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By *r Sprout OP   Man
over a year ago

the middle

Do you set your location differently to where you actually are?

If so why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’m proud that I live in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

West Lothian is mostly made out off small villages and small town and then a big town

It I put the exact place wouldn’t be hard for people to work out who I am

So I have it set to West Lothian witch gives a general idear off whare I am

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I put it to the county purely because I don't meet in my local area

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. It’s Brighton.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Mine is about a minutes walk from where I actually live

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

More or less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most definitely... It gives me an increass sense of security /safety

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Nope. It’s Brighton. "

His proper name is Harold from Hove ^

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Nope. It’s Brighton.

His proper name is Harold from Hove ^ "

‘Not as big as Big Harold Harold from Hove

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Gravesend is a large sprawling seething metropolis...a bit like Brighton...only better lol

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I’ve gone for the nearest city to make it more anonymous, where I live is too small!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DM for full address

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Nope. Wolverhampton seems big enough to give us enough anonymity. But I wouldn't put a more specific location like area or postcode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm going to be in Edinburgh then I will set my location to there before I go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm going to be in Edinburgh then I will set my location to there before I go"

I do that too if I'm visiting somewhere for work /holiday

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"If I'm going to be in Edinburgh then I will set my location to there before I go"

You're coming my way?

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Around the Midlands is pretty accurate

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

Mines pretty close - I do change it accordingly when moving around the country with work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change mine to wherever i might be staying or going to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My postcode area is relatively large so I put the correct prefix in, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Mine is a long way from where I live. I just want to have privacy.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Because in the past men have threatened to 'out me' in public next time they saw me in town because they 'know who I am'. If they start spouting places they think they have seen me (in my displayed location), usually a named pub, I know they are bluffing.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes, I do. Don’t want people knowing where I live.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes, I do. Don’t want people knowing where I live. "

And I change it quite a bit as I’m within an hour of 5 counties. And London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because i want to be where i want to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because in the past men have threatened to 'out me' in public next time they saw me in town because they 'know who I am'. If they start spouting places they think they have seen me (in my displayed location), usually a named pub, I know they are bluffing."

When i joined i had men telling me they'd seen me in bars - i bluffed to get the name and realised they were takking bollocks, but it made me uber safety conscious

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Because in the past men have threatened to 'out me' in public next time they saw me in town because they 'know who I am'. If they start spouting places they think they have seen me (in my displayed location), usually a named pub, I know they are bluffing.

When i joined i had men telling me they'd seen me in bars - i bluffed to get the name and realised they were takking bollocks, but it made me uber safety conscious "

It's a learning curve isn't it

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I made up the place name, purely for self-preservation reasons. Like so many women in this thread.

Surprisingly, I still get asked where Fabville actually is...

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I use the nearest town location beginning with B, wherever I am even when travelling for work

If you're a site supporter you see roughly how near folk are anyway?? Then it's just obvious they don't know / can't be bothered to change their location to match??

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

We're in Ryde on the Isle of Wight, and set the location as such. The island is infamously a place where everyone knows everybody else's business, even if you don't know 'em!

We hit "fuck it" point a couple of years ago, and decided that as we don't have kids, we might as well have some fine, in spite of the nosey nature of the populous.

No torch-wielding, Frankenstein-villagers type situation as of yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely in North Yorkshire, at least I was last time I checked. Anyone who truly wants to meet me has to prove their dedication by searching all 3480 sq miles in order to find me. I advise them to take snacks for the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm definitely in North Yorkshire, at least I was last time I checked. Anyone who truly wants to meet me has to prove their dedication by searching all 3480 sq miles in order to find me. I advise them to take snacks for the journey. "

I’m on mile 43, running out of snacks… send help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm definitely in North Yorkshire, at least I was last time I checked. Anyone who truly wants to meet me has to prove their dedication by searching all 3480 sq miles in order to find me. I advise them to take snacks for the journey.

