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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But it meant relocating 100's of miles away from your friends and family do you think you would do it?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't. If I've learned nothing else in my life it's that family and some friends are worth more than any job. Also I retired early and only impending poverty will make me to back to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it meant relocating 100's of miles away from your friends and family do you think you would do it? "

My only family are my husband and kids and I dont have friends.

Yep, i'd go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I wouldn't. If I've learned nothing else in my life it's that family and some friends are worth more than any job. Also I retired early and only impending poverty will make me to back to work "

I'm not sure I could do it. This is a dilemma a friend is going through at the moment and I just didn't know how to advise her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m relocating 100s of miles to be near my adult son so nope!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

If I get my dream job as a well paid porn star... Take them away. Where do I sign??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But it meant relocating 100's of miles away from your friends and family do you think you would do it?

My only family are my husband and kids and I dont have friends.

Yep, i'd go "

I think if you don't have many ties to a specific area and your closest loved ones are going with you it's probably an easy decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I get my dream job as a well paid porn star... Take them away. Where do I sign?? "

Fickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they can visit and you can reciprocate.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My dream job? Yeah I'd probably be happy to make the move, everyone I know lives over anyway hour away already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes they can visit and you can reciprocate."

That's true but I'm thinking more of the people who have very strong ties in there area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99.9% of me says yes I would go, just something is stopping me saying a complete yes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it meant relocating 100's of miles away from your friends and family do you think you would do it? "

I had the opportunity years ago to go work for lionhead studios on game design, it meant moving to London and if I had the money I’d have gone right there and then… few months later the company went bust so maybe it was for the best that I didn’t move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"99.9% of me says yes I would go, just something is stopping me saying a complete yes x"

We practically did this for me, but the dream was not what it seemed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I wouldn’t see them for weeks on end….. so just the same as now?

I’d take the job.

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By *N4funCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We did it once going overseas when kids were little, had all the family come visit over the time we spent there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live miles away from mine as it is, a few more wouldn't make any difference so yeah, I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no close friends and my family are already over a hundred miles away. When do I start?

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I have done it.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Yes I'd do it. If the pay is right.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I moved 100s (actually few 1000s) miles for a job I loved with further capabilities to grow. Happy with it.

Current world with all online messengers and video conferences in addition to very affordable flight prices is pretty small space.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Dreams don’t become real very often and if it was something I really wanted to do …. Yes, I would go for it. My family and friends I hope, would support my decision.

She can always come home if it doesn’t work out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I’m going to be the Swedish National Ladies Beach Volleyball Team official bra fitter, I’m going to have to move to Sweden, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son did exactly that and I couldn't be prouder.....It means I get awesome holidays as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1000% you only get one chance at life

Don’t look back on it and say I wish I had done that

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

In a heartbeat, I don't seemuch of the family at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1000% you only get one chance at life

Don’t look back on it and say I wish I had done that

"

That is exactly my thoughts, you can't live your life to please others and you don't want any 'what if's' down the line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would if it was guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a heartbeat wouldn't when have to think about it.

You can always go and visit them or vice versa.

How many people are stuck in jobs they hate because they need the money.

Being in a job you love doing makes a massive difference in your life as you spend alot of time there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1000% you only get one chance at life

Don’t look back on it and say I wish I had done that

That is exactly my thoughts, you can't live your life to please others and you don't want any 'what if's' down the line"

Definitely took me a long time to get to that train off thoughs the only thing I regret is not care what others thought sooner and just done me

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