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If you could be told the exact day you would die ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.. would you want to know!?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Fuck no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey no! Imagine how depressing that countdown would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah why not, would be something to look forward too!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not a chance

LvM

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By *olvesfunguyMan
over a year ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

Maybe! From a practical point of view, save putting too much petrol in the car.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Hell yes.....

That fits in my neat box headspace perfectly, I'm a planner and knowing that my small people are safe is of utmost importance to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so I could organise everything then I would be ready to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See I’m undecided : on one hand you can properly plan and make sure you do all the things you want to do and make sure you say all the things you want to say. Particularly if it’s a long way away.

On the other hand, as someone said above, it’s a bit of grim countdown isn’t it the nearer you get to it.

Gawd knows why I asked the question. Depressing really isn’t it?

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By *rooperRedMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Would you rather know when or how...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No imagine giving everything away etc. and then not dying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you rather know when or how...?"

Ah! Now that's an interesting question

So, if you were supposed to get squished by a bus or fall down a well it could definately impact on not venturing near roads.. Or wells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness. I use to like logging in here…

Dan, something cheerful would be nice.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, then I could just go wild in the last however long and not give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you have no choice

So for me tomorrow I’m off to the hospital for a pre assessment for a heart operation that’s booked the week after. When you get it it is ok as long as you have time to put everything in place (luckily I have)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


".. would you want to know!?

"

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. The things I would do the day before...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See I’m undecided : on one hand you can properly plan and make sure you do all the things you want to do and make sure you say all the things you want to say. Particularly if it’s a long way away.

On the other hand, as someone said above, it’s a bit of grim countdown isn’t it the nearer you get to it.

Gawd knows why I asked the question. Depressing really isn’t it? "

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

There is a film call Death day. Which is similar. Where an app tells you the day your going to die. Ans it actually happens even if you try and avoid or uninstall the app.

P.s don't download the app to see.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No! Same as loved ones! I allways thought after my mum and dad died with no warning it would have been nice to know they we gonna but then my stepdad who I was very close 2 was told he had weeks left! It was harder knowing he was going! For him and us around him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes so I could organise everything then I would be ready to go "

I was thinking that .

I would have the best of it with my daughter like a series is gonna end on Netflix , u don’t want them to go but u know the end is comming ….

The man who discovered how to read the DNA and done his own readings aperantly regrets it for life .

Do on purpose to find out I wouldn’t ,

But if I knew , yes organise everything for my last one way train ticket and have a great time traveling my daughter around the world as much as possible

And leave her all my belongings .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes you have no choice

So for me tomorrow I’m off to the hospital for a pre assessment for a heart operation that’s booked the week after. When you get it it is ok as long as you have time to put everything in place (luckily I have) "

All the best my lovely, fingers crossed it all goes well.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

Yes so that I can put certain things in order and if I spend in cash there is no aduit trial and family can avoid on any death taxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels like a terrible count down

But aren’t we all in a terrible count down, just with a clock we can’t see?

Personally, I’d like to know I’ve got a year left and enjoying it

Coz right now, I get up and go to work daily, not knowing if I’ll get to see my hard work pay off tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Goodness. I use to like logging in here…

Dan, something cheerful would be nice. "

On a Sunday evening too, of all days! Sorry!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Goodness. I use to like logging in here…

Dan, something cheerful would be nice. "

It’s such a fun, positive place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks!

I would obsess over it and become severely depressed.

I watched my dad who never once cried spiral into deep depression after they told him he would die within weeks and it was heartbreaking. I don't ever want to be told how many days I have left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes ! So I’ll know that I need to really finish my list of things I’d like to do before dying.

By the way if any of you can help me out, I’d appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would, no point going to work the day you’re going die

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

No way!!

What if somehow the date was wrong.... and you went out and blew all your money, told everyone you loved them (and the ones you can't stand) , gave away lots of your possession's and your home, for it to be wrong!

