FabSwingers.com forum: Ninja mode

By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

For the people/couples who choose not to show when you've viewed profiles, what is/was the reason... no reason other than I'm curious. I'll have images or videos fabbed but more often than not they don't show on who's viewed. What's the benefit of remaining... in the shadows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shout out to the peeping Jane/Tom of fab because I can't see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

This ^^^^^^.

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal? "

Comosring dick length

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

So I can check out folks incognito then if I think I might fit I'll make contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judo chop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

Yes this! Anyway its stealth mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The possibility (probability?) of perving a hater and getting abuse for looking isn’t worth the hassle.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

This

I rarely fab pics even, usually just those of people who are speedy friends

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Because I like the free Shurikans I received when I selected it. They come in very useful for unsettling people at darts matches. When I'm in the audience.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

Absolutely

"But why did you look if you don't want to fuck me?"

I have fat fingers. I fumbled my phone. Thanks for swearing at me, though.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We turned to ninja mode after people messaging just because we'd viewed them, just saves time on that side of things

Mrs

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort?

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal? "

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort? "

Yup.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

If you view repeatedly quick enough it doesn't register them all... just saying

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

If you view repeatedly quick enough it doesn't register them all... just saying

Noted! Will be more efficient with my perving in future

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By *humper. OP Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort?

Yup."

'cos thats gonna help entice you

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort?

Yup.

'cos thats gonna help entice you

I don't think they think that through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

Oh yeah .. The amount of times i do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer polite private perving. Especially of men I'm never ever likely to meet because they're far too gorgeous.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to fist em in the ninja star

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

You don't get stupid messages saying things like "don't be shy" or "I hope you liked what you saw"... If I haven't messaged, I was just seeing if I wanted to and I didn't... Not sure how you can mistake a look as definite interest but many do... So ninja mode it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal? "

If someone makes me laugh, or think, on the forum, I’ll often check them out as it broadens the picture for that profile. It doesn’t mean I want to meet, fancy their profile pic, or want anything more than to see a bit more about the person. I flip between ninja and normal. I have a frequent profile visitor who I fancy the look of for whom I’m a year out of their age range, and I can’t message. I make sure I’m visible for them when I visit their profile each time they visit mine, on the off chance they get the message.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort? "

Yep even outright abusive/threats to personal safety

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

So that I can look at people without them knowing I have.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Purely not to draw unwanted attention to myself

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Because I'm shy.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Because I'm shy.

Oh CG ... such bare faced lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not read the replies, though I imagine this to have already been mentioned ......

Because, we want to avoid the extra incoming messages, before we hid we would receive many messages from profiles we've peeped at stating they've seen we have looked, then asking if we've seen anything we like.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

Oh yeah .. The amount of times i do this

Exactly, the fact I can finish that many times in 20 mins should be seen as a compliment. But no, apparently it's "creepy" and "not what normal men do"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Because I'm shy.

Oh CG ... such bare faced lies

Shhh you.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort? "

Oh yes they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

I'd much rather break that chain

I have no idea and I don't care why people look at any profile, including mine

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So that I can revisit profiles with pictures I admire, without freaking them out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

No! their profile

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

We use it because we’re all little ninjas who love to perv

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

No! their profile

Ahhh I see. Your point, not their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

No! their profile

Ie, you might say to me, why did Swing look at my profile - like how the hell should i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

This

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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

"You don't get stupid messages saying things like "don't be shy" or "I hope you liked what you saw"... If I haven't messaged, I was just seeing if I wanted to and I didn't... Not sure how you can mistake a look as definite interest but many do... So ninja mode it is

This exactly. If we looked at ten profiles we would probably get five or six messages back saying similar things. Just saves the hassle.

On a side note in the 12 years on here we have never had a nasty or rude response to a 'no thank you ' reply. Most fellas if they acknowledge it just say thanks for letting me know.

It's a shame a few spoil it for the many.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

No! their profile

Ie, you might say to me, why did Swing look at my profile - like how the hell should i know

Exactly. Ask Swing and leave me out of it

(Hang on...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Because I can. I don't scroll through profiles and don't fab random pics so it's often as much about avoidance as it is admiration and ninja mode is another filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because guys take it as interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks' "

Yes that’s our reasoning too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort? "

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m nosey and don’t want loads of messages asking if we liked what we saw or something similar.

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey

Mines hidden purely so the people I fancy/lust after can’t see how many times I perv… I mean admire their pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also i get messages from friends to say why has 'xx' looked at my profile.. Err I'll just use the force to figure it out

How do they know who's looked at your profile?

No! their profile

Ie, you might say to me, why did Swing look at my profile - like how the hell should i know

Exactly. Ask Swing and leave me out of it

(Hang on...

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

"do people really get offensive/aggressive when you decline their effort? "

Yes I've been called all sorts when I've replied no thanks, so ninja mode activated and I can have a nosey or perv without guys saying 'you looked are you interested?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^ what they all said above.

Even I’ve had the “thanks for looking” emails in the past and I’m a fat middle aged bloke.

And also because there’s only SO many times you can view a hottie before it starts to become sinister ..

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. So I can look at profiles without them messaging me if I do happen to look and getting annoyed if they aren’t for me.

2. Stalk people I like without looking like a stalker

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at? "

...now there's a novel idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at?

...now there's a novel idea

Are you insane

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m a nosey cow and I don’t want people to know I’ve looked at them. I also don’t want messages just coz I had a nose as I have a nose for all different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a nosey cow and I don’t want people to know I’ve looked at them. I also don’t want messages just coz I had a nose as I have a nose for all different reasons

I have told you, I don't mind!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m a nosey cow and I don’t want people to know I’ve looked at them. I also don’t want messages just coz I had a nose as I have a nose for all different reasons

I have told you, I don't mind!

. Good to see you back again! X

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at?

...now there's a novel idea

Are you insane

It's this place ...it does that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at? "

Filters ..

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Well if we flip this, if you repeatedly perv and the person doesn't know you are ...how are they to know you might actually fancy them just a weaney bit to say hello???

By actually messaging the person youre looking at?

Filters ..

...who doesn't love a good filtering

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I've un ninja'd myself...if they choose to block me that's their non lookout

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I’m a nosey cow and I don’t want people to know I’ve looked at them. I also don’t want messages just coz I had a nose as I have a nose for all different reasons

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looked at ..and fabbed..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m a nosey cow and I don’t want people to know I’ve looked at them. I also don’t want messages just coz I had a nose as I have a nose for all different reasons

looked at ..and fabbed..

Thankyou

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Swindon (just visiting)

"So you don't get inundated with 'i saw you looking blah blah...' Followed by the hate when you say 'no thanks'

Yeah, that actually makes total sense, i hadnt thought of that. Thanks

Now, I get why women would, guys... what's your deal?

I don't want to get blocked for looking 5 times in the span of 20 mins

Oh yeah .. The amount of times i do this

Exactly, the fact I can finish that many times in 20 mins should be seen as a compliment. But no, apparently it's "creepy" and "not what normal men do"

Surely that's a compliment

I have been known to leave people we have added as friends on the hotlist so it shows up on the updates when they have been checking us out

We use ninja mode because like others have already said we got lots of messages about us liking what we saw.....

If I did like it, I would have dropped you a fab or a wink at the very least mate

K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I can perv and watch from afar

And not get hit with a restauraing oder for stalking

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