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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What are your main criteria for adding people to your hotlist ? And do they ever change?

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

When ALL their pictures are a turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do i think your hot

Do i think i know you from my past

Am i nosey enough to give a toss

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Sexy pics, muscles, tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I have or plan to fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good /interesting photos, regular posters

.. Or 'keeping my eye on them, for a multitude of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is pretty much my "to message" list.

If I see someone I like but want to think about a sensible message, or don't have time then and there I add them to the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i were right in the head and had the free time i used to would i plan to boink you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo and profiles that engage my mind and have it craving to know more about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is pretty much my "to message" list.

If I see someone I like but want to think about a sensible message, or don't have time then and there I add them to the list. "

Same, people I want to get in touch with, or maybe are on the fence about doing so and am waiting for them to add a new pic or update a profile - essentially it's not a hotlist, it's a pre-checkout shopping basket for messaging...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Good photos for us.

Mrs

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By *azzolatinoMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"My hotlist is pretty much my "to message" list.

If I see someone I like but want to think about a sensible message, or don't have time then and there I add them to the list.

Same, people I want to get in touch with, or maybe are on the fence about doing so and am waiting for them to add a new pic or update a profile - essentially it's not a hotlist, it's a pre-checkout shopping basket for messaging..."

Ditto this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just appreciate a nice sexy profile. So if we think it's "Hot" they go on our "Hotlist"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my hotlist occasionally when there is someone who really catches my eye and would like to, or have reached out to and started chatting with (especially if they aren’t especially local)

This is a category that some lovely ladies on this thread already fall into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely add people to it but it's usually if they catch my eye or we're pals but haven't done the friends request thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckin ell I forgot my profile pic was a close up nipple and that was horrifying

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

- When they're well fit but won't bang us, we just like looking at them.

- When they're well fit and we plan on banging each other.

- When they're well fit and we've banged each other but just haven't got around to sending a friend request just yet.

LvM

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into "

Shame I’m not on your list !

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Sexy pics, muscles, tattoos"

I’ve not got any tattoos unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally someone who has made a status that made me laugh, so I can look out for similar

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sexy pics, muscles, tattoos"

Damn, damn & damn.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

For whatever reason decide to at the time. I sometimes add a profile that has no pics if I like what I've read. Then I can see if they add any.

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"People I have or plan to fuck!"

That’s a good list to be on !

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Get our excitement levels up with their pics and profile and haven’t messaged them as either too busy to contemplate chatting to more or not free for a while so will message when quieter.

K

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me


"People I have or plan to fuck!"

I second this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !"

It’s a very small list lol

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon


"My hotlist is pretty much my "to message" list.

If I see someone I like but want to think about a sensible message, or don't have time then and there I add them to the list. "

This . If the pics look good and the profile matches ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually people I'm chatting to, or people that have messaged me asking to meet but then go quiet, I leave them there for a couple of weeks, then if no contact I take them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to be hot! And I usually put someone on there when I want to message them but don't have time.

I fully intend to convert my hot list to my friends list, but it doesn't always work that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol "

Small can be good, can’t it??

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol "

Quality over quantity! How do you get added? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!"

But do they know if your dastardly plan?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I have 5 on my hotlist 4 of them are people I've met more than a few times and one is an ex colleague that I just like to keep an eye on him other than that I don't add people really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

But do they know if your dastardly plan? "

Yes they all know lol I don’t make the first move usually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol

Quality over quantity! How do you get added? Lol"

By being someone I’d like to fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol

Small can be good, can’t it?? "

In some things yes I’m other things no

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By *ack 500Man
over a year ago

stafford

Got to be damn sexy

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol

Quality over quantity! How do you get added? Lol

By being someone I’d like to fuck lol "

I fear that excludes me from inclusion !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is pretty much my "to message" list.

If I see someone I like but want to think about a sensible message, or don't have time then and there I add them to the list. "

Same for us really.

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By *exy25singleWoman
over a year ago

manchester

People i find hot! And who id love to meet with some day

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

(Afternoon, you gorgeous bunch! New chap here, hoping you are all having the most splendid afternoon.)

For me, it's a combination of desirability and proximity: that is, someone I find really attractive, balanced with how far away they are. Horny gravity decreases with the square of distance, or something like that.

A (very) few are there just because they make me smile, or gaze longingly, even if our needs/criteria/location in spacetime are all wildly at odds.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"(Afternoon, you gorgeous bunch! New chap here, hoping you are all having the most splendid afternoon.)

For me, it's a combination of desirability and proximity: that is, someone I find really attractive, balanced with how far away they are. Horny gravity decreases with the square of distance, or something like that.

A (very) few are there just because they make me smile, or gaze longingly, even if our needs/criteria/location in spacetime are all wildly at odds."

