FabSwingers.com forum: Is it fair?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

That's not true though

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Oh sos........ Is this a lookameeee thread....

shit i've ballsed it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP what has happened that has brought you to this conclusion?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Acceptable by who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love uranus

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By *ingeandTCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Cos lots of men like having sex with married women, it's a popular 'naughty' kink

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Cos lots of men like having sex with married women, it's a popular 'naughty' kink"

Exactly and many men wouldn't limit their chance of sex by slating a married woman in a public forum.

I think both are as bad as each other tbh.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Its just for the most part the way things are viewed by the masses. 9 times out of 10 a man will be demonised for cheating while a woman will either be simped for, or rallied around with excuses and attempts at rationale as to why she did it (her husband gave her a reason to etc).

However you will find it is also challenged just as much as allowed. Nobody is above judgement and judged they are.

also you will find men ignore red flags more often (not all men) and will overlook the wrong doings of women.

So it's not accepted in general, but it is most certainly tilted to be in favour of women. Just like how men can sleep around no question, but women are demonised fit it. That lifestyle is favoured toward men in society (by most)

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

It's no more acceptable for women to admit it than men, it's just less men are bothered if the person they fuck are married than women are.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Starts putting out chairs and arranging a buffet.

Who wants to make themselves comfy?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because most of the married women don’t advertise it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Life isn't fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Interesting question. I'm married and my husband doesn't know that I fuck around behind his back.

He is shit at sex so I have to get it from hot sexy fuckable men. They treat me right and fuck me good. I'm so lucky.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Men tend to say they’re married in the forums. A lot of ladies keep schtum.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Starts putting out chairs and arranging a buffet.

Who wants to make themselves comfy?

Just hurry up with the buffet

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

As kids.......... if anyone said , 'it's not fair, the answer you'd get is ...... Neither is a monkey's bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Cause man just don’t care how much they hurt the other poor guy . And they fuck your wife in your face and spit at you .

Most of ladies respect the the other woman as they recognise the pain .

Some little number of others ( like in 2000 ) they only chase you if u busy.

They don’t want to fuck you , they want to fuck her ….. life .

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

There are a number of sides to that conundrum. Some women on their profiles say they do it with husbands permission. (That's up to the individual to check ). Those that do it without, (ie cheating ) I've seen many a lady criticise in the forums. So I'm not sure why you think ladies cheating is supported by a majority ?

T o address another point mentioned that men shagging married women is a kink , ( maybe)

But ive known a few bad boys in my time who played that way and it was because if they scored they got a pat on the back for stealing someone's Mrs but if they crashed and burned they had a good excuse.

Pure cheating is wrong whoever's doing it.

However, life has taught me not to judge less ye be judged.

People are here for all sorts of reasons and it's not for us to dictate what's right and wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because life’s anything but fair...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just look for like minded people and avoid those who don’t agree. For me, I’m single and only want to meet other singles as I don’t want to have to be restricted on when I can message them, restrictions on when to meet and worry about being caught by their other half and being put through a potential hate campaign, don’t want any drama and I’d just feel better not being involved in potentially being part of hurting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we are in the its not fair malarkey, male suicide is way higher then females, violent acts committed against females is way higher than males, men’s wages are higher for the same job than females, all of this is massively unfair and does need addressing, none of these balance anything out, different races have been suppressed for centuries, no one person can sort this, no one movement can either, we just have to live in this shit show soup and hope collectively we can come out of it better and our kids do the same, yeah it’s not fair, so change it, you can’t, everything is too massive, but you can change you, and when you change you for the better, people around you change for the better too, im not saying you are wrong in your assessment, im saying that’s a broad brush to be tarring everyone’s situation with, everything is nuanced and not to be pigeon holed.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Both are morally corrupt, but men will never have an issue with it as any holes a goal.

The hypocrisy is more amongst fellow women who will be more open to the 'aww u ok hun, life must be hard at home' justification, but will allow no such justification to men

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?"

Come on, you don’t actually believe that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

Both are morally corrupt, but men will never have an issue with it as any holes a goal.

