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It's taken me 13 years on this site but

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I used to get hate mail sent not to me but to the people I met! Those were the days, a local chap got jealous when people he liked met me ahead of him and told them scandalous lies .. it did make me smile as they always told me!

Ignore the haters, just pixels on a screen!

Anyway .. Fabbed!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

My displeasure at liz truss being prime minister! Have been a few but that's the one that springs to mind x

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Oh, the beard.

When I grew it, I had a lot of messages saying I was being blocked for making that decision. From strangers.

Body hair is like kryptonite around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a sad piece of work! Those three pics are actually very tactfully done and tell a good picture story… sod them and carry on!

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Ah I used to get hate mail sent not to me but to the people I met! Those were the days, a local chap got jealous when people he liked met me ahead of him and told them scandalous lies .. it did make me smile as they always told me!

Ignore the haters, just pixels on a screen!

Anyway .. Fabbed! "

Wow you must of been hoarding all the women to get yourself an line cock-blocker

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"My displeasure at liz truss being prime minister! Have been a few but that's the one that springs to mind x"

Politics are always going to get heated

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?"

Nobody ever messages, not even a nasty one!

But the idea of being upset by the shaving pic and not those tiny little hands, gave me a chuckle!

Cook me a kipper skipper, I'll be back for breakfast

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Oh, the beard.

When I grew it, I had a lot of messages saying I was being blocked for making that decision. From strangers.

Body hair is like kryptonite around here "

Haha they're twats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs hopefully your ok

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"What a sad piece of work! Those three pics are actually very tactfully done and tell a good picture story… sod them and carry on! "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had random messages saying I’m disgusting for being bi

Probably because I looked at their profile, I don’t think it was just random

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Being attached, understandable although I don’t think the messages I received were warranted

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?

Nobody ever messages, not even a nasty one!

But the idea of being upset by the shaving pic and not those tiny little hands, gave me a chuckle!

Cook me a kipper skipper, I'll be back for breakfast "

All I've had in the past is being accused of being a fake and wasting someones time because after messaging for awhile and me explaining for the thousand time that I don't want to meet outside the safety of a club, they turn moody for wasting their chatup lines, but never a random out of the blue message, I've been lucky, I know ladies on here get it often

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Wow just wow, why did he care so much?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once had someone tell me I looked like a tranny and I was amazed by this for many different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far I've not had it aimed at me but still get really weird/sick messages sent sometimes.

Sad individuals for sure, ignore them.

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Hugs hopefully your ok "

I'm ok, I did a little smile, yay I upset a dickhead,

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?

Nobody ever messages, not even a nasty one!

But the idea of being upset by the shaving pic and not those tiny little hands, gave me a chuckle!

Cook me a kipper skipper, I'll be back for breakfast

All I've had in the past is being accused of being a fake and wasting someones time because after messaging for awhile and me explaining for the thousand time that I don't want to meet outside the safety of a club, they turn moody for wasting their chatup lines, but never a random out of the blue message, I've been lucky, I know ladies on here get it often "

Turning moody for wasting their chat up lines! That is hilarious

You've cheered me up today

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

My pictures, got a msg the other day telling me I'm a fantastic looking bit of kit but too good to be true I'm obviously a man pretending to be a woman and he blocked me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hugs hopefully your ok

I'm ok, I did a little smile, yay I upset a dickhead, "

Glad your ok best bet block and take no notice off him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I get loads.

I may write a book one day.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Oh, the beard.

When I grew it, I had a lot of messages saying I was being blocked for making that decision. From strangers.

Body hair is like kryptonite around here "

I disagree, I think it suits you

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to say I’ve never had any of this, but I’m also lucky to get any messages directed my way without me making the first move. It is expected though so no skin off my nose.

Sorry that you’ve had that experience OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?"

My latest status.

I had a random message calling me a "boring c*nt" he then proceeded to blocl me so I couldnt even reply

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

.....the fact that I was on someone's Hotlist (yes I know, the shock, the horror), and she discovered months later I wasn't Anglo-Saxon. Her one and only message was that it was my loss.

