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Help me out here with some possible alternative explanations for people being coy about whereabouts in the country they are. I see all sorts of crap in the little box which is supposed to tell you a potential match's location - from 'The Shire' to 'somewhere where you are not'.
Puzzling...
All I can think of is that these people are ONLY looking to message or perhaps webcam - which is absolutely fine, of course! So I just dismiss them. Cos I wanna be... you know... doing all kinds a sex n whatnot 
So what's up? Am I missing sump'n?? | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters " Makes you feel safer, you mean..? Yes I can see that 
Why not give your county though,bat least..? Im not looking for an address!  | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters " This 
Add in Married & Their job (might bump into work colleagues) | |||
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The Guilded Palace of Sin is located in Mcr, for anyone who’s interested  | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters This
Add in Married & Their job (might bump into work colleagues)"Thanks Peony But your photos make you anonymous enough, surely..? Would your boss or husband really recognise a pic of your freshly -caned bottom..?  | |||
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"I’ve been here long enough to have thought people would know where I live. I’ll stick it in my profile… a way to see if anyone really reads them…
The Guilded Palace of Sin is located in Mcr, for anyone who’s interested "Ah! So locals would get it, but anybody else from further afield probs not? Crafty!! | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters "
If I want to travel, I will. Whether it's a 10 minute drive or a 3 hour train journey. My location is irrelevant to anyone but me. | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters This
Add in Married & Their job (might bump into work colleagues)
Thanks Peony
But your photos make you anonymous enough, surely..? Would your boss or husband really recognise a pic of your freshly -caned bottom..? "Mine is for security reasons and also my job, as I work with vulnerable adults, if I got spotted on here I’d definitely be hauled in the office! lol | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters
If I want to travel, I will. Whether it's a 10 minute drive or a 3 hour train journey. My location is irrelevant to anyone but me. "Thanks! Gotcha... I wonder though, do you get a lot of messages which open with "where r u?". Cos that must be very tiresome. And yet it's a reasonable question, surely, cos a fella wants to know if YOU fit HIS criteria. A feller is allowed to have criteria too isn't he..? | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters
If I want to travel, I will. Whether it's a 10 minute drive or a 3 hour train journey. My location is irrelevant to anyone but me.
Thanks! Gotcha...
I wonder though, do you get a lot of messages which open with "where r u?". Cos that must be very tiresome. And yet it's a reasonable question, surely, cos a fella wants to know if YOU fit HIS criteria. A feller is allowed to have criteria too isn't he..?
"All messages from men are tiresome. I don't fit their criteria so I don't know why they waste time messaging. | |||
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"I’ve been here long enough to have thought people would know where I live. I’ll stick it in my profile… a way to see if anyone really reads them…
The Guilded Palace of Sin is located in Mcr, for anyone who’s interested
Ah! So locals would get it, but anybody else from further afield probs not? Crafty!! "Not really. (It’s fictional, named after a band interestingly enough). But, it might be crafty enough to have someone ask as an ice breaker. I feel too much Information can spoil my intrigue for someone too. 80 miles isn’t far to travel, and it’s a nice surprise when you find out where Snowpiercer is (that was a location once) So there’s that. | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters
If I want to travel, I will. Whether it's a 10 minute drive or a 3 hour train journey. My location is irrelevant to anyone but me.
Thanks! Gotcha...
I wonder though, do you get a lot of messages which open with "where r u?". Cos that must be very tiresome. And yet it's a reasonable question, surely, cos a fella wants to know if YOU fit HIS criteria. A feller is allowed to have criteria too isn't he..?
All messages from men are tiresome. I don't fit their criteria so I don't know why they waste time messaging. " *sniff!* | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. " Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this! | |||
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"Privacy? Security? Confidence? Cut down the - you are 10 mins away, so you will meet me kinda crap for starters
If I want to travel, I will. Whether it's a 10 minute drive or a 3 hour train journey. My location is irrelevant to anyone but me.
Thanks! Gotcha...
I wonder though, do you get a lot of messages which open with "where r u?". Cos that must be very tiresome. And yet it's a reasonable question, surely, cos a fella wants to know if YOU fit HIS criteria. A feller is allowed to have criteria too isn't he..?
All messages from men are tiresome. I don't fit their criteria so I don't know why they waste time messaging.
*sniff!*"So you actually DON'T wish to be messaged at all, is that right? For you it's more like a "Don't call us - We'll call you!" kinda deal? Fair enough. | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this! "Yeah we're 60+ miles away. | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this! "Yep, you're half a mile away from me   | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this!
Yep, you're half a mile away from me "*Knock Knock* "Hi I'm here to deliver this washing machine..?" x | |||
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Help me out here with some possible alternative explanations for people being coy about whereabouts in the country they are. I see all sorts of crap in the little box which is supposed to tell you a potential match's location - from 'The Shire' to 'somewhere where you are not'.
Puzzling...
All I can think of is that these people are ONLY looking to message or perhaps webcam - which is absolutely fine, of course! So I just dismiss them. Cos I wanna be... you know... doing all kinds a sex n whatnot
So what's up? Am I missing sump'n?? "some just like the forums, some move around, some just don't meet, some have had problems with past meets and some just don't want you to know, not everything here is about sex that's my guess anyways | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this!
Yep, you're half a mile away from me
*Knock Knock*
"Hi I'm here to deliver this washing machine..?"
x"That doesn't look like a washing machine to me  | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this!
Yep, you're half a mile away from me
*Knock Knock*
"Hi I'm here to deliver this washing machine..?"
x
That doesn't look like a washing machine to me "Um, Miss..? Your left boob is peeping out of your negligée. Hey why is Marvin Gaye"s Sexual Healing being played softly inside your darkened living room..? Hang on a minute..!!! x | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. " Who's saying what now..?  | |||
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"It cuts down on messages from people who are passing through or have found a layby nearby "Those pesky lay-by Shaggers!
Thanks Tina x | |||
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"We're very specific about where we live. We don't do webcam, we go to clubs and play with people's pants parts." Thanks Naomi. So you're simply not angling for contacts on here..? You only go to the club's..? Fair enough! So I would have been justified in dismissing your profile, in this instance x | |||
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"It cuts down on messages from people who are passing through or have found a layby nearby " | |||
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"I think it's just a bit redundant and not necessary. You click on a profile and it tells you West mids you can usually see the distance , 10-20 miles away, 150+ miles away etc so it doesn't really need to there. Plus I can say, the man from del monte says yes. Oh, you can find out whereabouts they roughly are even if they haven't divulged the info themselves, can you? Oh I didn't realize this!
Yep, you're half a mile away from me
*Knock Knock*
"Hi I'm here to deliver this washing machine..?"
x
That doesn't look like a washing machine to me
Um, Miss..? Your left boob is peeping out of your negligée. Hey why is Marvin Gaye"s Sexual Healing being played softly inside your darkened living room..?
Hang on a minute..!!!
x"Just call me Jeffrey
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This way, when I get messages telling me they work nearby or whatever, I ask them where and can then tell them that’s no where near me | |||
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