FabSwingers.com forum: Annoying fabbers

By *ames Gently OP Man
over a year ago

cannock

It’s late afternoon a couple contact asking if you wish to meet up later that day the profile says they want a full swap threesomes.

Messages go backwards and forwards as they do they change their mind from full swap to soft play.

You say ok then this is 7 pm, for the next three hours they message send photos. Then at 10 give you a location. But now it’s changed to wanting to give you a BJ and they want you to message back at 10:30 for full address details.

10:30 comes couple on line don’t reply to messages.

Just another day in the single man on fab world .

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It's not a couple. It's a dude. Most probably.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Move on and retry buddy. Sadly some weird and wonderful people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like wank fodder buddy

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That sounds like a lot of admin for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like a lot of admin for a meet

Definitely! I would have given up hours ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the clock hits 12 they'll offer glory hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who moves the goalposts that many times about what they’re looking for would be a big red flag for me.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Anyone who moves the goalposts that many times about what they’re looking for would be a big red flag for me."

Sounds like they moved the whole pitch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stood up was a BBW with blonde Bob cut

Halves of a couple in Bedford .

WhatsApped me , charmed loads , then suggested me send money to pay half of room

I told her : go for it , we can do my transfer to your in the room together …

New profile ( few days old ) saying , hi , we r back ,

Looking for fun til December . Hubby working abroad x x

Asking me for my passport n stuff saying works for the police psychologists or something whatever xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My stood up was a BBW with blonde Bob cut

Halves of a couple in Bedford .

WhatsApped me , charmed loads , then suggested me send money to pay half of room

I told her : go for it , we can do my transfer to your in the room together …

New profile ( few days old ) saying , hi , we r back ,

Looking for fun til December . Hubby working abroad x x

Asking me for my passport n stuff saying works for the police psychologists or something whatever xx

sounds like a bit of scam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My stood up was a BBW with blonde Bob cut

Halves of a couple in Bedford .

WhatsApped me , charmed loads , then suggested me send money to pay half of room

I told her : go for it , we can do my transfer to your in the room together …

New profile ( few days old ) saying , hi , we r back ,

Looking for fun til December . Hubby working abroad x x

Asking me for my passport n stuff saying works for the police psychologists or something whatever xx

sounds like a bit of scam

Just a bit

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"My stood up was a BBW with blonde Bob cut

Halves of a couple in Bedford .

WhatsApped me , charmed loads , then suggested me send money to pay half of room

I told her : go for it , we can do my transfer to your in the room together …

New profile ( few days old ) saying , hi , we r back ,

Looking for fun til December . Hubby working abroad x x

Asking me for my passport n stuff saying works for the police psychologists or something whatever xx

That’s truly bonkers that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is simply why I like people who keep things simple. Anything that starts to sound complicated gives me the idea it won’t happen and it turns me off and ready for it.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Any meet that sounds like the instructions for an escape room should be setting off mental fire alarms.

I know stuff gets in the way, but pretty much: state a time and place, stick to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s late afternoon a couple contact asking if you wish to meet up later that day the profile says they want a full swap threesomes.

Messages go backwards and forwards as they do they change their mind from full swap to soft play.

10:30 comes couple on line don’t reply to messages.

Just another day in the single man on fab world . "

Bet it was just a bloke

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why would you even continue to chat when there were so many red flags. People who change their mind so much over a short period are obviously just leading you on for their amusement.

I know if it was me the minute they started messing about I'd have stopped the chat straight away.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly they got the wank material they wanted and that was it .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

O.P.

Decide what you want from this site.

Imagine what success looks like.

Set your steps for meeting.

Set your boundaries.

Next time someone asks for a meet you call the shots. The day, the time, the place etc.

If they can't make arrangements - move on.

Take responsibility and don't give people so much leeway.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

If i have to jump through a multitude of hoops for a meet, i just cease communication with whoever it is, cos it definitely ain’t happening.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Saw The title - thought ooh must be about me… bit disappointed actually because you know fab is all about me mostly??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone who moves the goalposts that many times about what they’re looking for would be a big red flag for me.

Sounds like they moved the whole pitch?"

You put that so much better than me!

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By *ames Gently OP Man
over a year ago

cannock

You continue to chat as a single man because out of 20 people you send individual messages to you may get 1 reply. So when you get a reply and the possibility of a meeting then you work to accommodate the wants of the others.

But as you say you see the writing on the wall long before the inevitable end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You continue to chat as a single man because out of 20 people you send individual messages to you may get 1 reply. So when you get a reply and the possibility of a meeting then you work to accommodate the wants of the others.

But as you say you see the writing on the wall long before the inevitable end"

Or you could just have a bit of self respect and stop messaging when is starts looking a bit dodge.

Instead of ignoring it for the slim chance of getting your dick wet.

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