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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants " They threw their toys out of the pram | |||
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"I don't think they read profiles. Just see a woman online and copy and paste their chat up line " Definitely this. I've had people 200 miles away send exactly the same message weeks apart. It's crazy | |||
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"Nobody on fab reads bios. And I’m not even joking, women that are silly enough message me don’t read mine either. Men I expect it- Cock in hand vibes. " I read it, I just disregarded your wishes | |||
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"I always read the bio, I'm normal as I find them interesting to read then decide whether to " Thank you!!! For me it's logical! | |||
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"I think sometimes they do read it ,but just ignore what you want anyway. I've had "I know I'm 200 miles away but...or I know you don't meet smokers but ,they think they will be the exception." Nothing applies to them | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " truthfully we do read it, but we are horny so we try our luck. Also it could be because we fancy you | |||
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"Why bother reading profiles when most don't reply. " Good point, I hadn't thought of that | |||
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"I always read the bio, I'm normal as I find them interesting to read then decide whether to Thank you!!! For me it's logical!" It's just normal behaviour | |||
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"If they are worth talking to they would of read the profile . I have yet to message anyone yet as I don’t feel I have found the right person / persons . I understand it’s very different for women as many men do cut and paste " Good on you though. It's just pointless messaging people when they aren't looking for what you have to offer. Finding the right person is a priority | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " It's not just 'when women write'.... In the first paragraph of ours it clearly states not to message asking to meet. And yet.....every....single.....day..... A | |||
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"90% of men who message me clearly don’t read profiles." Agreed | |||
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"Who gives a shit what *they* want when your dicks got the itch " Pmsl | |||
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"Nobody on fab reads bios. And I’m not even joking, women that are silly enough message me don’t read mine either. Men I expect it- Cock in hand vibes. I read it, I just disregarded your wishes " I hate you | |||
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"Nobody on fab reads bios. And I’m not even joking, women that are silly enough message me don’t read mine either. Men I expect it- Cock in hand vibes. I read it, I just disregarded your wishes I hate you " But I’ll forgive of you send boobs | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Can't say I do that, but I'm sure many do. Broad sweeping statements aside... Why? No idea, probably comes under the same bracket of throwing mud and seeing what sticks. We all have our crosses to bear with this place, it is what it is. You just try to muddle through best you can. | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? It's not just 'when women write'.... In the first paragraph of ours it clearly states not to message asking to meet. And yet.....every....single.....day..... A" Bloody hell. Delete lol | |||
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"Nobody on fab reads bios. And I’m not even joking, women that are silly enough message me don’t read mine either. Men I expect it- Cock in hand vibes. I read it, I just disregarded your wishes I hate you But I’ll forgive of you send boobs " | |||
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"they see a nice pair of tits and juicy pussy and peachy arse, which causes their brain to go on strike...! " Good point lol | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Maybe u just to hot to resist texting you . Me personally I love your photos , you are hot . But if I was a smoker I wouldn’t text you . Same as I don’t text u cause I’m a bit more far then 10 miles ^^ I do read profiles … I guess is hope . Hope run things here . I guess … | |||
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"I always read the bio, I'm normal as I find them interesting to read then decide whether to " ...yep, same as this but I think Forumites represent the greater proportion of those that read them | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants " Because they are ignorants with low energy to recognise and deal with a painful rejection . I consider that a reason to block . Harrassment . Rude n selfish . Sorry to hear Who is texting you is miss respecting you x x If u ever pass Luton don’t be shy | |||
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"I don't think they read profiles. Just see a woman online and copy and paste their chat up line " I read . I don’t text a lady who goes clubs only Or a “ black only “ takes me severe hours under the sun to turn black , and trust me is not in uk that is gonna happen So I may skip texting them | |||
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"I don't think they read profiles. Just see a woman online and copy and paste their chat up line " I read . I don’t text a lady who goes clubs only Or a “ black only “ takes me severe hours under the sun to turn black , and trust me is not in uk that is gonna happen So I may skip texting them | |||
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"All of the above I’m guessing. I just keep mine short and sweet for those reasons, pointless writing a long bio. " Extra long bios … forgive me … but … came on … Not being rude but I need put my “ superman reading mode “ and just go throught it … Not many , but a couple of them I’m sorry I gave up half way there … to much … | |||
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"All of the above I’m guessing. I just keep mine short and sweet for those reasons, pointless writing a long bio. Extra long bios … forgive me … but … came on … Not being rude but I need put my “ superman reading mode “ and just go throught it … Not many , but a couple of them I’m sorry I gave up half way there … to much … " Hopefully if you find what they say boring then you won't want to contact them, right? | |||
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"I think sometimes they do read it ,but just ignore what you want anyway. I've had "I know I'm 200 miles away but...or I know you don't meet smokers but ,they think they will be the exception." And just have a quick fag quickly before go upstairs Hiding behind the bins so u don’t see they smoke | |||
