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First time at a club

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark

I am yet to go to a club. I would love to hear some experiences of your first times and how you felt. I'm a single female if that makes any difference.

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark

lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My first time was very full on. It wasn't a typical first club experience, and I have never repeated what happened that night.

What sort of club are you planning to attend?

Will you go alone or with someone?

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark


"My first time was very full on. It wasn't a typical first club experience, and I have never repeated what happened that night.

What sort of club are you planning to attend?

Will you go alone or with someone?

"

Genuinely I have no idea. It's something I'd love to do but I'm a little scared....and clueless!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

I've been to clubs on my own several times and never had a problem, it's quite thrilling.

Often I would post on here that I'm going somewhere and hopefully strike up a conversation with people who are also going so I have people to look out for making it easier for me to feel confident in approaching them

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark


"I've been to clubs on my own several times and never had a problem, it's quite thrilling.

Often I would post on here that I'm going somewhere and hopefully strike up a conversation with people who are also going so I have people to look out for making it easier for me to feel confident in approaching them "

That's a really good idea!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My first time was very full on. It wasn't a typical first club experience, and I have never repeated what happened that night.

What sort of club are you planning to attend?

Will you go alone or with someone?

Genuinely I have no idea. It's something I'd love to do but I'm a little scared....and clueless!"

I went with my then friend, he who put me on Fab. It was a seedy, strange club (now closed) with a buffet spread suitable for a kids party, a room full of bed where everything was happening, a couple of rooms where you could close the door and a lounge area to chill.

If I had known about clubs before going it's unlikely that would have been my first choice.

Have a look at the clubs listings and see which are local to you. Read the reviews and look at their websites.

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark


"My first time was very full on. It wasn't a typical first club experience, and I have never repeated what happened that night.

What sort of club are you planning to attend?

Will you go alone or with someone?

Genuinely I have no idea. It's something I'd love to do but I'm a little scared....and clueless!

I went with my then friend, he who put me on Fab. It was a seedy, strange club (now closed) with a buffet spread suitable for a kids party, a room full of bed where everything was happening, a couple of rooms where you could close the door and a lounge area to chill.

If I had known about clubs before going it's unlikely that would have been my first choice.

Have a look at the clubs listings and see which are local to you. Read the reviews and look at their websites.

"

I will. Do you feel pressure to join in? Lol

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

Been wanting to try a club for ages. I don't have the confidence to go on my own and noticed they're not really for single guys. I'd love to meet someone who is interested in partnering up for a club or party night

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark


"Been wanting to try a club for ages. I don't have the confidence to go on my own and noticed they're not really for single guys. I'd love to meet someone who is interested in partnering up for a club or party night "

I definitely think it would be better to go with someone!

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Been wanting to try a club for ages. I don't have the confidence to go on my own and noticed they're not really for single guys. I'd love to meet someone who is interested in partnering up for a club or party night

I definitely think it would be better to go with someone!"

Well, Im up for it if someones looking for a date

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My first time was very full on. It wasn't a typical first club experience, and I have never repeated what happened that night.

What sort of club are you planning to attend?

Will you go alone or with someone?

Genuinely I have no idea. It's something I'd love to do but I'm a little scared....and clueless!

I went with my then friend, he who put me on Fab. It was a seedy, strange club (now closed) with a buffet spread suitable for a kids party, a room full of bed where everything was happening, a couple of rooms where you could close the door and a lounge area to chill.

If I had known about clubs before going it's unlikely that would have been my first choice.

Have a look at the clubs listings and see which are local to you. Read the reviews and look at their websites.

I will. Do you feel pressure to join in? Lol"

That first time it was decision to just get started. After that I didn't ever feel pressure to join in, but I like watching and being watched.

I haven't been to a club for a very long time but I enjoyed the chatting to people as much as the opportunity for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traumatising

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark


"Traumatising"

Oh no....why?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Been wanting to try a club for ages. I don't have the confidence to go on my own and noticed they're not really for single guys. I'd love to meet someone who is interested in partnering up for a club or party night "

I used to go to experience single men. Couples and single women look for single men for that bit of extra fun. But, not everyone will be chosen, and you get charged more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worth having a look at the club reviews, picking a club/s that take your fancy. Then I would message the people you like the look of from said club, especially people who attended regularly! It's definitely worth a go, what's the worst that can happen. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We loved our first time. We were so nervous when we went in but before our first drink had even been poured another couple started talking to us. They made us feel welcome and didn’t even hint at having sex so there wasn’t any pressure whatsoever.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"Been wanting to try a club for ages. I don't have the confidence to go on my own and noticed they're not really for single guys. I'd love to meet someone who is interested in partnering up for a club or party night

I used to go to experience single men. Couples and single women look for single men for that bit of extra fun. But, not everyone will be chosen, and you get charged more.

"

I have a feeling I'll be on the latter end, hence the lack of confidence. I'm terrible at meeting new people as it is

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

My first time was fine, I researched the local clubs I sorted out what I need for membership and I went in with a attitude of just seeing what it was like, I chatted to a few people and I haven't looked back since.

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By *oodles09 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newark

Thanks all

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I am yet to go to a club. I would love to hear some experiences of your first times and how you felt. I'm a single female if that makes any difference. "

I would imagine the experience would be vastly different for a man or woman attending for the first time on their own?

Women invariably attract more attention in clubs and will likely have someone come chat them up if they're shy or nervous. If a single guy goes solo, he'll likely spend a lonely night if he doesn't have an outgoing, engaging personality.

My first club visit I went solo without expectations. Didn't play but made an effort to chat to people and had a good time. On my third visit I finally got plenty of joy. From then on it was always very satisfying

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