Hell no...... I'll leave the way I arrived - unexpectedly

(Early birth)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you have no choice

So for me tomorrow I’m off to the hospital for a pre assessment for a heart operation that’s booked the week after. When you get it it is ok as long as you have time to put everything in place (luckily I have)

All the best my lovely, fingers crossed it all goes well. "

Thank you all will be good

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No. While it would be useful to make sure you get done what you want to get done, like, delete your search history etc, as it gets nearer that date it'd be horrible.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Would it give you less regard for your own life, in that if you knew you were going to die in 10 years time then you could be as carefree as you liked right now?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes. I would try to do as much as I could, instead of being a bit laid back.

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By *hitney NeilWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in a marmite jar near you.

Do you need a hug Berks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’d want to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some final destination type stuff.. you avoid it for as long as possible to just get stuck on a sun bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t turn up. Avoid the day , stay in bed , get a disguise. I wanna live forever

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I kind of would be I'm not so sure.

I'm sure we would all live our lives very differently if we knew how long we had left. But it could massively depress you and make life seem pointless.

Memento mori is enough of a reminder for me

Mr

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Definitely

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I love a nice cheery thread on a Sunday...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you need a hug Berks "

If I say yes, will you give me one?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Maybe! From a practical point of view, save putting too much petrol in the car. "

That's what I was thinking. Get everything neatly laid out for the family and friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But imagine if that date changed depending on what you did

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"But imagine if that date changed depending on what you did "

That actually sounds awesome

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But imagine if that date changed depending on what you did "

Ooh I’m going to copyright that for a movie script before anyone else does!!

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original


"But imagine if that date changed depending on what you did "

But it couldn't could it...by definition...

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

If we are talking long term then no

If we are talking short term , say, ‘you’re gonna die on Jan 16th 2023 ‘ then that would be useful so it gives time to get everything sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would want to know, especially if it’s in the next few years.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Maybe something like a 100 day warning where you get a letter through to tell you there's 100 days left to get your shite in order.

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By *wabathMan
over a year ago

Bath

Was close 18 months ago but kicked cancers arse xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. would you want to know!?

"

Are you some sort of assassin or my doctor?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Was close 18 months ago but kicked cancers arse xxx"

Result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was close 18 months ago but kicked cancers arse xxx

Result "

Congratulations on this xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was close 18 months ago but kicked cancers arse xxx"

Fantastic news!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".. would you want to know!?

Are you some sort of assassin or my doctor?"

I’m a probate lawyer

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

At least you'd know not to start a lengthy boxset

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Yes please then I know when to slow down bc it wouldn’t matter in the long run

Marc

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By *nhinderedWoman
over a year ago

Reading

As someone who was widowed suddenly, yes I would like to know

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes could get thing's in order and do a big shop so the rest don't starve. Hopefully it won't be today as I haven't got time to go shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and then I would live life to the fullest

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

How depressing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How depressing "

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive?

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"Yes so I could organise everything then I would be ready to go "
exactly lol have a good party too x

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive? "

You presume a lot!!! Look after your own life and leave everyone else to theirs would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not go looking for it but if offered the information then I'd want to know, I'd be unable not to. Think initially I'd focus on it but then it'd prob go to back of my mind again till the date got closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive? "

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes....easier to sort the funeral and get some things off my bucket list

Take out a big life policy to give my family a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happier with the day than the date for sure. And certainly better than the time and date....

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"See I’m undecided : on one hand you can properly plan and make sure you do all the things you want to do and make sure you say all the things you want to say. Particularly if it’s a long way away.

On the other hand, as someone said above, it’s a bit of grim countdown isn’t it the nearer you get to it.

Gawd knows why I asked the question. Depressing really isn’t it? "

Yes just what I wanted to read on a Monday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I’d embrace it

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Yes.

It would be useful to plan ahead and enable me to make the maximum use of the time available between now and an inevitable, but distant, moment in the future.

And if I could be busy right up to the very last moment, all the better!

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By *ueenmalaysia9TV/TS
over a year ago

islington

This is abit deep loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I don't think I would live my life my life without worry or sadness for those I love and care about.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id do it the day before as a 2 fingers at destiny gesture

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Great question Dan. Not depressing at all. I think anyone who thinks it a depressing question hasn't really examined their own life or anyone else's or even perhaps stopped to realise that their life WILL come to an end......... at some point.

