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impolite to block?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We seem to be getting some people interested and we have some lovely friends on our list we hope to meet, but a fair number of single fems are simply window shopping ( maybe they have such a wide choice ..they can..) even after telling us they'd like to meet at some point, follow up emails to make arrangements are being deleted.

So we are starting to use the block option....justified? or not?...thoughts please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Justified so you don't get troubled by them again. We get messaged time & time again by the same guys so now block them to save our time x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"We seem to be getting some people interested and we have some lovely friends on our list we hope to meet, but a fair number of single fems are simply window shopping ( maybe they have such a wide choice ..they can..) even after telling us they'd like to meet at some point, follow up emails to make arrangements are being deleted.

So we are starting to use the block option....justified? or not?...thoughts please x"
The block function is there to be used....use it as you choose to.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We seem to be getting some people interested and we have some lovely friends on our list we hope to meet, but a fair number of single fems are simply window shopping ( maybe they have such a wide choice ..they can..) even after telling us they'd like to meet at some point, follow up emails to make arrangements are being deleted.

So we are starting to use the block option....justified? or not?...thoughts please xThe block function is there to be used....use it as you choose to."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If you feel it's justified then it probably is. Some people are more liberal in their use if the block button than others

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I personally dont like to block anybody really - and I only block when I have a really good reason so consequently I dont have a long block list.

But I do empathise with getting a bit overwhelmed and I d say if you feel it is the right thing to do.. then do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block.

and i always think it is sad when i have too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the block button for those who can't read or are rude

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

where is that option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think i have blocked most of the people on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We seem to be getting some people interested and we have some lovely friends on our list we hope to meet, but a fair number of single fems are simply window shopping ( maybe they have such a wide choice ..they can..) even after telling us they'd like to meet at some point, follow up emails to make arrangements are being deleted.

So we are starting to use the block option....justified? or not?...thoughts please xThe block function is there to be used....use it as you choose to."

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's not impolite to block. It's not impolite to ignore or delete messages. It's a website, not a chat in a pub.

Some people get too touchy about the whole thing but that's their problem.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If I am understanding your post correctly. You are suggesting blocking them because they haven't replied to your mail and deleted it ? If this suits you then do it. However, I'm not sure what this will achieve, if they don't want to contact you anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care, won't care, I block at will if I have no intention of knowing the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I am understanding your post correctly. You are suggesting blocking them because they haven't replied to your mail and deleted it ? If this suits you then do it. However, I'm not sure what this will achieve, if they don't want to contact you anyway !"

its the leading up the garden path that is annoying...blocking won't achieve anything but prevent further contact from that person(s)...I think we just wanted to see what others thought...thanks to everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who, from their profile, I am clearly not what they are looking for.Saves me time accidentally reading their profile again in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block wayyy too many. If i decline and they email again (a new hi message) then i delete and block.

If Im really not interested I block. If they are attached I block. If they are over aggressive in messages I block.

I used to feel guilty, not anymore, it's just another feature of the site

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We seem to be getting some people interested and we have some lovely friends on our list we hope to meet, but a fair number of single fems are simply window shopping ( maybe they have such a wide choice ..they can..) even after telling us they'd like to meet at some point, follow up emails to make arrangements are being deleted.

So we are starting to use the block option....justified? or not?...thoughts please x"

If it says it's a single bi fem and it looks like a single bi fem and reads like a single bi fem - chances are it's a single bloke .......

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