The hypocrisy is more amongst fellow women who will be more open to the 'aww u ok hun, life must be hard at home' justification, but will allow no such justification to men"

Not all women. I’ve never had an issue with married men on here. I find them less hassle to be honest. In my experience anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

Come on, you don’t actually believe that

I actually do! Especially on here, a site where many men (not all) will say or do anything to get sex!

You see it time and time again where men won’t even give an opinion that could mean they get less chance of sex. For many men on here it’s even some kind of kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro."

This should be a thread.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

Come on, you don’t actually believe that

I actually do! Especially on here, a site where many men (not all) will say or do anything to get sex!

You see it time and time again where men won’t even give an opinion that could mean they get less chance of sex. For many men on here it’s even some kind of kink. "

You only see it cause there’s a lot more men than women on here. % wise I’d wager a large amount of money it’s evenly spread.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro."

Not really, socks are of soft material and stretch easily. Ive never heard anyone complain of what youre saying. Almost like youre making something up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP what has happened that has brought you to this conclusion? "

Very often you come across a ladies profile that demonise men in a relationship..then the next one is talking about been married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

Come on, you don’t actually believe that

I actually do! Especially on here, a site where many men (not all) will say or do anything to get sex!

You see it time and time again where men won’t even give an opinion that could mean they get less chance of sex. For many men on here it’s even some kind of kink.

You only see it cause there’s a lot more men than women on here. % wise I’d wager a large amount of money it’s evenly spread. "

We’ll have to agree to disagree on this one!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

Not really, socks are of soft material and stretch easily. Ive never heard anyone complain of what youre saying. Almost like youre making something up"

I have this complaint too being size 9.5 , I don’t want vertical lines dug into my ankles or excess material , but I have to choose one - it’s just not fair. Same with boxers- large is too tight in a hot country but XL is often like wearing a dress

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?"

Fair point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cos lots of men like having sex with married women, it's a popular 'naughty' kink"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

Not really, socks are of soft material and stretch easily. Ive never heard anyone complain of what youre saying. Almost like youre making something up"

I'm a size 9 and I find this problem. Just because it doesn't happen to you doesn't mean it's made up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cos lots of men like having sex with married women, it's a popular 'naughty' kink

Exactly and many men wouldn't limit their chance of sex by slating a married woman in a public forum.

I think both are as bad as each other tbh."

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its just for the most part the way things are viewed by the masses. 9 times out of 10 a man will be demonised for cheating while a woman will either be simped for, or rallied around with excuses and attempts at rationale as to why she did it (her husband gave her a reason to etc).

However you will find it is also challenged just as much as allowed. Nobody is above judgement and judged they are.

also you will find men ignore red flags more often (not all men) and will overlook the wrong doings of women.

Thank you, you expanded very well what I wanted to say in 2 sentences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women rarely stick their heads above the parapet here and announce they're cheating. When they do they get an easier ride though.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

What is this fairness you are looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

Not really, socks are of soft material and stretch easily. Ive never heard anyone complain of what youre saying. Almost like youre making something up

I'm a size 9 and I find this problem. Just because it doesn't happen to you doesn't mean it's made up."

And don’t even get me stated in size 33 jeans, which you can get on occasion at least….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"While we are in the its not fair malarkey, male suicide is way higher then females, violent acts committed against females is way higher than males, men’s wages are higher for the same job than females, all of this is massively unfair and does need addressing, none of these balance anything

out, different races have been suppressed for centuries, no one person can sort this, no one movement can either, we just have to live in this shit show soup and hope collectively we can come out of it better and our kids do the same, yeah it’s not fair, so change it, you can’t, everything is too massive, but you can change you, and when you change you for the better, people around you change for the better too, im not saying you are wrong in your assessment, im saying that’s a broad brush to be tarring everyone’s situation with, everything is nuanced and not to be pigeon holed."

But we need to start somewhere or with something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

You need to read more...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro."