Or if they do realise.... then they hide from the fact.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes absolutely

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"Great question Dan. Not depressing at all. I think anyone who thinks it a depressing question hasn't really examined their own life or anyone else's or even perhaps stopped to realise that their life WILL come to an end......... at some point.

Or if they do realise.... then they hide from the fact.

"

I think it is depressing and it's not because I've not examined my own life at all. I'm well aware of my own mortality thanks.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'd prefer leaving that in the realm of the unknown

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive? "

That's the reason I like the question Dan.

Whilst I don't want to know the day I die, i've long been settled to the fact that I will.

I've also accepted long ago that there is no time like the present. Don't put off until tomorrow ...... live each day as if it IS your last ...... we never know them moment and all the other wise sayings and shit cliches are true.

Don't sweat the small stuff etc..... If people knew that today was their last , would they really be shitty to others and think that they grow from it ? Would they really be hung up on the past or dreading the future ?

Memento Mori ......

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


".. would you want to know!?

Are you some sort of assassin or my doctor?

I’m a probate lawyer"

Oh the people I want to avoid...you and the criminal lawyers.

I did some work experience in the family court....yeah..scarred and triggered.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Yes and then I would live life to the fullest

"

I already do live life to the fullest....to be honest, I overdo life a bit too much and then crash and burn. Lol!

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"See I’m undecided : on one hand you can properly plan and make sure you do all the things you want to do and make sure you say all the things you want to say. Particularly if it’s a long way away.

On the other hand, as someone said above, it’s a bit of grim countdown isn’t it the nearer you get to it.

Gawd knows why I asked the question. Depressing really isn’t it?

Yes just what I wanted to read on a Monday morning "

exactly why I don't work Mondays any more.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"As someone who was widowed suddenly, yes I would like to know "

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes you have no choice

So for me tomorrow I’m off to the hospital for a pre assessment for a heart operation that’s booked the week after. When you get it it is ok as long as you have time to put everything in place (luckily I have) "

Sending positive thoughts your way xx

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Yes definitely .. just as long as it's not next week as I'm having a new carpet fitted..

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Yes definitely .. just as long as it's not next week as I'm having a new carpet fitted.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive?

You presume a lot!!! Look after your own life and leave everyone else to theirs would be my advice."

The “you” was generic .. applicable to all, not “you” personally! Apologies if it was written in a way that made it seem it was talking about you personally! That wasn’t the intention!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive?

That's the reason I like the question Dan.

Whilst I don't want to know the day I die, i've long been settled to the fact that I will.

I've also accepted long ago that there is no time like the present. Don't put off until tomorrow ...... live each day as if it IS your last ...... we never know them moment and all the other wise sayings and shit cliches are true.

Don't sweat the small stuff etc..... If people knew that today was their last , would they really be shitty to others and think that they grow from it ? Would they really be hung up on the past or dreading the future ?

Memento Mori ...... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How depressing

Is it? Maybe you could use it as a trigger to truly ensure you experience wonderful things now rather than wait (and never get around to it). Surely you could (if you so wanted) turn it into a positive?

You presume a lot!!! Look after your own life and leave everyone else to theirs would be my advice.

The “you” was generic .. applicable to all, not “you” personally! Apologies if it was written in a way that made it seem it was talking about you personally! That wasn’t the intention! "

In hindsight I should have used “we” that would have been more appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my trigger day is tomorrow on this subject heart operation at 8.30am

I’ve got all my necessary eggs in place n my ducks all where they should be! Just gonna give the house a spring (well autumn!) clean top to bottom today! Don’t want people saying I was dusty lol!!! Off for lunch with my mum, a supermarket shop, long bath n early to bed ready fir tomorrow

Hopefully I’ll be back soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my trigger day is tomorrow on this subject heart operation at 8.30am

I’ve got all my necessary eggs in place n my ducks all where they should be! Just gonna give the house a spring (well autumn!) clean top to bottom today! Don’t want people saying I was dusty lol!!! Off for lunch with my mum, a supermarket shop, long bath n early to bed ready fir tomorrow

Hopefully I’ll be back soon "

We’ll catch you on the flip side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh, good question. I'm going to say yes because then I could make sure I had got rid of everything that would embarrass my family when they were sorting out my house.

