FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By *omethingfun96 OP Couple
over a year ago

greater london

Good, bad or downright lazy? Do you respond to winks?

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If I’d fuck the winker yes

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We’ve had some amazing adventures that started with just a wink…

It’s how we met as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone really respond on here (Yes I am doing it now)?

I like to wink, don't like copy and paste, but possibly 1 in 10 messages get a response, so how many can you possibly personalise?

A wink is suttle and always welcome from me.

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By *omethingfun96 OP Couple
over a year ago

greater london

Well from the replies so far maybe we will start paying more attention to winks

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Yes love a wink

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I don't get them or send them. Lazy!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We read the profiles of all winks, but only wink a small percentage back.

We've had meets that have started with a wink.

We've returned hundreds of winks and they haven't followed up with a message.

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By *s2pervsCouple
over a year ago

Truro

We give and receive winks. If we're 'winking' here it's us giving positive acknowledgement without the small talk (something lots here want to avoid)...we receive winks in a similar vein unless accompanied by a message elaborating on the 'winkers' feelings/sentiments etc.

And let's face it, many of us here enjoy a wink on a Saturday morning! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're a perfectly reasonable means of saying "heeeeey" and maybe starting up a dialogue.

Others think it's lazy, that's fine, but ya know, come on, as frankie says, calm down.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We give and receive winks and have had some good meets from them.

I think it's a good way to say your profile caught my eye, if they wink back we'd message.

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

"Yes love a wink"

Just sent you a wink

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By *exy gentMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

I use winks all the time, it's an ice breaker and certainly not lazy in eyes

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have and we met and had a great time.

A wink from a couple, or a woman, is sometimes all you get simply because they don't have to try harder.

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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

We look at winks occasionally and if one catches our eye will wink back. But have never had a message from said winkee so what is the point

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have messaged 2 men back who winked at me first. Both resulted in great meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great experiences and conversations are started with a wink

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

I always respond to winks

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By *he HMFsCouple
over a year ago

Stratford Upon Avon

We wink if we are attracted to a profile to see if they return the wink, if so we will message. To be honest we thought this was the purpose of it, kinda like a soft way of showing interest. But doesn't seem to be the way a lot of people use it, like if we return a wink they don't message. So why did they wink us first? Are we doing it wrong?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Winks are harmless.

It’s like that (old fashioned?) glancing smile at someone who catches your eye on a pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used correctly, they can be brilliant.

Profile 1 sends wink to show interest.

Profile 2 checks them out, doesn't appeal so ignores, or does appeal and so wink back.

Profile 1 takes the wink back as an invite to open conversation.

Then instead of sending copy and paste, or a simple Hi, or whatever, they spend a little time composing an attention grabbing message.

I don't get the viewpoint that they're lazy, I think that's either through a lack of understanding or entitlement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some and it worked out ok once.

What surprises us is people that wink and have no pictures and a “fill in later” bio

Usually just wink back for lols.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

"I have messaged 2 men back who winked at me first. Both resulted in great meets."

Ok I'm gonna start winking now

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't, as they're usually from people miles away who haven't read my profile.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I love ‘em

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

I know some people dislike them but, I've began chatting to people after a mutual winking occurred. I like them

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I don’t mind at all. I don’t check them very often though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a way of saying you've caught my eye

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I generally respond to a wink

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By *Mids guyMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

Don’t mind a wink, had some good fun that started with winks

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By *oastalloversCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

We don't mind winks just prefer a message.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

In the past I'd respond to winks if the profile was appealing.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Lazy but I will respond...as all men do that get them!

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