Welcome to the forums x

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Some on mine are men I like the pics and profile of but live too far away, or they are so good looking I'd never dream of msging them, most of my hotlist is made up of people who put up angry ranty status updates, I love a ranty status update!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some on mine are men I like the pics and profile of but live too far away, or they are so good looking I'd never dream of msging them, most of my hotlist is made up of people who put up angry ranty status updates, I love a ranty status update! "

Honestly Scarlette, I don't bite

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"People I have or plan to fuck!"
exactly this, hence you being on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I'd like to fuck and plan on messaging at some point...

Clubs for updates

Profiles that steal my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!

That’s a good list to be on !

It’s a very small list lol

Quality over quantity! How do you get added? Lol

By being someone I’d like to fuck lol

I fear that excludes me from inclusion !"

My profile answers that question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!exactly this, hence you being on ours. "

Was just wondering if anyone had been added from this discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People I have or plan to fuck!exactly this, hence you being on ours. "

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"People i find hot! And who id love to meet with some day "

Add me to yours please!! I’ve added you x

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford


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Welcome to the forums x"

Awww...thank you! I do feel welcomed. X

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Men, women or couples who may be compatible with us after chatting get added so if we get free time we can contact them, also it's a bit of a wishlist as some are clearly out of our league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting forumite..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into "

Have you sharpened them recently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a hat list now

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Men, women or couples who may be compatible with us after chatting get added so if we get free time we can contact them, also it's a bit of a wishlist as some are clearly out of our league."
we've loads on ours we think are out of our league, nice to look at when you have a quiet moment tho. ??

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

All this 'out of our league' stuff from beautiful women and couples...spare a thought for those of us playing in the Isthmian (Strictly Amateur) 3rd Division.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into

Have you sharpened them recently? "

I did this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy minges

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into

Have you sharpened them recently?

I did this morning "

Be gentle with me then.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

My stalking list has ...ooops i mean hotlist has those (in an ideal world) id love to meet .

As they are very hot looking it will probably never happen ..but a man can dream

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Photo’s and those I intend on getting my claws into

Have you sharpened them recently?

I did this morning "

Who was the lucky recipient? Lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

If I like to look at them then I will pop them on the list

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If I like to look at them then I will pop them on the list "

Have I made it onto yours ?

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"My stalking list has ...ooops i mean hotlist has those (in an ideal world) id love to meet .

As they are very hot looking it will probably never happen ..but a man can dream "

It’s good to have a dream

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Normally couples for me...my wife doesn't approve of this site so seeing couples who are into the lifestyle..its a turn on for me rightly or wrongly.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If I like to look at them then I will pop them on the list "

I'd prefer you to be on my friends list.

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham


"If I like to look at them then I will pop them on the list "
added

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"What are your main criteria for adding people to your hotlist ? And do they ever change? "

People I want to keep an eye on, typically those that give off strange vibes or red flags!

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Those that we can perv on as they are super hot

Those that we've met

Party/club profiles

Couple more added from this thread

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe


"What are your main criteria for adding people to your hotlist ? And do they ever change? "

People who’ve viewed us who we think mmmm they’re a bit of alright lol

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"[Hotlisted by poster at 21/09/22 14:16:48]"

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Me wanting to have sex with that person. My list currently stands at zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People I want have xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is all those I will never get to meet because they are all straight tens and I’m a solid four, I have messaged a couple and they have replied and been lovely to talk to as well, but mostly too far away as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to keep an eye out for new sexy pics

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

When they are sexy and I can't be bothered to message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those that we can perv on as they are super hot

Those that we've met

Party/club profiles

Couple more added from this thread "

I totally agree with this

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

None on mine. Criteria is simply if i fancy them. And there's a few i do. And if they make me laugh. A few more. So i need to add some!!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"People I have or plan to fuck!"

This

Makes it easier to find them if I wanna get in touch and it’s been a wee while

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I used it, it was people I liked to look at but had no intention of meeting, or clubs/socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good photos, that's the only criteria.

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"People I want have xx "

You are now on mine !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They intrigued me in some way. Pictures or something they said. I then follow them for ages until I conclude I don’t have the nerve to message direct.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

So I can find them easily if I want to message them

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

So I can find them easily if I want to wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They intrigued me in some way. Pictures or something they said. I then follow them for ages until I conclude I don’t have the nerve to message direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a tingle in my testicles looking at their pictures

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

As a couple we use the hotlist as a way of telling each another that we find that particular profile hot. I was at work the other day and the Mrs said check out the hotlist. She had put some hot profiles in the hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally it's: hot and local

There is also: hot and a forumite (the may social)

Maybe: consistent good pics.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Folk that spark an interest ...be it pics for perving, Forum comments, or status updates ...so it's a mixed bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To perv on sexy guys from afar x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To perv on sexy guys from afar x "
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Exactly me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like their photos and videos,

If their profile interests me!

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Our hotlist is purely about sexual attraction, our friends list is primarily comprised of guys we like chatting to.

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