FabSwingers.com forum: escort

By *eznhannah OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

just had a guy mail us asking if we are into mmf even tho profile says no, but hey no suprise in that, then went on to say if not would we fancy doing a bit of couple escorting, i,e shag him for money, hannah not happy, anyone else had messages like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe, report, breathe, delete, breathe, block, breathe.............and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite the same but i've had "I wouldn't even shag you for money"

Just wrong isn't it

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Are we talking notes or pocket change?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had several mesaages asking me to met them for money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have had several mesaages asking me to met them for money"

And to date how much have you offered them

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

"i have had several mesaages asking me to met them for money

And to date how much have you offered them

i'd pay to watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have had several mesaages asking me to met them for money

And to date how much have you offered them

lol ten bob and a conker

hey im a single mum thats all i can afford lol

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i've got a sewing box full of shirt button i'll trade ya with

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By *eznhannah OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

reported, breathing, thanks, (didnt know if we could report for that but it did piss us off a bit, especially mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reported, breathing, thanks, (didnt know if we could report for that but it did piss us off a bit, especially mrs)"

You can report anything on here, especially the disrespect sort of thing

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Yep had it twice along time ago that went to youtopia and did not play, tried to pay me set him up with guests that may be staying here.

Hence not seen him again

ian

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"reported, breathing, thanks, (didnt know if we could report for that but it did piss us off a bit, especially mrs)

You can report anything on here, especially the disrespect sort of thing

Isn't this soliciting prostitution, and therefore a criminal offence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reported, breathing, thanks, (didnt know if we could report for that but it did piss us off a bit, especially mrs)

You can report anything on here, especially the disrespect sort of thing

Isn't this soliciting prostitution, and therefore a criminal offence? "

are you going to go to the police and say

well i was on this swingers site...... lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Isn't this soliciting prostitution, and therefore a criminal offence?

are you going to go to the police and say

well i was on this swingers site...... lol"

No, I'd take the money!

My point was that if that's not an offence worthy of being reported to admin, I don't know what is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reported, breathing, thanks, (didnt know if we could report for that but it did piss us off a bit, especially mrs)

You can report anything on here, especially the disrespect sort of thing

Isn't this soliciting prostitution, and therefore a criminal offence? "

Not really, soliciting is basically advertising that one offers this service.

it's not illegal to ask if someone is up for that, but may well be frowned upon anyway.

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By *eznhannah OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

werent advertising he was asking if he could pay us, to me (gez) i just thought dickhead block move on but hannah took exception, you wouldnt go up to someone in a pub and say does your wife fuck for cash, which is pretty much what he was saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"werent advertising he was asking if he could pay us, to me (gez) i just thought dickhead block move on but hannah took exception, you wouldnt go up to someone in a pub and say does your wife fuck for cash, which is pretty much what he was saying"

People seem to think as its just said in a mail its less of an insult maybe.. Your right, if said to your face would get a different reaction eh..

Some do though.. feel safe behind the keyboard maybe.. Ignore em though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this happen to me in one of the chatrooms on here last night.It's so insulting but.... there will be fools.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I have to say with members hat on, I used to think what are people complaining about, you can just say no if someone asks you to have sex for money.

Then we had a mail from a man on another site offering just that, and I ( Mrs) was offended the same way as yours....almost as if they were calling me a whore.

With a mods hat on, report the profile and let Admin look into it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I stand corrected.

What are kerb crawlers arrested for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a message like this but I (mrs) would be insulted and annoyed and would report the site user, so you have done the right thing ... though I have to say (probably going to get shouted at for this but ...) when people post on the forum, presenting themselves as Escorts and stating they charge for sex then I'm afraid it probably does give other users the idea, it is acceptable and there is no harm in asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct me if I am wrong, I can't remember from the top of my head just now, but I think it was Winston Churchill that said to a lady.....

Would you spend the night with me for 10 thousand pounds, to which she replied yes, he then went on to offer a measly amount of something like £5, to which she replied 'what kind of woman do you take me for' he then said, that my lady we have established, I am now negotiating with you.

the point, it's believed that everyone has their price, don't be offended by it, but if you don't like it then report and block.

working girl ls swing too you know, so there is always a small chance that they may well accept, I know of one couple here that also work together (not through this site).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was meant to read 'working girls' not working girl is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand corrected.

What are kerb crawlers arrested for?"

not sure the charge, will get back to you on that, but it's not soliciting.

