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By *enuineplayers plus 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

Why do people on your friends list who you send messages too read them and not reply. Find it rude and ignorant.

People we've met swinging and vanilla. If they don't want to be friends then why not just say and remove us. Not hard

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Why do people on your friends list who you send messages too read them and not reply. Find it rude and ignorant.

People we've met swinging and vanilla. If they don't want to be friends then why not just say and remove us. Not hard"
There can be various reasons, i wouldnt worry about it remove from friends list n block xx

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

Yes... Block - that's really friendly

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just remove them from your friends list and don't worry about it.

Life's too short. There are far too many things to frazzle your grey cells without being concerned about that, I'm sure.

Happy Monday

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Yes... Block - that's really friendly "
Tis the season to be jolly

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just remove them from your friends list and don't worry about it.

Life's too short. There are far too many things to frazzle your grey cells without being concerned about that, I'm sure.

Happy Monday "
24 hour party people was a fave track of mine

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Predictable maybe but for me it has to be Step On.

Did you know they're playing in London and Manchester this month?

Also, have you ever seen Bez and John Bishop in the same room at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they were busy at the time, ir something came up snd were able to reply, just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I do this I admit. The reason I do this is b ecause at the time of receiving a message, I just can't be bothered to get into a conversation. I'm eager to read the forums or maybe browse a few profiles, but I'm not in the mood for chat. So I don't and leave the message unanswered.

Maybe it is a little rude but I'm not here to jump through hoops for others and do what they want me to do. If anyone is offended by my not jumping to reply immediately then take me off their friends list and block me. People are entitled to do what they want to do also.

So if people don't jump to attention and reply when you expect it then just remove them from your list.

And I did read your profile and posting statuses about who you've removed in the hope they will see it, is a tad immature. Its unlikely to scare or b other them is it, if they've ignored your messages previously

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

I would be buzzing for a week just to get a reply or on a friends list so don't understand why they would do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should the onus be on them removing you, why can't you remove them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can't see the point of being friends with someone if there's no communication between you. I wouldn't expect an answer immediately from someone on our friends list but of a week went by we'd assume they didn't want any contact and remove them. Nsa means exactly that and both our "friends" & ourselves are free to stop communication at any time without explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people on your friends list who you send messages too read them and not reply. Find it rude and ignorant.

People we've met swinging and vanilla. If they don't want to be friends then why not just say and remove us. Not hardThere can be various reasons, i wouldnt worry about it remove from friends list n block xx"

agree with this

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By *enuineplayers plus 1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

newport

Thank you all. We never really want to offend anyone but your all, well most of you. One couple deleted and blocked the other just deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your friends list real - and short !

That's usually a good start

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I can't see the point of being friends with someone if there's no communication between you. I wouldn't expect an answer immediately from someone on our friends list but of a week went by we'd assume they didn't want any contact and remove them. Nsa means exactly that and both our "friends" & ourselves are free to stop communication at any time without

explanation."

And those who are friends can chat a much or as little as they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I do this I admit. The reason I do this is b ecause at the time of receiving a message, I just can't be bothered to get into a conversation. I'm eager to read the forums or maybe browse a few profiles, but I'm not in the mood for chat. So I don't and leave the message unanswered.

Maybe it is a little rude but I'm not here to jump through hoops for others and do what they want me to do. If anyone is offended by my not jumping to reply immediately then take me off their friends list and block me. People are entitled to do what they want to do also.

So if people don't jump to attention and reply when you expect it then just remove them from your list.

And I did read your profile and posting statuses about who you've removed in the hope they will see it, is a tad immature. Its unlikely to scare or b other them is it, if they've ignored your messages previously "

This!!

Don't lose sleep over it!

People have lives other than Fab.

Well - until I win the lottery anyway!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the use of word 'friends' is overly used in my opinion... it is more often than not just a click of an icon.

never take it to heart...

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