Let's just say that I'm still equally bewildered and scratching my head trying to unearth the logic in all that.

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By *ello OP   Woman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open" "

I ordered a strap on last night , so I shouldn't send messages like that to guys ? Phew I'm glad I found out now, I need to rethink my opening line now

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

In no particular order..

My cellulite

My age

My black husband

My requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open"

I ordered a strap on last night , so I shouldn't send messages like that to guys ? Phew I'm glad I found out now, I need to rethink my opening line now "

I get the sentiment, but the execution was left to be desired

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I love all your photos!

Thankfully nobody has been rude about me yet, but then I don't get many messages, so I guess that says enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No-one has been rude to me, nor have I been rude. I'm not missing out thankfully. I do send complimentary ones prefixed with "No need to reply (ever, of course..) but ....", and am 50:50 for getting a thank you back which I'm pretty good at genuinely not then replying to myself (unless they ask a question).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open" "

Maybe we've been talking to the same women. She offer to rim you?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I've been getting abuse ever since I mentioned my loathing for Jaffa Cakes.

I may need a profile tweak!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a random one saying my wife’s tits were quite nice for a saggy pair. They aren’t even saggy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy asked me why I was SO angry! Then had a go at my body and saying the excess weight was a turn off. It hadn't previously bothered him when he'd messaged

Still don't know what I was angry about. Or why it was fuck all to do with him.

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By *ortyairCouple
over a year ago

Wallasey


"My pictures, got a msg the other day telling me I'm a fantastic looking bit of kit but too good to be true I'm obviously a man pretending to be a woman and he blocked me! "

You're a sexy looking fella then, wish I looked as 'blokey' as you...you couldn't write this shit but apparently we are but you know what I mean.

Will shut up now, being a little blonde right now x

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland


"I've been getting abuse ever since I mentioned my loathing for Jaffa Cakes.

I may need a profile tweak!"

Well deserved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open"

Maybe we've been talking to the same women. She offer to rim you?"

It was a guy who sent it

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I've been getting abuse ever since I mentioned my loathing for Jaffa Cakes.

I may need a profile tweak!

Well deserved "

Cheeky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Latest one was being told people like me are the reason he deletes his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh we had a message off a single lady in the early days telling us that if he wanted a real woman in shape that could keep up to contact her and she would show him what hes missing with a real woman.

Cheek of it.

Round is a shape

(Mrs)

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Someone said I was a spitting image of Boris's misses and I'm not sure if they meant it as a compliment or insult.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Latest one was being told people like me are the reason he deletes his profile.

"

You're providing a public service then if people like him are deleting their profiles!

Seriously though sorry you have to read nasty comments like that, you look fantastic.

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland


"I've been getting abuse ever since I mentioned my loathing for Jaffa Cakes.

I may need a profile tweak!

Well deserved

Cheeky! "

Jaffa cakes are the best!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Someone I'd ignored said I was just on here for attention because I hadn't met up with anyone within 3 weeks of joining and blocked me. Then when the person from here I'd been banging since joining messaged to say I had he called them a weirdo for wanting to share his chick.

Had no personal insults though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once got a message saying that I must be bi because of a bum pic I had and that I was asking to be "split wide open"

Maybe we've been talking to the same women. She offer to rim you?

It was a guy who sent it "

definitely not the same women

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Knob out - “urggh put your knob away, we know what they look like”

Knob hidden - “urggh, no one is ever going to message you if they can’t see what they are getting”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?"

I like your show . I think is fanny.

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By *aturegentdurhamMan
over a year ago

Stanley

I have had a few saying i should not be on as too ugly for anyone want to meet me.

One was from a guy begging me to shag him even.

I told him it didn't meet men.

Messaged again saying he would wear his wife's clothes.

Again said no sorry not for me.

