FabSwingers.com forum: Would people rather good fuck and go or more of a frienship/relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm intrigued to know what's more popular on this site fuck and go or long term

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By *amuelsquestMan
over a year ago

Sutton at hone

Long term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not into fuck and go

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Long term / friendship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So more of a friendship FWB type thing then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll hang around until I'm kicked out

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Both myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long Term Friendship and the bonus of having sexual fun is a bonus. Dont like Wham Bam meets. Like to do social stuff also. X

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By *allen Angels CplCouple
over a year ago

North East leicestershire

Has to be more that a fuck n go for us x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

More of a friendship but I wouldn't really call it friends with benefits. It's just a thing isn't it? Hard to describe. Any way, yeah. Not into NSA at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely "long term".

The only reason i came back to FAB was because of long term relationships with couples. If that didn't exist, i wouldn't be here to post this reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendship, there's respect and some care there.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though."

I'll grab my coat

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By *amuelsquestMan
over a year ago

Sutton at hone

"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though."
on route

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By *nhinderedWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I’m actually looking for a relationship so wouldn’t meet with anyone unless there was potential for that. I’m often told to ‘get real’ and that I don’t belong here by disgruntled men who are angry I’m not gonna fuck them but I like sharing risqué pics so here I am! Obviously also on conventional dating sites

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though."

Running out the door as I type..!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely friendship for us. We aren't looking for NSA.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *yrman57Man
over a year ago

Ayr

I would love someone local and permanent.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though.

Running out the door as I type..!

Don't mind sloppy thirds do you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends on how well the first meet goes. It's always possible that one or the other of us might not want to continue

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Right now I'm practically naked on my sofa after a shower and wouldn't say no to someone coming in and fucking me senseless.

No dick sucking though.

Running out the door as I type..!

Don't mind sloppy thirds do you?

No lol I may beat the other two there …!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whos got 1st me ahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here? Bit of both really, one to one meets tend to be with people I want to get to know over a longer period, but last couple of visits to a club have been more spontaneous…

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Fuck and go does nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK interesting, so if u meet once and you fuck but not feeling it after. your happy to just fuck and go but if there was more to it, you would be happy to continue building a "relationship" type thing

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Not quite fuck and go but fuck, quick chat, few drinks and go. Maybe meet again at another party, holiday or club, certainly not long term.

Be terrified of introducing you into our circle of vanilla friends.

So,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't think many would want to just fuck and go with you

but I'm getting the vibe more people are happy to build a relationship/friendship than just fuck and goes

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By *lean_CutMan
over a year ago

Rasen area

Friendship with benefits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made a few friends via the site that I'm realistically never going to have sex with. But I've also had a few off the cuff meets with one off folk that whilst I've enjoyed it I'm not going to have a repeat

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week. "

That sounds like alot of work

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week.

That sounds like alot of work

I was thinking that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Where’s this post code then…?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of good fucks making love in a lovely sexy friendship . Turning to relation would be spot on ^^

All - inclusive :

Breakfast

Self service all day

Supper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want as many relationships as I can manage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week.

That sounds like alot of work

I was thinking that.

U need see the beneficial side of it :

No diesel , no drinks , no meals , no condoms … saves u a lot . Is a big benefit .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a solid friendship and dates please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give me a solid friendship and dates please.

Wassup. Take me out to dinner

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By *ighty DuckMan
over a year ago

andover

Long term and friendship

Let’s learn how to push each other’s buttons the right way please.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Give me a solid friendship and dates please.

Ah I want this. Not had a date in years!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Either works for me

But my best meets have turned into friendships. Sometimes we meet for drinks & takeaway, walk the dogs & even helped out when they moved house haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social first for me to see if there is chemistry

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week. "

Yeah... what's your point?

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I'm intrigued to know what's more popular on this site fuck and go or long term "

Prefer longer term but it's getting unlikely

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By *indandfireCouple
over a year ago

ashbourne

Definitely fuck and go. Could get seriously messy otherwise. Always a risk of complications

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By *andi19Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

Friends with benefits are the best

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Driving around in Circles here…!

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By *manda mayTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ross

Relationship once you get to know each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term/fwb.

I can’t stress enough how little interest I have in one night stands.

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

Depends , I think friendship relationship is the main goal for most . Sex is always better with a connection . There is however a need for the fuck and go be it a fantasy or just to get it out you system .

I would think people men in particular would take what they can get

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Depends , I think friendship relationship is the main goal for most . Sex is always better with a connection . There is however a need for the fuck and go be it a fantasy or just to get it out you system .

I would think people men in particular would take what they can get "

Why’s that then ??

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

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Bloody hell fat fingers I deleted reply

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Most of my meets turn into a friendship and sex

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Long-term friends with benefits hopefully

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By *ostAirmenMan
over a year ago

crewe

I would think people men in particular would take what they can get

Why’s that then ??

Men generally don’t need a connection to have sex . Speaking from experience even with no connection mentally or physically I could still have sex .

The connection that leads to friendship / relationship keep you long back

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We don't want one-offs. They sound exhausting. We find it much more enjoyable getting to know people in the long term and sometimes having butt-naked sex together.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

"Most of my meets turn into a friendship and sex"

Yep I beleve you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not quite fuck and go but fuck, quick chat, few drinks and go. Maybe meet again at another party, holiday or club, certainly not long term.

