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By *rincessPuddleDuck22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

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If you found out you were the "other woman" would you say something or just step away from the situation and wait for the inevitable car crash breakup...?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh well .......

Did I know from the outset ?

If i've 'found out' .... that means I was deceived and i'd be out like a flash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you found out you were the "other woman" would you say something or just step away from the situation and wait for the inevitable car crash breakup...?

"

Deception = call them a lying bastard then block, don’t want to hear your excuses and avoids the car crash. Easier said than done though I’m sure if you’re emotionally invested.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Be outa there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other woman by Lana del ray. Banger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to have a conversation, things are not always as they seem, but you would need to do this calmly, without emotion

I would say remember your worth and do what is right for you ultimately

Good luck - happy to chat via DM if you want some support x

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Does he know you know

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

If he cheats on his wife then he's likely to cheat on you too (not always). Run a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you found out you were the "other woman" would you say something or just step away from the situation and wait for the inevitable car crash breakup...?

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dont bring me into this thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step away and definitely block all channels he might use to communicate with you on. Even if his ‘wife has a chronic health issue that means she can’t have sex, but has given him permission’ - he hasn’t been up front with you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know what I'd do in practice. In theory I would tell the person I knew and that I never wanted to see them again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't wait for or take any pleasure in a relationship breaking up though

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

If you've been lied to then get out now if he's done it to his mrs he will do it to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was a good fuck I'd carry on fucking him.

If it was a relationship I'd bin him. It would be interesting to bump into them out in public together.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd not want to be involved in that. At least when you meet a couple you can be fairly sure they're all on the same page, unless one only gets amorous whilst the other puts the kettle on

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It sadly happened to me in real life ,no idea he was in a relationship and he'd said he was single.

Found out when she saw a text on his phone and rang me distraught.

Ended it immediately,but he persisted for weeks.

It's why I wouldn't entertain anyone who is playing behund a partners back.

If I find out on here someone I'm chatting to is in a relationship I block immediately,as I can't deal with deceit.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Give him an ultimatum. You tell her or I will.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"If he was a good fuck I'd carry on fucking him.

If it was a relationship I'd bin him. It would be interesting to bump into them out in public together."

^ This

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I walked away and blocked all contact

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Difficult to say without knowing more, go with your gut feeling op

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh well .......

Did I know from the outset ?

If i've 'found out' .... that means I was deceived and i'd be out like a flash."

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Some women like being the other woman if they know a guy they seeing is in a committed relationship. Not to say its a good thing.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I can cut off a liar instantly, no problem, regardless of time/love invested

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Just keep calling yourself authentic while banging the married man behind his wife's back, while he calls himself ethical.

As long as you use the right labels its okay isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just keep calling yourself authentic while banging the married man behind his wife's back, while he calls himself ethical.

As long as you use the right labels its okay isn’t it?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd say something, I personally couldn't cope with the guilt and feel everyone has a right to know.

Mrs

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