Third time total abuse calling a all names undersun.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I had one from a bloke with only cock pics saying how dare I say I won't respond to those with just cock pics ,as some might not want to see my vile underwear lol

Blocked before I could reply obvs.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I get hate messages for being on here married with her not knowing.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

One of the sexiest things you can watch

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I once put a status on quoting some song lyrics from an Aaliyah song and a guy messaged me absolutely ripping in to me calling me all kinds of horrible names and saying how dare I quote such a beautiful woman there really are some strange folk out there.

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By *olacolaMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Well if my other forum is anything to go by… not having a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Latest one was being told people like me are the reason he deletes his profile.

You're providing a public service then if people like him are deleting their profiles!

Seriously though sorry you have to read nasty comments like that, you look fantastic."

It just bounced right off me. I’m not easily offended.

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I got told I was "gopping" for wearing _ed lipstick in one of my pics... After I'd politely declined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha, of he gets offended by that one picture, there's no hope for him on this site. He best stick to his hand.....or join a main stream dating site.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I don't get any abuse OP... Solely because I don't get any messages

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Oh, the beard.

When I grew it, I had a lot of messages saying I was being blocked for making that decision. From strangers.

Body hair is like kryptonite around here "

I got it for my white whiskers , from someone I’d dumped a while back. She felt the to tell me how awful I looked

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By *alkthattalkMan
over a year ago

Darlington


"Oh, the beard.

When I grew it, I had a lot of messages saying I was being blocked for making that decision. From strangers.

Body hair is like kryptonite around here "

Some folk have no clue how the human body or mind works, do they. 1. We generally all grow hair. 2. We have free will to do wtf we like ie. grow our hair how we want.

Stop the world I wanna get off!

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?"

Someone told me they wouldn’t piss on me if I were on fire. Fck knows what made him do that

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"It's taken 13 years on this site but I've finally got my first nasty message from some random randomly calling me 'nasty'. It would seem that the breaking point for someone was a picture of me about to shave lol good job I decided against uploading the video he would of been so upset he might of left.

(Yes I've reported the message)

So what was it on your profile that made some random so mortified they had to tell you ?"

Been lucky enough to have never experienced it but it would result in an automatic block if it did happen.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Hello Dawn,

How ironic, I was only admiring those 'before and after' pics this morning, and thought they were lovely! (And your feet pics!).

Block the idiot and move on sexy. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dis you manage to last 13 years....I get messages like that regularly....although not as often as I used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman once messaged me to say that my partner was a deserter from the army, that he'd been fucking her instead of reporting for duty, that he did so because my tits were far too small and he craved her huge ones.....it went on for ages. I didn't actually have a partner at the time. All very odd.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I was told that I must be a sex worker and then blocked?!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

I cant really remember negative stuff because I don’t care enough. Only time i would is if i offended someone with a joke or smart arsed comment that completely missed the mark and caused proper offence - then id be mortified - other than that - i ran out of shits to give ages ago

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Can't say I've really had nasty messages but I've had a few telling me what I'm doing wrong and making demands.

All from extremely well verified couples with 80-100 verifications and I had never spoken to any of them. These were all introductory messages from them.

Lose the beard or forget about meeting us.

Facepic and phone number now!

You're too old and too straight to ever be successful here. Agree to play bi and we'll think about putting you on our to-do list in the future.

Your profile is all bull because men don't have options on here and we know it's only for show. Cut the bullshit and meet us tomorrow.

Apparently it was always my loss when they were told to do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None on this profile yet,but on my previous profile it was usually to pick fault with my hair,beard,tattoos or piercings.Always gave me a good laugh

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Can't say I've really had nasty messages but I've had a few telling me what I'm doing wrong and making demands.

All from extremely well verified couples with 80-100 verifications and I had never spoken to any of them. These were all introductory messages from them.

Lose the beard or forget about meeting us.

Facepic and phone number now!

You're too old and too straight to ever be successful here. Agree to play bi and we'll think about putting you on our to-do list in the future.

Your profile is all bull because men don't have options on here and we know it's only for show. Cut the bullshit and meet us tomorrow.

Apparently it was always my loss when they were told to do one.

"

So that’s where all the messages to me have been going… that explains my mailbox now - thought it had been welded shut!

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