FabSwingers.com forum: Getting Caught!!!

By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

As those who know me - i am new to the scene =-and am having lots of fun along the way!!

Have met loads of gorgeous and lovely people on here and have not looked back.

House share with work collegue (hence no occ) who have had d*unken snog before and quite fancy but keep it to myself.

Well, had a gorgeous couple round, and only cos she was out=- but was on full cock sucking/fem fem when house mate got home!!!

We all acted d*unk and they went home (shame as we were only getting warmed up) but housemate has made comments on facebook already about her eyes being burnt out.

Do i say i was d*unk and pass it off as a d*unken escapade - or do i dare tell her the truth = baring in mind i work with her and she talks alot ALOT!!

Help guys xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops , I guess wait see if she says anything first , gauge her reaction . If she doesn't pack your bags , you may have just found a new play friend ! And I bet she's thinking pretty much the same things as you ! lol .

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Difficult one, but if she does talk alot, better be prepared for someone mentioning it, maybe go into full denial mode lol

How about have a little chat with her first? Gauge her distaste (if any) from there, at least you will know what you need to be preparing for???

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

She did joke and say it was a shame she didnt get home an hour earlier...

And as i say we have had d*unken snogs before...

So she is not rigid in her opinions.

But i dont know whether to fully confess and hope for her discreetness or just keep lying (which i am rubbish at) and hope for the best.

Confused.com!!!!!!!!!!!1 xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be upfront and honest, it's always the best way.

If you lie what is that saying about your friendship, what you really think of this friend.

Looking at this situation from a human behaviour angle, I'd have to say that the lady is jealous/angry as you didn't include her.

You need to sit down with her with a glass or two of wine and share, you never know where that sharing may lead, I sense the bedroom.

Hope this helped.

Earthy X;)

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

Thanks Earthy.

I know thats prob the best route - but as i also work with her and she is such a chatterbox - everyone at work knows all about her love life with her fella's...............it makes me very wary!

She is at work til 12 now today - have got 4 hours to ponder over it - and hopefully get some good advice!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be honest ........to a point,you could say it was a "RED NOSE" Dare, lol

Seriously, you were having a laugh experimenting with your own boundrys and that you expect your privacy to be respected by her, and you would for her.

No need to introduce her to the scene, if she wanted to try it she would have done so by now. I introduced a mate to it once and it was a big mistake.

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

"be honest ........to a point,you could say it was a "RED NOSE" Dare, lol

Seriously, you were having a laugh experimenting with your own boundrys and that you expect your privacy to be respected by her, and you would for her.

No need to introduce her to the scene, if she wanted to try it she would have done so by now. I introduced a mate to it once and it was a big mistake.

This also worries me - as i have played with a girl before but she couldnt cope with it and i lost a really good friend because of it.

I dont want to loose this one - at least i can perve when she has a shower!!!LOL xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see what she says , or asks when she's back from work . gauge her reaction if you tell her anything , make a joke of it (being d*unk , red nose day ) , and tell her you expect her to be discrete about what she saw , as you would of her . Put the chain on the door next time , lol

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

"see what she says , or asks when she's back from work . gauge her reaction if you tell her anything , make a joke of it (being d*unk , red nose day ) , and tell her you expect her to be discrete about what she saw , as you would of her . Put the chain on the door next time , lol"

I did leave the keys on the inside of door so we would get a warning - but with the excitement of seeing them - i actually forgot to lock said door!!!

all my own fault! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doh !!!!

thought it was just me who did things like that ! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Debutante...I think you should invite someone round you know, say a male who you have fun with and both of you introduce her to this world maybe over a few drinks, just a thought!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If caught out tell the truth.. quickest way to dispel future issues!

Still sit down and make sure she knows theres no threat to her in anyway... If she is comfy with the whole idea its a happier house thats for sure...

Good luck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, colleagues who gossip will do it regardless of the subject matter. It might be worth avoiding telling the whole truth for damage limitation.

Which would you prefer to be on the receiving end of in your office? - 'I caught her having a threesome' or 'She's a swinger, and I caught her having a threesome'.

As much as it's nice to be honest, I wouldn't risk it being known it the workplace.

Just my opinion, and I hope it works out. Great story though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As those who know me - i am new to the scene =-and am having lots of fun along the way!!

Have met loads of gorgeous and lovely people on here and have not looked back.

House share with work collegue (hence no occ) who have had d*unken snog before and quite fancy but keep it to myself.