When I was 5, my teacher had cancer and found out she was going to die and made us each a box with a letter in telling each of us why we were special. They're was a little Teddy in it as well. If I knew when I was going to die, it would give me the opportunity to do that for my friends and family.

Makes it easier to finance my life and adventures if I know how long I've got as well.

So, yes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh, good question. I'm going to say yes because then I could make sure I had got rid of everything that would embarrass my family when they were sorting out my house.

When I was 5, my teacher had cancer and found out she was going to die and made us each a box with a letter in telling each of us why we were special. There was a little Teddy in it as well. If I knew when I was going to die, it would give me the opportunity to do that for my friends and family.

Makes it easier to finance my life and adventures if I know how long I've got as well.

So, yes please. "

Auto carrot pissing me off today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh, good question. I'm going to say yes because then I could make sure I had got rid of everything that would embarrass my family when they were sorting out my house.

When I was 5, my teacher had cancer and found out she was going to die and made us each a box with a letter in telling each of us why we were special. There was a little Teddy in it as well. If I knew when I was going to die, it would give me the opportunity to do that for my friends and family.

Makes it easier to finance my life and adventures if I know how long I've got as well.

So, yes please.

Auto carrot pissing me off today "

It’s definitely better for me knowing for a start something I’d not given much thought to was my will I was still leaving everything to me ex (we were married when I wrote it) so now that has been rewritten! I’ve been able to write letters to my nearest n dearest n plan n pay for my own funeral on the worse case scenario on tomorrows op

Fingers crossed I won’t need it for a fair good few years yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh, good question. I'm going to say yes because then I could make sure I had got rid of everything that would embarrass my family when they were sorting out my house.

When I was 5, my teacher had cancer and found out she was going to die and made us each a box with a letter in telling each of us why we were special. There was a little Teddy in it as well. If I knew when I was going to die, it would give me the opportunity to do that for my friends and family.

Makes it easier to finance my life and adventures if I know how long I've got as well.

So, yes please.

Auto carrot pissing me off today

It’s definitely better for me knowing for a start something I’d not given much thought to was my will I was still leaving everything to me ex (we were married when I wrote it) so now that has been rewritten! I’ve been able to write letters to my nearest n dearest n plan n pay for my own funeral on the worse case scenario on tomorrows op

Fingers crossed I won’t need it for a fair good few years yet "

I hope it goes well

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over a year ago


"Oooh, good question. I'm going to say yes because then I could make sure I had got rid of everything that would embarrass my family when they were sorting out my house.

When I was 5, my teacher had cancer and found out she was going to die and made us each a box with a letter in telling each of us why we were special. There was a little Teddy in it as well. If I knew when I was going to die, it would give me the opportunity to do that for my friends and family.

Makes it easier to finance my life and adventures if I know how long I've got as well.

So, yes please.

Auto carrot pissing me off today

It’s definitely better for me knowing for a start something I’d not given much thought to was my will I was still leaving everything to me ex (we were married when I wrote it) so now that has been rewritten! I’ve been able to write letters to my nearest n dearest n plan n pay for my own funeral on the worse case scenario on tomorrows op

Fingers crossed I won’t need it for a fair good few years yet

I hope it goes well "

Thank you

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Depends, if I was told I would know when I die or how I die, and was forced to choose. Not sure I could pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I’m off now to have my op

C u all soon hopefully

Hope you all have a fab Friday xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well my trigger day is tomorrow on this subject heart operation at 8.30am

I’ve got all my necessary eggs in place n my ducks all where they should be! Just gonna give the house a spring (well autumn!) clean top to bottom today! Don’t want people saying I was dusty lol!!! Off for lunch with my mum, a supermarket shop, long bath n early to bed ready fir tomorrow

