FabSwingers.com forum: What specifically seduces you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

What’s yours?

* I expect the smell of bacon to be an answer for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection. That feeling. I can't really think of any other way to explain it, just when you know you know.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Connection. That feeling. I can't really think of any other way to explain it, just when you know you know. "
100% agree with you...everything just goes yessss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a sucker for charm and wit, dad jokes, puns and cheesy innuendos and someone who takes a genuine interest in getting to know me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wit humour funnys

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Blue underwear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Connection. That feeling. I can't really think of any other way to explain it, just when you know you know. "

Oh yes. I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also only one time was lightning in a bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pierced elbows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry, that unexplained draw to someone is very rare but amazing when it happens .

When I get asked what my type is I can't answer because you never know who you're going to click with

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By *risky FoxesCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Emlyn

When someone looks at you as if you’re their last meal

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"When someone looks at you as if you’re their last meal "

Where's that bottle of chianti?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection and physical attraction. I know, I'm shallow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection, attraction, the eyes and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thrive on connection and the ability to seduce my mind. My best meets have been the ones where they’ve put in the time to excite and seduce me in the run up to a meet. So many guys think the effort ends once I’ve agreed to a meet but I like to maintain the seduction (on both sides).

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Connection, attraction, the eyes and smile

How do I score?

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Stockings and suspenders

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

Pretty much that, if they make lots of eye contact and are touchy-feely too, I’m easily bewitched.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

A man’s hand caressing my bottom in a busy bar.

Nothing said… just me at the bar, ordering a drink, surrounded by men I don’t know and feeling s strangers hand stroking and squeezing my bum!

Jeez, my knees just turn to jelly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

What’s yours?

* I expect the smell of bacon to be an answer for some reason

Eye contact especially if she's got gorgeous eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry, ease of conversation, good sense of humour....tattoos help too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and a cheeky wink...no idea why but it just MELTS me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate éclair ,it's the shape ,the Chocolate and cream .it oozes out when sink teeth into it .mmm the cream has too be licked off my lips.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Intelligence and humour

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Make me laugh, make me smile & offer food.

I'm yours.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Chocolate éclair ,it's the shape ,the Chocolate and cream .it oozes out when sink teeth into it .mmm the cream has too be licked off my lips.

Taxi to the north east please. (Éclairs in hand)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With complete strangers it’s when you just instantly click. No awkwardness and it’s as if you’ve known each other for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chocolate éclair ,it's the shape ,the Chocolate and cream .it oozes out when sink teeth into it .mmm the cream has too be licked off my lips.

Taxi to the north east please. (Éclairs in hand)

Marvelous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and a cheeky wink...no idea why but it just MELTS me"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Boobs

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

I have to feel like she's genuinely interested in spending time with me, and I have to feel that we're having some kind of effect on each other, before, during and after meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to feel like she's genuinely interested in spending time with me, and I have to feel that we're having some kind of effect on each other, before, during and after meeting"

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Powerful women. As in mentally/profession

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

That initial attraction with that knowing look

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Plenty to talk about does the trick and if I sense they are "into" me.

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

Smile and eyes 1st then intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chemistry, that unexplained draw to someone is very rare but amazing when it happens .

When I get asked what my type is I can't answer because you never know who you're going to click with "

I like this ^^

I don’t know that it’s Always the same. So much depends on the WHO, not the WHAT

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Connection/spark/brains/sense of humour and shared interests...matching underwear ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A special spark, the way you are able to click. And a handsome face, someone who makes you feel at ease within minutes. I love people with a random sense of humour too, always makes me crush.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With complete strangers it’s when you just instantly click. No awkwardness and it’s as if you’ve known each other for years."

That’s what I’m talking about. Not when you know them or keeping a relationship going… but what is it that lights that flame of initial attraction, that can quickly turn to lust and an unbearable want to to have them.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

In a word... Confidence.

The way he meets my gaze head on and doesn't deviate from my face is so bloody hot and guaranteed to get my full attention.

Every. Single. Time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A special spark, the way you are able to click. And a handsome face, someone who makes you feel at ease within minutes. I love people with a random sense of humour too, always makes me crush.

Random I can do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

What’s yours?

* I expect the smell of bacon to be an answer for some reason

Nothing in a woman that attracts me more and makes me more horny then her sweetness …

It really makes me wanna go for the saltiness .

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Blowjobs

LvM

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Hard to quantify, an energy.

And boobs.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Stillness.

A slow, golden smile that illuminates her face.

Intelligent, sparkling, dancing eyes.

Curiosity and openness.

And if she looks like Winona Ryder in Beetlejuice, Alicia Silverstone in Clueless, or at least has lovely breasts, that would just sweeten the deal perfectly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empathy mixed with humour

It's rare in men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection. That moment you realise there is definitely a physical and emotional connection, you get that momentary glimpse of what sex would be like, with that person. Goosebumps.

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

Has to be a connection of some sort as well as a good sense of humour. I don’t take myself too seriously so like that in others as well. but eyes and accents… ooft I’m a sucker for a soft lilting Irish accent or an Eastern European accent…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Connection. That feeling. I can't really think of any other way to explain it, just when you know you know. "

^^ has to be this

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

What’s yours?

* I expect the smell of bacon to be an answer for some reason

Women small in height drive me wild.

Women with sexy legs drive me wild. ]

Women with erotic minds drive me wild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thrive on connection and the ability to seduce my mind. My best meets have been the ones where they’ve put in the time to excite and seduce me in the run up to a meet. So many guys think the effort ends once I’ve agreed to a meet but I like to maintain the seduction (on both sides)."

You are right. It should be before, during and after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweaty horse riding ladies

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Eyes, it's all in the eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Someone said friendliness is attractive!

I have very very few frie…. Oh right. I get it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something about staring into eyes in person - the right ones make me want to rip their clothes off in the pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is something about staring into eyes in person - the right ones make me want to rip their clothes off in the pub "

*walks up …”Can I buy you a drink?”

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s when you just get along without effort, you laugh, you chat, there’s ease. It’s all very attractive, pop a twinkle in the eye and you have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence without an attitude, Intelligent and Makes me laugh

And I do love a Gentleman with manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Updo and fringes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black thigh high nylons and a pair killer heels with a naughty smile and come to bed eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That look in the eyes, smile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A commanding voice telling me what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lightning in a bottle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lightning in a bottle"

Very very … very rare.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I’m a sucker for charm and wit, dad jokes, puns and cheesy innuendos and someone who takes a genuine interest in getting to know me. "

Helllooooo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Black thigh high nylons and a pair killer heels with a naughty smile and come to bed eyes "

This’ll be me later today

Seamed ones!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I think I’ve nailed it for me. A face that I think is gorgeous with a captivating smile and an easy going, happy persona.

What’s yours?

* I expect the smell of bacon to be an answer for some reason

Eye contact especially if she's got gorgeous eyes"

YES, I've been there. Those are dangerous eyes, I'm in danger of being seduced against my will.LOL

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Cheeky sense of humour and chat.

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