FabSwingers.com forum: Second chances

By *ackformore100 OP Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Have you had any? Do you give any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given loads of second chances to people but even i get to a point where enough is enough . I'm not a push over any more

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I wouldn't need any and never give them. No room for any people who want to hurt me in my life

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to but learned the hard way so no more x

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Only if it's a valid reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore I don’t

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

If we met and I didn’t like it - no second chance.

If we plan to meet and it didn’t happen but the reason been well communicated in advance - why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You talking about meets or relationships?

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By *ackformore100 OP Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"You talking about meets or relationships? "

Anything at all... Work... Life.. Pets...mates...Relationships.... Meets...

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By *ackformore100 OP Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Mistakes happen... People do strange things at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way too soft, and give people ore chances than they deserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given too many, had a few I was grateful for.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Depends totally on the situation

If it’s someone not turning up to a meet

Someone burgled your house

???

1 of them I would forgive and possibly give a 2nd chance

Not all situations are equal to allow 2nd chances

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes mostly , good people make mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do give second chances, everyone makes mistakes. But it comes down to circumstances too. I'm much less inclined to give strangers or people I don't particularly care about second chances, than someone I know well and have a special relationship with.

I am a woman with a lot of compassion... it makes it difficult sometimes to walk away from people even if they do something really hurtful, because I go through all kind of scenarios in my head and try and sympathise with them.

But luckily, I'm good at knowing when it's enough, and it's rare I'll let you walk over me more than once. Once I've made my mind up there's no going back and I try not to dwell on it too much. But I'd be lying if I said sometimes I didn't think about them and grieve the loss of our relationship.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends on what they have done in the first place.

If they're late turning up or forget something they had agreed to do then I might possibly give them a second chance.

If they breach my trust or use our friendship as currency with other people they can fuck right off.

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By *ittleMyWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

"I used to but learned the hard way so no more x"

So much this x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes. Have given many second chances and currently enjoying the fruits of one having reconnected with an old FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have given in past.

Learned hard lesson after i had given that it wasnt reciprocated, it hurt at time but now its their loss.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

—· I'm giving this thread a ²nd chance ·—

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"—· I'm giving this thread a ²nd chance ·—"

but good call though.

Yes I would. But not a third or a fourth one.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Erm … I have given people second chances but it would totally depend on the situation. Generally, no I don’t give second chances.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I was given one once by two people I was giving a second chance. We remain cordial but the schism was too deep to heal.

I have given many second chances but trying to change that now. It hasn't been good for me.

I hope I can still recognise when a mistake was genuine and forgiveness is warranted.

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"I used to but learned the hard way so no more x"

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No second chances with me. I’m not here or anywhere else to be played around

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I have previously...in one or two different situations. I don't think i would again. The outcome wasn't good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In life depending upon many factors but on Fab no.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Every time I've given a second chance, they need a third or fourth chance.

Don't bother anymore, once messed around, its goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but not anymore

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It depends on here no second chances but yes in real life. So many people have given me second chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s only one person i would give a second chance to but that’s on them if they want it

It’s there if they ever want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depend why it’s needing to be considered

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Have a few people a second and sometimes a third chance... Not anymore.....

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Should say have given... Lol

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"Have you had any? Do you give any? "
never ever give 2nd chances a timewaster will always be a timewaster ..they enjoy thier wank ..if you ask twice you are playing in to third hands ..literally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here if I meet and it goes well I still don’t give second chances let alone if it went terribly.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I used to, I'm not mentally capable of giving second chances anymore.

Once that door is shut it's automatically locked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm a firm believer in second chances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M is really good at that. My instincts prompt me not to and I usually advise the same.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Tough call ... but if someone didn't seem to value the first chance they got why would they value a second chance ...or, would they?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Too old for that nonsense. One strike and out policy for me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do. People are human. Flawed. Do silly things. Have a lot going on. Drink too much. Think with their vag/willy.

I'd hope others would allow me space to make the odd mistake (which I've done and can own) and in return I'll do the same for them. Obviously it's dependent on what but for the most part I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. On here, no. I have a one strike rule and I’m not being pissed about

With my friends, almost certainly yes, everyone can make a mistake or get things wrong.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

We always give a 2nd chance, sometimes life just gets in the way when you arrange something but after that it's, delete & block.

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