FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By *ull English with tea OP Man
over a year ago

London

Had my first one today… from a random guy cheating on his wife with other guys looking at his profile, lovely. Wished him a good day and blocked.

Why do people do this? A kick out of the relative anonymous way they can do it? Do they get a thrill from being nasty to people online?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

low mentality idiots,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eventually self-loathing overflows and splats on whoever happens to be in their path

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I have had a few, unfortunately I think people think it’s acceptable to be the keyboard warrior. What I don’t understand though is nasty vindictive statuses about people and digging at their weight, belittling people and just being horrid. That should not be allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored asshats gonna asshat.

Nothing to take to heart or too seriously, unpleasant, of course, but don't let it derail your mood.

Smile and nod, move on.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Ahhh I’ve just received one accusing me of saying something I didn’t in a shitty manner and then expect me to answer if I was interested. Well he didn’t like my reply so apparently I’m another attention seeking woman and I need to grow up. Half of it is they want sex you won’t give it and they get the hump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll always get unhappy people in life(polite way of describing them)

They think because you can't see them face to face it's easy to be vile to others.

Don't let them discourage your journey on here.

You done the best thunk be polite and block, you can't talk or argue with stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahhh I’ve just received one accusing me of saying something I didn’t in a shitty manner and then expect me to answer if I was interested. Well he didn’t like my reply so apparently I’m another attention seeking woman and I need to grow up. Half of it is they want sex you won’t give it and they get the hump "

I can only apologise, I grabbed what I thought was a beanie, it was an asshat, I got carried away.

It's been binned. Never again.

But yeah, jokes aside, it's a desperate play for attention, can't get positive attention, go for the negative type.

When that doesn't work, double down, didn't want you anyway love, honest, ugly etc...

Reminiscent of school playground tactics

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I can only apologise, I grabbed what I thought was a beanie, it was an asshat, I got carried away.

It's been binned. Never again.

But yeah, jokes aside, it's a desperate play for attention, can't get positive attention, go for the negative type.

When that doesn't work, double down, didn't want you anyway love, honest, ugly etc...

Reminiscent of school playground tactics

Exactly, I just didn’t respond to it. He’s obviously a very frustrated young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only apologise, I grabbed what I thought was a beanie, it was an asshat, I got carried away.

It's been binned. Never again.

But yeah, jokes aside, it's a desperate play for attention, can't get positive attention, go for the negative type.

When that doesn't work, double down, didn't want you anyway love, honest, ugly etc...

Reminiscent of school playground tactics

Exactly, I just didn’t respond to it. He’s obviously a very frustrated young man"

I'm going to go out on a limb here, that it won't be the last...

Still makes me chuckle, the disparity of experience between the sexes here, I'd have happily had a bit of abuse previously just to break up the monotony.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I can only apologise, I grabbed what I thought was a beanie, it was an asshat, I got carried away.

It's been binned. Never again.

But yeah, jokes aside, it's a desperate play for attention, can't get positive attention, go for the negative type.

When that doesn't work, double down, didn't want you anyway love, honest, ugly etc...

Reminiscent of school playground tactics

Exactly, I just didn’t respond to it. He’s obviously a very frustrated young man

I'm going to go out on a limb here, that it won't be the last...

Still makes me chuckle, the disparity of experience between the sexes here, I'd have happily had a bit of abuse previously just to break up the monotony."

well I would say that’s a way to look at it but it’s frustrating

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By *plash85Couple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We've been lucky. Never had anything abusive. I find the random dick pics more annoying. The wife doesn't like them. I certainly don't. I don't get why guys (primarily "singles") send just their cock thinking that someone is going to go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I would say that’s a way to look at it but it’s frustrating "

Granted I might feel differently if I was on the receiving end, but in the very least it's a good self filtration system when people do this kind of thing.

Better early doors than have this behaviour creep out on a social, or worse a proper meet.

At least I got to block guys and have it not affect my efforts

Though one might have thought I blocked everyone haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you didn’t even know existed felt strongly enough to give you abuse. It’s almost like celebrity. That’s how I look at it.

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Someone you didn’t even know existed felt strongly enough to give you abuse. It’s almost like celebrity. That’s how I look at it. "

Thank you having just had our first abusive message this is the way I am going to look at it.

Mrs

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