Be terrified of introducing you into our circle of vanilla friends.

So, "

I get this ! Time a place for everything!!

and the cross over does not work

Ideal and reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give me a solid friendship and dates please.

Don’t need say please … is my pleasure x x

Loads of sweet love and sexy friendship

“ … solid ….. solid like a rock … …”

Love your hips x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long term/fwb.

I can’t stress enough how little interest I have in one night stands. "

If u repeat the same night on a loop like Dr Who did locked in that tower inside a pocket clock …

Is not such a bad thought ^^ . Trying different positions …. Back to yesterday everyday ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Long term/fwb.

I can’t stress enough how little interest I have in one night stands.

If u repeat the same night on a loop like Dr Who did locked in that tower inside a pocket clock …

Is not such a bad thought ^^ . Trying different positions …. Back to yesterday everyday ^^ "

Given how tragic that episode is, I’d suggest that’s a terrible analogy

I’d hate it more, having to repeat saying “no fuck off” every night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely friendship for us. We aren't looking for NSA. "

This is where I get confused. I favour fwb, but either party is free to walk away at any time, therefore NSA? I'm so confused...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site I’m not looking for any kind of relationship. Maybe a casual friendship would be ok, but it’s not something I’m actively seeking.

I’ve found in the past that people tend to get a little too attached if you meet too often, so I tend to keep my distance.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"I've found a lot of people who say they want a friend with benefits relationship think friendship is a few texts a week. "

I think that's a valid point.

What is a friend?

To us it's someone we trust, who know our personal business (up to a point

) know we can rely on each other for help and support, usually a friendship built over many years, happy to introduce them as a trustworthy, non gossiping, non drama queen type of friend.

Not just a work colleague or God forbid a Facebook friend.

So for us to answer candidly it would have to be happy for fuck and go and maybe extend to a multiple meet type of person but do love the excitement of meeting and getting naked with strangers.

So outside our normal life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of what the forums answers are, I perceive people still use this as a hook up site.

*just my opinion.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Definitely friendship for us. We aren't looking for NSA.

This is where I get confused. I favour fwb, but either party is free to walk away at any time, therefore NSA? I'm so confused..."

Friendships can and do end when one or both party's decide. NSA means there was no friendship in the first place.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Regardless of what the forums answers are, I perceive people still use this as a hook up site.

*just my opinion. "

It’s just casual hookups one off for me mostly. Odd occasion someone comes along you get on with more but it disappears quick enough generally I find .

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Never fuck and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term friendship/FWB and being honest if it was to progress to more that would be fine by me.

Having said that I have a couple of FWB scenarios where it will not progress beyond that for a variety of reasons and it suits both parties.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

A good fuck and go does it for me

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Couple of drinks, chat, fuck for a couple of hours. Then go.

I'm not looking for fwb, friends or relationships. If I do make a friend or two along the way, fine. The more I know someone, the less I want to have sex with them.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Has to be friendship and long term not really into the wham bang thank you ma'am

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By *lan4FFUUNNMan
over a year ago

Genoa Italy and Liverpool

More long term is better as you can develop how you play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long term/friendship

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Never the Fuck and go thing for me, if they can't be bothered to get to know me first , then nope,no, no thanks

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Fuck n go for me everytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I have read quite few profiles, and I have not seen a single person seeking for friendship only. I came across few gils looking for a proper relationship.

Let be honest with ourselves, this is a site for sex!!! But we are social being. Sex will always come first; no one will decline friendship with the right person.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"More of a friendship but I wouldn't really call it friends with benefits. It's just a thing isn't it? Hard to describe. Any way, yeah. Not into NSA at all."

Yup!same here...I don't see the point of it.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

For what I do trust and communication is essential, I love taking my time building that, and creating an intensely pleasurable experience for my playmate.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like both, friendship sex is amazing, but so is that locking eyes across the room with a stranger and the connection is intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both demisexual so friendship and connection always comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say both and nothing wrong with either.

All depends on the person

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick

I would love to find a relationship with another swinger. I know there are women on here looking for the same, so you never know. Hopefully we'll find each other and live dirtally ever after lol

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Fuck and go for us. We have each other for relationship.

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick

If any females are looking for the same, get in touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go. We’re not even interested in meeting the same person twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck and go if they aren’t good at fucking

#youknowwhoyouare

Friendship if they drive a Ford Fiesta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck and go. We’re not even interested in meeting the same person twice."

I don’t even meet them once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op has ‘gone and fucked off’

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Friendship’s and connections.

We’ve tried pushing ourselves to be a bit more fuck and go this last year but it’s just not us and hasn’t happened.

We recently spent a whole evening with 100+ naked gorgeous sexy people and didn’t instantly fancy any of them which really hit home how much we need to get to know people first.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"The op has ‘gone and fucked off’ "

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Hmmmm I've had both but they mainly turn into lasting connections of sorts.

Some become fb's others as just friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me greedy but I want something more long term with a friendship, so the old fwb, yes I want it all. Mwahhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to find a relationship with another swinger. I know there are women on here looking for the same, so you never know. Hopefully we'll find each other and live dirtally ever after lol"

I met a guy from another site looking for a relationship. After a few dates he tells me he’s into the lifestyle and is looking for a lover to share it with. What are the chances!? Was never any mention of it in either of our profiles. Not rushing it, but new couple profile on the way!

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