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here's a little current fact, it is not illegal to sell or buy sex, but it is difficult to do so, if advertising then it's soliciting, if kerb crawling then basically being a public nuisance, so it's understandable that a guy may offer payment.

my view is if you're giving it away for free hen why be offended if someone offers a little cash as persuasion.

I know it's against site rules and rightfully so, but I think to be offended is silly, try to take it as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand corrected.

What are kerb crawlers arrested for?

not sure the charge, will get back to you on that, but it's not soliciting.

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my view is if you're giving it away for free hen why be offended if someone offers a little cash as persuasion.

I know it's against site rules and rightfully so, but I think to be offended is silly, try to take it as a compliment."

Silly! No I dont think Im silly ... I don't want to be mistaken for a prostitute ... why is that silly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand corrected.

What are kerb crawlers arrested for?"

I've just googled, and seems you are right that the term soliciting is used in kerb crawling, but not sure it stands quite so strong as a message through a swing forum as it would someone kerb crawling in a red light district keeping the worker encouraged to work there, red light areas often close to peoples homes.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

You would be suprised how many swingers do have sex for money!!

I know several couples/single girls who escort but away from that swing too

each to there own i say i would just ignore it if you dont like it

saying that any fit milf who wants to pay me to fuck her i would certainly decline..i,m quite cheap lol you can have me for a glass of pineapple juice and a bag of pork scratchings lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have been offered money to shag one or two fellas but reported it straight away to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stand corrected.

What are kerb crawlers arrested for?

not sure the charge, will get back to you on that, but it's not soliciting.

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my view is if you're giving it away for free hen why be offended if someone offers a little cash as persuasion.

I know it's against site rules and rightfully so, but I think to be offended is silly, try to take it as a compliment.

Silly! No I dont think Im silly ... I don't want to be mistaken for a prostitute ... why is that silly!"

Sorry to offend, but it doesn't mean you are mistaken for a prostitute, and besides prostitutes have feelings and choices to you know, not all prostitutes are desperate and destitute you know, some earn a very good living from it.

my point is if we are giving it away for free what's wrong with being offered an incentive?. nothing in my mind, I certainly wouldn't be offended if myself or my partner was offered cash for it, but I/We would refuse.

just passing opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also Naughty40Cpl, my post wasn't aimed at you at anyone for that matter, it was just my opinion.

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why is it some negative prejudice opinions are accepted when others aren't?.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"also Naughty40Cpl, my post wasn't aimed at you at anyone for that matter, it was just my opinion.

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why is it some negative prejudice opinions are accepted when others aren't?.

Probably because you called people silly for being offended when asked to be a whore

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

what is wrong with the word whore?? On many of meets i have had the lady/ladies has called herself a whore and thats just her talking dirty.

Its just a word and i think way too many peeps get on the moral soap box way too much

Put it this way if you look on adult work tons of ladies on there swing too as well as escort and are members here they just dont broadcast it. Trust me you would be VERY suprised!!

Personally i dont give a shit what someone does or says so long as everyone is having fun,making a living and looking after each other then its all good

Now where is that hot milf that wants to offer me 45 million to be her toyboy lmao

i,ll be a whore for that kind of dough for real!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"what is wrong with the word whore?? On many of meets i have had the lady/ladies has called herself a whore and thats just her talking dirty.

Its just a word and i think way too many peeps get on the moral soap box way too much

Put it this way if you look on adult work tons of ladies on there swing too as well as escort and are members here they just dont broadcast it. Trust me you would be VERY suprised!!

Personally i dont give a shit what someone does or says so long as everyone is having fun,making a living and looking after each other then its all good

Now where is that hot milf that wants to offer me 45 million to be her toyboy lmao

i,ll be a whore for that kind of dough for real!"

Saying that people are offended by someone asking them to have sex for money is hardly getting on a moral soap box, it just means some people are offended by it...simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if anyone is offering a fiver.... i am skint lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS this wasn't a debate about wether people want to work as escorts or wether anyone thinks that is morally right, it was a person getting a mail offering her money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody hell, i never realsied how many women from here did this, i just had a look at adult work and recognised 3 straight away, there must be others...easy money i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also Naughty40Cpl, my post wasn't aimed at you at anyone for that matter, it was just my opinion.

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why is it some negative prejudice opinions are accepted when others aren't?.

