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Telling Yr inner thoughts to Yr partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you are finally feeling brave enough to tell your partner something that most people would keep to themselves.

Has it been cathartic, reinforcing the trust between you?

OR

Has it backfired and been a complete pain ever since?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

A big pain ..then got divorced ..so cathartic in the long run

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 person in my life iv trusted with only truths and inside thoughts il never allow anyone else be that close to know how my brain works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told one person something i was afraid to even acknowledge to myself - it went pretty well and i haven't regretted it. I don't know that I'll ever repeat it tho.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"A big pain ..then got divorced ..so cathartic in the long run "

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She found out you had more handbags than her? I like it. I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been a big pain but not something I’d tell her again if I had the choice

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Well... I don't really open up easily. So if I'm going to, then I won't regret it because I felt comfortable enough to and trusted a person. And that's a lovely thing. Regardless of if you don't get the response you'd like.

But it's really, really rare for me to tell someone something like that. The few times I have it's been taken positively, so that might have caused a bias.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell the dog everything and it always helps.

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

I keep my thoughts to myself..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr NBVN knows all of my inner thoughts and is the only person I trusted enough to open up to. It didn't backfire thankfully, he opened up to me in return and it most certainly strengthened our bond.

NBVN x

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Always backfired when I approach the Ivana subject. Instant brake up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are finally feeling brave enough to tell your partner something that most people would keep to themselves.

Has it been cathartic, reinforcing the trust between you?

OR

Has it backfired and been a complete pain ever since?"

Only when there is complete trust , honesty and integrity, till then the answer is no.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

When I first met my husband 29 years I think I told him I was bisexual after about a month of knowing him .We’ve always been open and honest about everything.

I couldn’t imagine not being able to have open and honest conversations with the one person you love and trust most in the world.

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