FabSwingers.com forum: Less is more?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was wondering what the general consensus is on profile and public pics/videos and blurb.

I think my profile blurb gets the message across of what I want without being too extreme nor vanilla (which is what I want)

I’ve reined in my public photos and videos as there were graphic sex scenes on there.

The question is, are graphic scenes offf putting to all, or is it best to showcase e we hat I want in order to attract the right partners?

Generally dick pics are frowned upon, but is it wise to show me having anal sex, if I want to attract someone into anal?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses courses etc etc.

You cannot please everyone, worry about yourself and what you want to attract.

They'll be a million different opinions despite the fact it'll be limited to 175 replies if you're lucky. Much like everything else on fab, the maths is a bit off.

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I was wondering what the general consensus is on profile and public pics/videos and blurb.

I think my profile blurb gets the message across of what I want without being too extreme nor vanilla (which is what I want)

I’ve reined in my public photos and videos as there were graphic sex scenes on there.

The question is, are graphic scenes offf putting to all, or is it best to showcase e we hat I want in order to attract the right partners?

Generally dick pics are frowned upon, but is it wise to show me having anal sex, if I want to attract someone into anal?"

Pretty sure that people will know what anal is and if they're interested then seeing you doing it with someone else won't make a jot of difference. It may however put people off.

People like all manner of activities. That doesn't mean they need to show themselves or see others performing them.

Words work adequately.