FabSwingers.com forum: Getting d*unk

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do you still do it ? Or do you just drink in moderation?

And is sex better sober or d*unk ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing is sexy about being d*unk.

But I do drink, and do still drink over what I though I was going to when I’m having a good time. Does it make sex better? I’m not sure, I’ll put it to the test sometime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober most definitely, in my early year I head to get d*unk to let my inhibitions go.

Now I have the confidence and know what I want. Sober It is way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sober most definitely, in my early year I head to get d*unk to let my inhibitions go.

Now I have the confidence and know what I want. Sober It is way

This way we can remember something.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I'm teetotal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not been d*unk for years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sober for 9 years now.

Everything is better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a drink socially but I don’t get d*unk, don’t like it. I know when I’ve had enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t d*unk alcohol in years; it disagrees with me even in small quantities. I’ve seen what it does to people and families too.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Do you still do it ? Or do you just drink in moderation?

And is sex better sober or d*unk ?

Used to drink a lot, too much and too often. Barely touch a drop for the last 15 years. Looking back can't understand why I did it. As for sex.. Can't think of many things that are better while your senses are scrambled and you're not present in the moment. It's a fools errand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being 'tipsy' is good, but d*unk no..

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

I hate that feeling of being d*unk the older I get - recovery rate is twice what it used to be.

I'm going out for a beer today with a mate, I'll have about 4 and that'll be me done.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I fall asleep after too much drink so very seldom get d*unk.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I hate that feeling of being d*unk the older I get - recovery rate is twice what it used to be.

I'm going out for a beer today with a mate, I'll have about 4 and that'll be me done."

Same here ! I made the mistake of having seven pints earlier in the year !

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Always more intimate and intense when not had too many. Love those special ones when you talk to each to see what both like. That does not happen when had a few. It tends to be more casual and quickies. Regretted some a bit when sober as just sex and better when some chemistry for me. End results so much better

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don't drink alcohol , to me its anathema to get d*unk .

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"I don't drink alcohol , to me its anathema to get d*unk . "

Sorry, just wanted to admire your use of the word anathema

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

If I drink too much chances are I'll be a right dickhead so a few drinks to feel the buzz is enough for me these days, and never more than 2 drinks when about to have sex cause I don't want to be sick with all the bouncing up and down

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I no longer drink, I used to drink quite a bit but I just can't be bothered now. Not been d*unk for over 10 years now, still love to party though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate that feeling of being d*unk the older I get - recovery rate is twice what it used to be.

I'm going out for a beer today with a mate, I'll have about 4 and that'll be me done.

Same here ! I made the mistake of having seven pints earlier in the year !"

I book the day after off if I ever go out now

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"If I drink too much chances are I'll be a right dickhead so a few drinks to feel the buzz is enough for me these days, and never more than 2 drinks when about to have sex cause I don't want to be sick with all the bouncing up and down "

A great approach!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I enjoy a drink for the taste, but rarely have more than a couple.

I prefer being sober when having sex. One of my biggest bugbears with clubs is the amount of dr*nk people in them (in my experience mainly women)...I'd happily travel further to attend an alcohol free club.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I don't drink alcohol , to me its anathema to get d*unk .

Sorry, just wanted to admire your use of the word anathema

I do have quite a unique vocab at times

though it is anathema to my mindset , anything that can impair the purity of my cognitive function just seems illogical ... what can I say I am part machine I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been d*unk… even the times I did drink… maybe I’ve missed out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely drink these days,special occasions basically. I could think of nothing worse than having a meet while d*unk or with someone who is d*unk I don't find it attractive

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Can't really remember the last time I was d*unk, a little tipsy sex is always fun though but d*unk sex is a no.

Mrs

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

To me it’s deeply problematic if a person needs or wants to get d*unk to have sex, if nothing else from a consent point of view.

I rarely drink, even less so around fab folks

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

"I rarely drink these days,special occasions basically. I could think of nothing worse than having a meet while d*unk or with someone who is d*unk I don't find it attractive "

Yes agree. It becomes a bit of grope session if d*unk. More to it than that. Respect is everything. Some women can also be really bad when in group and pissed. Been harassed by some in younger days

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By *orthseatiger69Man
over a year ago

Ayrshire /North lanarshire

I enjoy a social drink when out as I enjoy the cocktail bar ambience and the right glass for the right drink . Very rarely would I drink in the house . Sex is never better when you’re d*unk . Would never turn up to a meet with alcohol on my breath

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)

I don't think I've been d*unk since we had kids honestly. I've gotten tipsy and giggly, but not in a swinging environment.

A few social drinks to loosen up are good, but no more than that. I can and have done clubs sober a few times now, though I do need a drink if there is going to be dancing

K x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I was never a big drinker anyhow and now I just can't be bothered drinking.Even one or two drinks and I am shattered tired the following day.

Sex is definitely a lot better sober I have always found though.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

We both really enjoy a drink and yes, sometimes one too many! Not for Fab meets though, it makes the memory blurry!

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

"We both really enjoy a drink and yes, sometimes one too many! Not for Fab meets though, it makes the memory blurry!

Would want to remember all of details if ever so lucky to meet you both xxx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Last time I was d*unk was about 20 years ago. I don't drink at all now.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

I like a social drink, in moderation, but I will never drink on a meet, or at a club.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No, I don’t get d*unk. I’m actually not drinking at all at the moment because I don't fancy it or miss it when I don't drink. I don’t enjoy being around d*unk people either.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have a strict rule with my drinking, non around my children when they stay. Non during the working week unless it’s a business function.

However I can drink too much when I’m on my own, at the weekends.

It’s why I’m trying to get back to my running as I very rarely drink before a long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still partial to a night out and not knowing how or when I got home

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

I dont drink at all. Hangovers are not fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t remember the last time I had d*unk sex

was definitely more than 15 years ago though

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

A definite thread of sobriety!! Are we too sensible?

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By *W_RedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Love getting d*unk. Had some great sex and some terrible! All depends how d*unk you both are, need to be on a similar level

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't get d*unk I get tired.

Alcohol is great for relaxing my muscles and killing the pain, but I rarely make it past 11.30 pm nowadays.

A couple of drinks before and during sex is nice for the mentioned above.

Less pain equals more arousal

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