Hopefully I’ll be back soon "

Ooh missed this yesterday .. good luck with the op, I’ll be rooting for you! See you back here soon - let us know how it goes!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

God no!!!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If I was told, trust me, the week prior to that day would one to remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well my trigger day is tomorrow on this subject heart operation at 8.30am

I’ve got all my necessary eggs in place n my ducks all where they should be! Just gonna give the house a spring (well autumn!) clean top to bottom today! Don’t want people saying I was dusty lol!!! Off for lunch with my mum, a supermarket shop, long bath n early to bed ready fir tomorrow

Hopefully I’ll be back soon

Ooh missed this yesterday .. good luck with the op, I’ll be rooting for you! See you back here soon - let us know how it goes! "

I’m now home all went good I’m just very sore now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well my trigger day is tomorrow on this subject heart operation at 8.30am

I’ve got all my necessary eggs in place n my ducks all where they should be! Just gonna give the house a spring (well autumn!) clean top to bottom today! Don’t want people saying I was dusty lol!!! Off for lunch with my mum, a supermarket shop, long bath n early to bed ready fir tomorrow

Hopefully I’ll be back soon

Ooh missed this yesterday .. good luck with the op, I’ll be rooting for you! See you back here soon - let us know how it goes!

I’m now home all went good I’m just very sore now"

glad to hear it! Rest up, stay safe xx

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Yes, then I could just go wild in the last however long and not give a fuck."

I could try me some heroin...

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

No, I think getting hit by a bus or struck by lightning are by far the best options. You know absolutely nothing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pootin will be announcing the date soon. We’ll all be heading off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a film call Death day. Which is similar. Where an app tells you the day your going to die. Ans it actually happens even if you try and avoid or uninstall the app.

P.s don't download the app to see."

Now I want to download the app!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most defiantly not even the thought of that send shivers down my spine.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

Yes, it means you can plan ahead, clear out all your crap so others don't need to.

Transfer all your bills over and sort out things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't want to know. Let it happen when it happens. If I don't wake up tomorrow then so be it x

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Nope....I wouldn't want to live in fear of it approaching. I'd just want my family to feel loved regardless xT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a tricky one this !

Iron Maiden summed it up with the lyrics from a song on one of their albums “As soon as you’re born, you’re dying”, can’t say fairer than that really !!

Personally, I don’t want to know, if I get hit by a bud tomorrow, then so be it, if I’m still partying at 90 years old, happy days.

When my late wife was diagnosed with her condition, she was told it was a progressive disease rather than a terminal one as that implies an end date ! We didn’t know how much time we had left together so we made the most of everyday we had !

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By *eeman1Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

A no from me too. It would be a countdown and it would probably be depressing as it got nearer. I’d rather not know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it make funeral costs cheaper if you could offer a specific date?

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Of course... Then try avoid everything around me that could kill me ... Escape death challenge lol

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By *ornyhun69Woman
over a year ago

Wales

100% yes for me! I have a bucket list I'd have to rush through. And surely you can choose they way you go that way too x

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

This is the 2nd question pension advisors are too scared to ask. The first is...when do you never want to work again and tell the rat race to fuck off?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Your parents get a clue to your birth date so why not?

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

If I did, I'd probably kill myself a day early just to be awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I did, I'd probably kill myself a day early just to be awkward."

But surely the death clock would adjust to that day

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"If I did, I'd probably kill myself a day early just to be awkward.

But surely the death clock would adjust to that day "

Never doubt my ability to be premature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I did, I'd probably kill myself a day early just to be awkward.

But surely the death clock would adjust to that day

Never doubt my ability to be premature. "

And that's your inbox officially commiting fabicide

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I'd be late. Dead means late too., that'd confuse folks.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

.

Yes I would definitely want to know

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

No, life is for living and the fun is not knowing.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"If I did, I'd probably kill myself a day early just to be awkward.

But surely the death clock would adjust to that day

Never doubt my ability to be premature.

And that's your inbox officially commiting fabicide "

How will I tell the difference?

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