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"While we are in the its not fair malarkey, male suicide is way higher then females, violent acts committed against females is way higher than males"

Whats your source for this? Over here , on average, 82% of homicide victims are men and 60% of assault victims are men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While we are in the its not fair malarkey, male suicide is way higher then females, violent acts committed against females is way higher than males

Whats your source for this? Over here , on average, 82% of homicide victims are men and 60% of assault victims are men"

Correct they should have said sexual violent crimes!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?"

So who are all the cheating men cheating with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

So who are all the cheating men cheating with?"

Judging by the forums a lot of the wanna be cheating men aren’t getting the opportunity to cheat! Lol!

And a lot aren’t open about the fact they’re cheating!

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

So who are all the cheating men cheating with?"

TVs and TS id say, a lot of the time. In here anyway

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

So who are all the cheating men cheating with?"

Other cheating men?

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

So who are all the cheating men cheating with?

TVs and TS id say, a lot of the time. In here anyway"

Sounds true

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

Not really, socks are of soft material and stretch easily. Ive never heard anyone complain of what youre saying. Almost like youre making something up

Go for the dress!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because more women care about not being a party to cheating than men?

Come on, you don’t actually believe that

I actually do! Especially on here, a site where many men (not all) will say or do anything to get sex!

You see it time and time again where men won’t even give an opinion that could mean they get less chance of sex. For many men on here it’s even some kind of kink. "

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

So are you married but choose not to say so on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read the replies so sure this has been said, but the key reason is because most of the married ladies don’t keep making a fuss of it in public and on the forums and keep it under the radar until they’re ready to meet or engage in meaningful conversation.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I have honestly not seen one married woman on fab! I don't understand where this idea comes from, unless you're looking for them specifically?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

You need to read more... "

The post is about the majority. We are not talking about 100% value, or the whole cohort.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Starts putting out chairs and arranging a buffet.

Who wants to make themselves comfy?

Me me me! Love a good buffet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

So are you married but choose not to say so on your profile"

What can say, look like you have a crystal ball...

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

It's all down to individual choice at the end of the day.

What happens on fab stays on fab. Discretion rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cos lots of men like having sex with married women, it's a popular 'naughty' kink

Exactly and many men wouldn't limit their chance of sex by slating a married woman in a public forum.

I think both are as bad as each other tbh."

totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As kids.......... if anyone said , 'it's not fair, the answer you'd get is ...... Neither is a monkey's bum.

thats not the answer I Unused to get - but It so not PC and I cant repeat it!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think people generally view behaviour in the same way here, irrespective of gender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

Interesting question. I'm married and my husband doesn't know that I fuck around behind his back.

He is shit at sex so I have to get it from hot sexy fuckable men. They treat me right and fuck me good. I'm so lucky.

No hate. Wow.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Life's not fair.

True story.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???

Interesting question. I'm married and my husband doesn't know that I fuck around behind his back.

He is shit at sex so I have to get it from hot sexy fuckable men. They treat me right and fuck me good. I'm so lucky.

No hate. Wow."

Of course. Youre a woman. So the shameful behaviour is accepted in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No double standard from me. I dislike all cheaters. Talk to your partners ffs.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"The average show size for me in the UK is a 9, and yet socks come in size 6-9 or 9-12, punishing us average guys with socks that are too tight or too loose. How is that fair? Life’s hard bro.

This should be a thread.

Tugging on life's thread of unfairness

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Oh crumbs!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Why is it acceptable for married women to come and openly say that they are married, And yet married men who are here with single profile are shamed and called cheaters???"

Why you painting everyone with the same brush?

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Maybe your husband just isnt attracted to you..he should get out there and find some 'fun' just like you.

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Maybe your husband just isnt attracted to you..he should get out there and find some 'fun' just like you."

Who are you addressing there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starts putting out chairs and arranging a buffet.

Who wants to make themselves comfy?

Just hurry up with the buffet "

Can we have prawn vol-u-Vants please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe your husband just isnt attracted to you..he should get out there and find some 'fun' just like you."

Who?

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