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How nerve racking is a first social?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a couple or a single? I kind of got off on the adrenaline feeling but my other half is the oppersit. Advice for her to overcome it and pluck the courage to do it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get off on a adrenaline rush ** we haven't actually gone to a social yet

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By *ristol BiteMan
over a year ago

all over

Mine was a unique one as it was a party at a swingers club.

I was scared and my heart dropped when the first room I walked into was 90% old men.

Thankfully it didn't stay that way and I ended up having one of the best nights I've ever had.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t feel anything when meeting people socially first time in the sense of nerves over excitement .

Only thing that is in my mind is hopefully we get along and not wasted each other’s time but worst case you have a drink make amicable small talk 5/10 min and then part ways . Or you just leave immediately if they are not the person in pics

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I don’t feel anything when meeting people socially first time in the sense of nerves over excitement .

Only thing that is in my mind is hopefully we get along and not wasted each other’s time but worst case you have a drink make amicable small talk 5/10 min and then part ways . Or you just leave immediately if they are not the person in pics

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Yeah same, it's just a thing that's happening. Cool as a refrigerated cucumber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials don’t make me nervous even though I’m quite shy!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I love the slightly nervous yet exciting, adrenalin pumping anticipation when you're driving to meet someone new.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I have to deliberately put a work hat on and network - it is not at all natural for me and massively takes me out of my comfort zone.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

I am a bit of a loner by circumstances in my hunger days so these things are a challenge for me but you have to go out of your comfort zone to get anything out of life don't you?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just concentrate on the coffee and cake

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Remove all pressure, let her and the people you're meeting know that a social is just that, a social nothing more will happen and she is in complete control of any further interaction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a bit of a loner by circumstances in my hunger days so these things are a challenge for me but you have to go out of your comfort zone to get anything out of life don't you?"

That's very true

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Remove all pressure, let her and the people you're meeting know that a social is just that, a social nothing more will happen and she is in complete control of any further interaction. "

Exactly this and she will have you there so it shouldn't be too nerve racking .The longer you leave it the worse the thought of it can be though.

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

I find socials fine as long as you go in there with zero expectations as to the outcome bar having a chat and drink.

Seen it before where some seem to think it's going to be more than that, and act rather inappropriately

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

How do you feel walking into a strange pub?

It's like that.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

One of the joys of suffering from anhedonia is there is no nervous anticipation and no pre-meet excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all shes only a people

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