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Is guys wearing high heels still taboo?

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By *aughtyboi11 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women how Do you walk in them

What do we think?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve worked in make dominated environments a lot.

So my first reaction is “ how the hell are you going to drive a forklift in those!”

My liberal self thinks. Knock yourself out and wear what you want, if you were ever going to go out in those, 2022 is that year to do it.

I wear nail varnish now and again (a throw bock from My school days, and it rarely gets a mention.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's like many things - some like it, some don't and some are happy with it in small doses

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't say taboo but it's not something you see every day.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"I wouldn't say taboo but it's not something you see every day."

Yes rare but if enjoyed go for it. Don’t do a lot for me but can be certain others on here will like

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?"

Im not looking to be abrasive here, but are you really surprised that most women dont like it?

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?

Im not looking to be abrasive here, but are you really surprised that most women dont like it? "

Some will like it though. Yes most not but that fun of here as some will

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Not my thing, but hey its 2022 ffs. Oh, and if anyone thinks it's a taboo, their behind the times and shouldn't be on a swinging site.....you enjoy it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?"

You are entitled to wear what you want. Women are entitled to like it or not. If you want to broaden your appeal don’t wear stuff that sone won’t like. Or be yourself and focus on those who appreciate you in some fab heels.

Life doesn’t have to be this complicated

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If it was good enough for Prince then it's good enough for me.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?

You are entitled to wear what you want. Women are entitled to like it or not. If you want to broaden your appeal don’t wear stuff that sone won’t like. Or be yourself and focus on those who appreciate you in some fab heels.

Life doesn’t have to be this complicated "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was good enough for Prince then it's good enough for me. "

Are you also 5’ 3?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Prefer flats myself but whatever you want to wear then embrace it. Sooner or later someone will admire your individuality.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"If it was good enough for Prince then it's good enough for me.

Are you also 5’ 3?"

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Nope. The word on the Minneapolis streets are that you can be lofty or diminutive when wearing heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague."

Heels enhance the probability of getting laid. It’s science.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't think it's ever been Taboo. Obvs you wouldn't wear them to anywhere a woman wouldn't.

Women who wear massive heels don't wear them at work .... ( i know there are exceptions ) as a rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague.

Heels enhance the probability of getting laid. It’s science. "

I've never needed heels to get laid, it's not really a requirement anymore I don't think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why???? Heels are soooooo uncomfortable.i avoid them like the plague.

Heels enhance the probability of getting laid. It’s science.

I've never needed heels to get laid, it's not really a requirement anymore I don't think. "

I was being ironic. I generally wear flats these days myself.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I'd just be jealous because I can't wear heels anymore

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I wear heels whenever I can, and some women love them, most are indifferent and some hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It certainly shouldn’t be.

I was dommed once by a guy wearing heels and a waistcoat corset. He was straight as an arrow, but loved mixing up his choices of clothing. It was really attractive.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Prefer flats myself but whatever you want to wear then embrace it. Sooner or later someone will admire your individuality. "

I prefer flats, mostly as I'm pretty nimble and generally move a lot more smoothly in flats

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't think it taboo at all these days or even controversial. However its doesn't mean lots more women will fancy you. I think that's more a matter of what people are attracted to in a person's image than their feelings on societal norms and whats ok to wear (or not).

Anyways regardless of what you wear what's most important (with regards attraction and image) is being comfortable in your own skin and totally owning your look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most women may be put off but just don't meet them.

Men in heels and stockings can be hot.

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By *hantelle-La-SlutTV/TS
over a year ago

South Birmingham

love wearing my heels and they have to be stiletos too for me. make me feel more femme in them it shouldn't really as most women do not wear them.

Broke a pair the other day and was gutted, asked a cobler to repair and they say they couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a lover of men dressed nothing turns me on more than a man in heels especially boots I go hard as nails just seeing a photo my fantasy is to be with someone and I’m trying my hardest on here.

Please keep doing it x

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I don’t think taboo is quite the right word, it is about acceptability. Theoretically in this day and age it shouldn’t be a problem but inequitably, it still is. …

It is acceptable for a woman to wear flat shoes, jeans trousers etc, and be feminine. It is not however ‘acceptable’ and transcends convention if a man were to wear a skirt, and or heels…. but accept some feel comfortable doing so … but so very very rarely.

If I’m in Rachel mode, I will wear a skirt and (always) heels .. I think that is more acceptable / tolerable, than if I was in bloke mode to wear the same.

Maybe one day convention will change.

R xx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Kiss wear decent platforms. Might get a pair of "Gene Simmons" type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have heel envy. I’m like Bambi on ice when I wear them which is why they remain bedroom wear only.

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well

Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough


"I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well

Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out"

I don’t think this about trying to make oneself ‘more attractive to women .. it is about freedom of expression. I fully realise that as a TV, i turn off probably 99% of women, and accept that. I am just grateful there is but a very special few who I don’t turn off, or who accept me. If it was about appealing to women in the wider sense .. I’d probably be better if hiding myself away ….been there and done that!

R x

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I don’t think it’s taboo but it’s probably not going to make you more attractive to the majority of women. It may well

Make you more attractive to a minority of women, as long as your fine with that knock yourself out

I don’t think this about trying to make oneself ‘more attractive to women .. it is about freedom of expression. I fully realise that as a TV, i turn off probably 99% of women, and accept that. I am just grateful there is but a very special few who I don’t turn off, or who accept me. If it was about appealing to women in the wider sense .. I’d probably be better if hiding myself away ….been there and done that!

R x"

You should be free to dress as you please, hopefully we are getting closer to that.

But I was responding to the OP who stated that it seems to put women off.

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?"

I think its niche and the positivity towards it will be proportional to that niche.

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By *aughtyboi11 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

Absolutely! I am who i am and love it. I wear heels daily when possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's taboo. I just think you don't often see men wearing heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Nothing wrong with anyone wearing whatever they like of course.)

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Been wearing extreme heels and platforms for 15years or so, but still seem to put off most women

What do we think?"
I think as long as your happy then go for it. It wouldn’t put me off I would probably want to know how you manage to wear extreme heels without breaking anything.

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

He walks around in heels so much better than me, he's quite elegant in them and yep do love him In them

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By *aughtyboi11 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

Yeah perhaps acceptable is the correct word. I suppose if it wasnt taboo, i wouldnt be in to it

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By *aughtyboi11 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton

Years of practice! And choosing your next step very carefully......

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Years of practice! And choosing your next step very carefully...... "
Use reply and quote so people will know who you are replying to ..

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By *aughtyboi11 OP   Man
over a year ago

northampton


"Years of practice! And choosing your next step very carefully...... Use reply and quote so people will know who you are replying to .. "

Too right, always forget!

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