FabSwingers.com forum: Vote with your feet...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are all pretty wise to the ways of fab and the forums.

Those who come on to joke, to banter, to flirt and to have fun and those who stir the pot, light the touch paper, drop a bomb thread and then mysteriously disappear to lurk and enjoy the bickering or upset from the shadows....

Can we focus on the fun side, stop with the body critiques, not feed the negativity, not ignore the elephant stomping over our fab fun by joking or pandering....

Surely we've exhausted the body parts for a while so let's just vote with our comments...or lack of.... and ignore the narky threads maybe. I certainly will as they're a total downer.

What's your Sunday plans? Big Sunday dinner and dessert? Family time?

My kids are currently making dessert

could go either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont you worry your little self im only here for laughs anyway

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Whilst I understand the sentiment, the forums would be dull as fuck if full of 'fun' threads

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Could not agree more. I have had people judge me on here when they know nothing about me. Vast majority are lovely people and all should be respected. . It’s also a lot more fun when all are nice. Have fun

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

One woman's fun is another woman's annoyance.

I'll keep dipping in and out and be glad of the variety.

Power to the people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst I understand the sentiment, the forums would be dull as fuck if full of 'fun' threads "

I actually agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verity's the spice of life

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

We need more boob threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More norks please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?"

It's the Internet?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?"

I only use the lounge generally. I've just checked up n down the list. I can't see any hateful titles. Do you mean the posts in the threads ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"More norks please"

Norks is banned. I just banned it.

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?"

Yes some don’t seem to think about impact on others. You can have variety and love that here but no need to be rude and especially not hurt people

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The repetitiveness of them gets a bit much...

I'm home alone, so not really enjoying my Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?

I only use the lounge generally. I've just checked up n down the list. I can't see any hateful titles. Do you mean the posts in the threads ?"

The titles are always carefully neutral, but the comments are not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?

Yes some don’t seem to think about impact on others. You can have variety and love that here but no need to be rude and especially not hurt people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just continue to argue with arseholes and people who think I’m an arsehole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mods will close any 'hateful' threads. Otherwise, each to their own and vive la difference.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"But there's a limit to what's entertainment and what's just hateful surely

Who comes on here to see that or drive it up a level?

I only use the lounge generally. I've just checked up n down the list. I can't see any hateful titles. Do you mean the posts in the threads ?

The titles are always carefully neutral, but the comments are not"

Trouble is , no one can see the content until they are in there.

Also some don't read the whole thread and overlook a rude comment completely and the thread grows.

I don't see anything totally vile as a rule. The lounge is a lot more considerate than it used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"More norks please

Norks is banned. I just banned it."
nooooooooo

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"More norks please

Norks is banned. I just banned it.nooooooooo

Okay but one night only ( * )( * )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve done it in a very nice way, but still, this is you telling people to behave according to your instructions or leave.

The threads that make me want to pull up a chair and reach for the popcorn or chuck a can of petrol on the fire brighten my day so I’ll carry on doing it may way and stay thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I never told anyone to leave.

I just said I'd be avoiding unpleasantness.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

I'm in decorating hell atm so wish you good luck

Living for carbs with carbs for dinner and the hopeful pudding lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The grandkids have been noisy as hell most of the day, the dogs got a bit of a gippy tummy (had to mop the kitchen floor twice). And we're having pasta bake for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to ignore trolls though. One hand feeding them gives them attention on the other hand ignoring them and not pulling them up on their behaviour makes them think they can get away with it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

I'm in decorating hell atm so wish you good luck

Living for carbs with carbs for dinner and the hopeful pudding lol"

We're trying to polish the turd that is our house, so we can start afresh without stairs (and without damp, hopefully!)

Enjoy your carbs

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

Parenting taxi service gives me self worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hard to ignore trolls though. One hand feeding them gives them attention on the other hand ignoring them and not pulling them up on their behaviour makes them think they can get away with it. "

I kind of hope they get bored but ultimately I just won't have to be bothered by them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

I'm in decorating hell atm so wish you good luck

Living for carbs with carbs for dinner and the hopeful pudding lol

We're trying to polish the turd that is our house, so we can start afresh without stairs (and without damp, hopefully!)

Enjoy your carbs

I'm refurbing my whole house one room at a time, about half way done. I am so done with sanding and prepping and packing crates.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

People absolutely do vote with their feet and that's why the controversial threads are always chocker. Fabbers love a bit of drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"People absolutely do vote with their feet and that's why the controversial threads are always chocker. Fabbers love a bit of drama. "

It's why they always have the popcorn out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to ignore trolls though. One hand feeding them gives them attention on the other hand ignoring them and not pulling them up on their behaviour makes them think they can get away with it. "

This is me too. I won't let someone get away with saying vile stuff even if they won't acknowledge it. I just log off if I have had enough of trolls though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

Does that mean a man could have you from 9 to 5

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

Does that mean a man could have you from 9 to 5

Ohhh only if they can make me sing " Here I come again! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

Does that mean a man could have you from 9 to 5

Ohhh only if they can make me sing " Here I come again! ""

Can I be Kenny and Roger you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

Does that mean a man could have you from 9 to 5

Ohhh only if they can make me sing " Here I come again! "

Can I be Kenny and Roger you?

Haha

Very good

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

I'm in decorating hell atm so wish you good luck

Living for carbs with carbs for dinner and the hopeful pudding lol

We're trying to polish the turd that is our house, so we can start afresh without stairs (and without damp, hopefully!)

Enjoy your carbs

I'm refurbing my whole house one room at a time, about half way done. I am so done with sanding and prepping and packing crates."

The decorator didn't come

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Remaining Sunday plans? A decorator said they'd come to quote at 17:30. It's 18:00 now. Oh well. Fajitas for tea and have just been asked to be Mum's taxi....... Exciting life for us

I'm in decorating hell atm so wish you good luck

Living for carbs with carbs for dinner and the hopeful pudding lol

We're trying to polish the turd that is our house, so we can start afresh without stairs (and without damp, hopefully!)

Enjoy your carbs

I'm refurbing my whole house one room at a time, about half way done. I am so done with sanding and prepping and packing crates.

The decorator didn't come

no way.... hate that.

You'd not be sure of booking them now even if they showed up tomorrow, sure You'd be wondering if they'd follow through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op. You look hot. Fancy an online virtual smooch?

Lay one on me Woody

Laid? Oh, moving a little fast for me, but okay?!

A kiss Woody, a kiss

.... my word, what kind of girl d'you think I am

Well…Whatever type of girl you want to be…

Ohhhh the options are endless

I think I'll resist being 'one of your french girls' and tonight Matthew, I'm going to be Dolly Beg-your-Parton

Does that mean a man could have you from 9 to 5

Ohhh only if they can make me sing " Here I come again! "

Can I be Kenny and Roger you?

Haha

Very good"

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By *parkyjayneCouple
over a year ago

midlands

What? With these feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the forums should be for everyone to post as they wish, how they wish as long as it is within the site rules.

I’m not having a go at the OP, and my apols if it seems like I am, but to me this is a very “2022” thread : ie let’s not have anything that I (the reader .. rather than the OP!) don’t approve of on here.

There’s loads of threads I don’t like on the forums, some make my eyes roll, some make me think WTF and some I think are in bad taste (and that’s just the ones I start!

) but I just avoid and ignore the ones I don’t like.

So go ahead people of Fab, start your threads, throw your bombs, do your thing, but do it respectfully and within the rules!

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