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Do you take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When someone checks if you're single?

Probably says a lot about me, but I do. I'm like "aww you think I can get a boyfriend, bless your heart"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case I think it’s because they would find it incredulous that anyone would want to be with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it annoying when I’m questioned why rather than if

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my case I think it’s because they would find it incredulous that anyone would want to be with me "

LOL same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it annoying when I’m questioned why rather than if "

Or "is that through choice?"

Uhhh yeah... Theirs

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hi, I'm Tina Titz and when people ask if I'm single, I think they really mean do I have a carer/social worker with me and if not, why not?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It's totally cringy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually the first question on here when chatting with someone, as if stating it clearly on the profile and then suddenly being asked is going to cause a forced error lol.

But ya know, women, not reading profiles, #amirite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone checks if you're single?

Probably says a lot about me, but I do. I'm like "aww you think I can get a boyfriend, bless your heart" "

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know the first time it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's usually the first question on here when chatting with someone, as if stating it clearly on the profile and then suddenly being asked is going to cause a forced error lol.

But ya know, women, not reading profiles, #amirite?

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The forced error tactic is legit. If your profile is legit, you’ll never mess up. I bet MANY people trip up with such simple checking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's usually the first question on here when chatting with someone, as if stating it clearly on the profile and then suddenly being asked is going to cause a forced error lol.

But ya know, women, not reading profiles, #amirite?

The forced error tactic is legit. If your profile is legit, you’ll never mess up. I bet MANY people trip up with such simple checking "

HA yeah sometimes if I spot the tiniest of tiniest red flags I'll just go "I have a feeling you're attached..". Sadly I'm always right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone checks if you're single?

Probably says a lot about me, but I do. I'm like "aww you think I can get a boyfriend, bless your heart"

What do you mean? "

When someone you're talking to asks if you're single so they can make sure they're not the bit on the side

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By *ociable-NottmCouple
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with asking op

Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with asking op

Mr "

Didn't say there was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask men to check - why shouldn't they ask me? Don't either of us are giving a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's totally cringy."

What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ask men to check - why shouldn't they ask me? Don't either of us are giving a compliment. "

Lol I know I'm just saying I take it as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone checks if you're single?

Probably says a lot about me, but I do. I'm like "aww you think I can get a boyfriend, bless your heart" "

Hi . Why couldn’t you get a boyfriend ?

You r sexy n good attitude i see why not ?

I’m sure you wouldn’t struggle

I asked that to ladies before . As they profile has nothing in it .

So I ask : what’s your story , single , kids ?

And intention is only to find out how busy the lady could be to ask her out for a social …

Find a way to see her with out pressure x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone checks if you're single?

Probably says a lot about me, but I do. I'm like "aww you think I can get a boyfriend, bless your heart"

Hi . Why couldn’t you get a boyfriend ?

You r sexy n good attitude i see why not ?

I’m sure you wouldn’t struggle

I asked that to ladies before . As they profile has nothing in it .

So I ask : what’s your story , single , kids ?

And intention is only to find out how busy the lady could be to ask her out for a social …

Find a way to see her with out pressure x x "

And as well to know a bit more about her ,

I’m not good at flirting … but I like to know about a lady slowly as we chat ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to ask what their relationship situation is.

If they're single, they usually add info on why, how long, or about their last split.

If not, they occasionally describe a non monogamous relationship (mainly toxic) but usually confess they're cheating.

I find an open question gives people more of a chance to show their true colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ask but rarely believe them if they say their single, I usually get spun a lie

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