Probably because you called people silly for being offended when asked to be a whore

Not quite true, my post wasn't aimed at anyone, I just said I think it's silly to be offended, I still do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS this wasn't a debate about wether people want to work as escorts or wether anyone thinks that is morally right, it was a person getting a mail offering her money."

How many threads stay on the same topic?.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

Exactly my point so if guys see that then some will feel it ok to offer a woman money for sex

i,m not saying its right or its wrong

look at it like this

someone liked the way you looked enough to offer money to fuck you

In my eyes i see that as a kind of compliment since he probably thinks he has no chance to meet you unless he does pay lmao sad i know but some peeps got more dough than sense

just my opinion

"bloody hell, i never realsied how many women from here did this, i just had a look at adult work and recognised 3 straight away, there must be others...easy money i guess!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how much they offered would decide if i was offended or not lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly my point so if guys see that then some will feel it ok to offer a woman money for sex

i,m not saying its right or its wrong

look at it like this

someone liked the way you looked enough to offer money to fuck you

In my eyes i see that as a kind of compliment since he probably thinks he has no chance to meet you unless he does pay lmao sad i know but some peeps got more dough than sense

just my opinion

bloody hell, i never realsied how many women from here did this, i just had a look at adult work and recognised 3 straight away, there must be others...easy money i guess!"

Exactly, but I think the problem is not that cash was offered but that the perception of prostitution is it's not a good thing, rather like the perception of swinging is not a good thing by much of society, I think it's silly to put out for free then get upset because someone thinks your nice looking enough to offer cash for what is being given away for free, I mean, really, who is the mug here? us that give it away, or those that are paid for it? it's even got me thinking, lol.

Toddles off to blag Coll into earning a living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how much they offered would decide if i was offended or not lmao"

Good point.

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By *iss scarlettWoman
over a year ago

in scarlettsville ,west lothian

Whether you think taking money for sex is right or wrong is not the point. This is a swinging site money should not be changing hands on here. I think you should always report things like this , I was offered money for my pics (god knows why) not long ago and reported it and it was dealt with. There should be nothing of that sort on here ,dont want this site getting a bad name as its a great site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

baffles me why guys on here offer anyone money for sex,

do they actually know the meaning of fab swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether you think taking money for sex is right or wrong is not the point. This is a swinging site money should not be changing hands on here. I think you should always report things like this , I was offered money for my pics (god knows why) not long ago and reported it and it was dealt with. There should be nothing of that sort on here ,dont want this site getting a bad name as its a great site.

Of course, I have said it's against site rules and rightfully so.

My point is on perception, to use derogatory terms that much of society do use regarding prostitution and swinging, is it really better to be a whore than a slag?.

Let me add, this is not my view, my view is quite the opposite, each to their own as ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"baffles me why guys on here offer anyone money for sex,

do they actually know the meaning of fab swingers

It does me too tbh, there must be sites regarding payment for sex just like there is for pretty much anything else, surely they would be better joining a site like that rather than swinging, I imagine it would be easier to get laid that way too. lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"also Naughty40Cpl, my post wasn't aimed at you at anyone for that matter, it was just my opinion.

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why is it some negative prejudice opinions are accepted when others aren't?.

Probably because you called people silly for being offended when asked to be a whore

Not quite true, my post wasn't aimed at anyone, I just said I think it's silly to be offended, I still do.

Thats the point though, everyone will be offended by something in their lives, so it isn't silly at all.

And yes, the topic always goes off on a tangent, but sometimes when people answer a post they are just not getting what is being said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they pay per pound im in!!! lol joking it is a bit rude!! and why do they need to pay are they that ugly/smelly/lack social skills?? i would be feelin more sorry for them that they need to pay!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they pay per pound im in!!! lol joking it is a bit rude!! and why do they need to pay are they that ugly/smelly/lack social skills?? i would be feelin more sorry for them that they need to pay!!

Many reasons people pay, Judges, Police officers and many people in high profile jobs, not always the desperate type at all, they may pay because they want instant relief and not want to spend months on a swing site waiting for an invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and those are the people who decide if a person is "deviant" !!

why cant they go to a pub and pull like the rest of the mere mortals??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and those are the people who decide if a person is "deviant" !!

why cant they go to a pub and pull like the rest of the mere mortals??

Yes, the same people that decide who is the criminal, they could argue that they have a high pressure job and need the relief, that they can't be seen walking into a pub to pull, that they can see what society class as a high class working girl in private and therefore less risk of being caught.

It's a funny old world ain't it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it sure is!! full of contradictions!! x

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