an 8 year monogamous relationship/marriage.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I know in my head how many people I've slept with, but it's never occured to me give them a score.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know in my head how many people I've slept with, but it's never occured to me give them a score."

Exactly the same.

Also instinctively know who I would meet again

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No. I've lost count. I'd be curious to know but the number is lost to history. Luke

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Ok started this last year as I was curious. Annoyingly I'm doing it this year as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost count at 20. I know who the best fucks were though.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I haven't rated them per se, but I can count them....feels like I shouldn't admit that here lol - Xeno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh how many women i banged get you now what i will reveal is its much lower than you may believe and much much much lower than it could be

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No we just enjoy being in the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a list. I just keep tabs in my mind lol

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