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"All of the above I’m guessing. I just keep mine short and sweet for those reasons, pointless writing a long bio. Extra long bios … forgive me … but … came on … Not being rude but I need put my “ superman reading mode “ and just go throught it … Not many , but a couple of them I’m sorry I gave up half way there … to much … " Long profiles can be a great filter! | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants " I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it " There’s a whole other thread running due to an op basically spitting the dummy Male entitlement is usually the issue not that women don’t also have their “moments” but I’m willing to bet a fair proportion of the “women” profiles that act similarly? Aren’t actually women | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " I'm guessing those incredible boobs have something to do with it | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it " I do always report the bad ones tbh. I'm not sure if anything happens but I always do xxx | |||
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"'I'm willing to travel hundreds of miles to meet you this week' doesn't cut it with me. The more desperate and disrespectful of my boundaries they are, the easier it is for them to self-select and identify as a no go. Ever. " Love this. And so true | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Because you will be cock struck by my amazing appendage. | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Interesting questions! | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it I do always report the bad ones tbh. I'm not sure if anything happens but I always do xxx" Well I'm glad you do report them I've never had an abusive message but also understand your point about guys who don't read the profiles but I read them every time but it's not only the straight guys that don't read them I usually get plenty of messages from gay men wanting to pleasure me orally or pay their back door a visit. It gets on my nerves especially the persistent few who don't take no for an answer as it clearly states I'm straight the persistent ones get blocked in the end lol xxx | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it I do always report the bad ones tbh. I'm not sure if anything happens but I always do xxx Well I'm glad you do report them I've never had an abusive message but also understand your point about guys who don't read the profiles but I read them every time but it's not only the straight guys that don't read them I usually get plenty of messages from gay men wanting to pleasure me orally or pay their back door a visit. It gets on my nerves especially the persistent few who don't take no for an answer as it clearly states I'm straight the persistent ones get blocked in the end lol xxx" It's so frustrating. The majority of messages i get i dont even bother reading. I can see without opening that they don't fit the bill. Grrrr | |||
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"Fortunately I don't have to deal with those kind of messages but I do feel for the ladies looking for men on here. Due to the sheer number of men to everyone else on here it must be nearly impossible to keep up with the volume of messages you get. Mostly from people who just didn't read what you are looking in the first place! " That's exactly right. I could get up to 100 messages and 95 would be from Scotland or London etc. Pointless. | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? Because you will be cock struck by my amazing appendage. " damn it, never thought of that hahahaha | |||
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"It’s INCREDIBLY frustrating, just chancing their luck I guess " Probably. Does my head in lol | |||
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"You've got a ridiculously good body and look amazing so I'm assuming they are hoping to overturn your objections with their well written, witty messages. " Irresistible. | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Some people travel, some live between two cities, . Some move by the time they write. The idea of a distance restiction is that we all live and work next door. Not sure this is the case. | |||
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"Question for the men When women write what they are looking for in their profile, such as no smokers, specific distance etc....why still message? Do you not bother to read profiles? Do you think that it's always worth a try? Is there another reason? " Sometimes if I see something on there profile that I think is really clever or something amazing that I can't help myself but to compliment them on I will just send a quick compliment but start by saying that I have read there profile and know I'm not there type and go on to compliment then I never expect a reply and if I do get a thank you I just say your welcome and then not bother them anymore, also have messaged the odd guy doing the same thing and yes I'm straight not just fab straight | |||
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"Next question. Why the hell do I then get abusive messages when I don't reply. It's full on pants I would never send an abusive message to someone that doesn't reply I accept it and move on I suppose the ones that do do it have had a dent in their egos and throwing their toys out of the pram but hope you report the ones that send you that stuff theirs no need for it I do always report the bad ones tbh. I'm not sure if anything happens but I always do xxx Well I'm glad you do report them I've never had an abusive message but also understand your point about guys who don't read the profiles but I read them every time but it's not only the straight guys that don't read them I usually get plenty of messages from gay men wanting to pleasure me orally or pay their back door a visit. It gets on my nerves especially the persistent few who don't take no for an answer as it clearly states I'm straight the persistent ones get blocked in the end lol xxx It's so frustrating. The majority of messages i get i dont even bother reading. I can see without opening that they don't fit the bill. Grrrr" Just to show I do read profiles I went through yours and was going to message until I got to the near the end of yours I don't live within ten miles of Wolverhampton gutted I still probably wouldn't fit the bill if I did lol but I fancy getting out of London and 10 miles of Wolverhampton seems the perfect place to start house hunting could message then if I find a suitable house | |||
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