Well, had a gorgeous couple round, and only cos she was out=- but was on full cock sucking/fem fem when house mate got home!!!

We all acted d*unk and they went home (shame as we were only getting warmed up) but housemate has made comments on facebook already about her eyes being burnt out.

Do i say i was d*unk and pass it off as a d*unken escapade - or do i dare tell her the truth = baring in mind i work with her and she talks alot ALOT!!

Help guys xxxxxx"

Tell the truth and shame the Devil (as my mam used to say).You never know the housemate might join in next time.

Trace & Ric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"be honest ........to a point,you could say it was a "RED NOSE" Dare, lol

Seriously, you were having a laugh experimenting with your own boundrys and that you expect your privacy to be respected by her, and you would for her.

No need to introduce her to the scene, if she wanted to try it she would have done so by now. I introduced a mate to it once and it was a big mistake.

No disrespect, yet you state she's a good friend. If so, then you wouldn't begin to dream of lieing to her, would you?

This also worries me - as i have played with a girl before but she couldnt cope with it and i lost a really good friend because of it.

I dont want to loose this one - at least i can perve when she has a shower!!!LOL xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No disrespect, yet you state she's a good friend. If so, then you wouldn't begin to dream of lieing to her, would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heres one good example showing why some people may not have the capacity to accomodate, but at the same time are genuine! Hope whatever you do turns out for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely as a good friend she'll understand what you do and,as its hurting no one,should have no problem with it or you.

Or is it that you think she'll see what you do as tarty and you as a tart and therefore disassociate herself from you?

If thats the case,she's not the good friend you thought and your better off without her.

Trace & Ric

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest

even if she does talk alot the fact that you live with her obviously means that you trust her, therefore you should talk to her and explain what was happening and what you are about.

if she thinks anything of you, she will keep it to herself, however there may be some uncomfortable feelings between you.

the other way is to go and get her blind d*unk and then tell her if she is anything like my husband she want remember anything in the morning and you get to sleep easy with a clean and clear conscinece.

hope thats any help

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

Thanks guys.

Did use the d*unk excuse - didnt tell her about the swinging as such (didnt use the term) but did say that i have awoken the sexual beast and that i will be putting myself out there and meeting people.

She wasnt upset about last night, just asked if she needed a special knock next time. So has made light of the situ. But just because she has taken it well, i dont wanna ram it down her throat. If she sees how much fun i am having - as a very recently single herself she may want to join in!!

You know the worse thing, she has gone out tonight and is staying out!!!

Aarrggghhhhh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you by any chance have a water pistol? just asking lol

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By *ebzStar OP Woman
over a year ago

Notting

"Did you by any chance have a water pistol? just asking lol"

Grrr, didnt get chance!!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

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SAY NOTHING ............

MR X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"SAY NOTHING ............

MR X"

I think I'm gonna faint!!!!!

PD's not gonna actually comment.lol lol

You been reading religious scriptures PD? lol X;)

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"SAY NOTHING ............

MR X

I think I'm gonna faint!!!!!

PD's not gonna actually comment.lol lol

You been reading religious scriptures PD? lol X;)"

errrr once again you have it wrong babe ...awww its the drink isnt it ....SAY NOTHING is my comment and advice ....

aaaaawww bless ...feel sorry for you ....xxxx

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over a year ago

"SAY NOTHING ............

MR X

I think I'm gonna faint!!!!!

PD's not gonna actually comment.lol lol

You been reading religious scriptures PD? lol X;)

errrr once again you have it wrong babe ...awww its the drink isnt it ....SAY NOTHING is my comment and advice ....

aaaaawww bless ...feel sorry for you ....xxxx"

I agree with you on that...its got nothing to do with anyone but Deb and the people she was playing with..especially if her housemate has a mouth as big as the Dartford tunnel lol

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"SAY NOTHING ............

MR X

I think I'm gonna faint!!!!!

PD's not gonna actually comment.lol lol

You been reading religious scriptures PD? lol X;)

errrr once again you have it wrong babe ...awww its the drink isnt it ....SAY NOTHING is my comment and advice ....

aaaaawww bless ...feel sorry for you ....xxxx

I agree with you on that...its got nothing to do with anyone but Deb and the people she was playing with..especially if her housemate has a mouth as big as the Dartford tunnel lol"

and todays mate-acquaintance can be tomorrows enemy i would need far longer than 8 months to trust someone with such private info

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