I’m on mile 43, running out of snacks… send help!! "

Foraging skills are also a necessity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I do change it when I travel

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By *r Sprout OP   Man
over a year ago

the middle


"I'm definitely in North Yorkshire, at least I was last time I checked. Anyone who truly wants to meet me has to prove their dedication by searching all 3480 sq miles in order to find me. I advise them to take snacks for the journey. "

I must have been special then if you traveled all that way just to meet me then. Yes I know it was a group social but still…..

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I actually live in Belgravia but have gone somewhat 'down-market' and stated "Covent Garden" in my profile.

I try feverishly hard to dispel any notion of living ostentatiously.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I do indeed. I like to keep things suitably vague

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you set your location differently to where you actually are?

If so why? "

My location is where I meet, not where I live, it works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know where I am…

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd look silly if I put down Extinct Volcano Secret Lair. 3 doors down from the Miners' Welfare. Hence North Notts has to do

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Nope I live in Aberdeen….should I be setting it different

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By *r Sprout OP   Man
over a year ago

the middle


"Nope I live in Aberdeen….should I be setting it different "

The middle somewhere would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd look silly if I put down Extinct Volcano Secret Lair. 3 doors down from the Miners' Welfare. Hence North Notts has to do "

...rushes off to change location to secret lair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you mean like the outer rim its a big place

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope I live in Aberdeen….should I be setting it different

The middle somewhere would be nice "

Hmm are there cheeky gentleman with a penchant for giving massages and snuggles in the middle somewhere?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am not in Glasgow I am in Lanarkshire 10miles away. Thought it wiser to do this as the town I am in is small and my children live there.

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By *r Sprout OP   Man
over a year ago

the middle


"Nope I live in Aberdeen….should I be setting it different

The middle somewhere would be nice

Hmm are there cheeky gentleman with a penchant for giving massages and snuggles in the middle somewhere? "

There might be . I can help you find them

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

No I always set mine to where I actually live, although it’s just a small village in Cheshire no one has ever head of so maybe I should change it to my nearest city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes one to get more fab likes but also for safety reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if I’m trying to fuck.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'd look silly if I put down Extinct Volcano Secret Lair. 3 doors down from the Miners' Welfare. Hence North Notts has to do

...rushes off to change location to secret lair! "

You now need to recruit your own hence people, as I'm not sharing mine. They're busy repairing the monorail after we tried to use it as a hostess trolley to bring the desserts through last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Cause my interest in regular - open to more

So I try closest to my area as possible , even I would be away .

Wouldnt mind a weekend away tho .

Haven’t been anywhere since 2018 .

Plan was big 40 in Phuket

Maybe next April I do a Big 40+ 3 .

Is new year in Thailand , 13-15 April

Big battle of water guns in streets . Elephants watering people ..

Google is , is very intresting ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd look silly if I put down Extinct Volcano Secret Lair. 3 doors down from the Miners' Welfare. Hence North Notts has to do

...rushes off to change location to secret lair!

You now need to recruit your own hence people, as I'm not sharing mine. They're busy repairing the monorail after we tried to use it as a hostess trolley to bring the desserts through last night "

Working on getting my crew

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Yes, I do. Don’t want people knowing where I live. "

Same here!! Plus there seems to be a good pick of single men in the location we chose….

I do change it sometimes for fun though

J x

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

A few postcodes away as it's only a small place I live and prefer to keep this life away from my doorstep

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am all over the world.

Never change my settings unless I am in New York, apart from that, I let my GPS do the work for me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'd look silly if I put down Extinct Volcano Secret Lair. 3 doors down from the Miners' Welfare. Hence North Notts has to do

...rushes off to change location to secret lair!

You now need to recruit your own hence people, as I'm not sharing mine. They're busy repairing the monorail after we tried to use it as a hostess trolley to bring the desserts through last night

Working on getting my crew "

Aaaaargh! Just realised that I typed hence instead of hench

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Yes but you know, who wants to meet in Belgium

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, always have it set to a different location. I'm not looking to meet at the moment and don't want anyone to find me.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m in the Midlands (the real Midlands not the FAB equivalent of the Midlands) so putting my location as “the middle” is correct

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