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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i would'nt put my lippy on for £20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ok i dont wear lippy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I haven't but I don't think it is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people are unfortunate and need want or have to pay for things like that.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"some people are unfortunate and need want or have to pay for things like that."

Not sure it is unfortunate... More choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As most people on here know anyway, i work in sex clubs, i dont and wouldnt do escort work 1 on 1 as i just dont feel its safe but im happy to work in a club environment as its a safe place to work, or at least any i have worked have been anyway

i do have a 'proper job' but i do this basically because i love sex and i like the extra money it brings into my house, so if i can make extra money by shagging, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As most people on here know anyway, i work in sex clubs, i dont and wouldnt do escort work 1 on 1 as i just dont feel its safe but im happy to work in a club environment as its a safe place to work, or at least any i have worked have been anyway

i do have a 'proper job' but i do this basically because i love sex and i like the extra money it brings into my house, so if i can make extra money by shagging, why not?

"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does that make me unfortunate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i said some people not everyone lol

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

if i dont find a job soon ill be doing it lol got get some wages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the whole association with pimps, drugs and crime give the paying for sex a bad name.

I have accepted money and it has gone towards treating my son on a day out!

As long as u stay safe, why not XD

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I charged somebody once about 5 yrs ago.my daughter was a single parent but also worked full time. Her car broke down she couldn't afford to get it fixed. The guy I knew used to always offer to pay so I said yes. Then had my daughters car repaired. Right or wrong I'm glad I could help my daughter

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I charge all the time..... Not cash though I ask for payment in kisses

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

so wats the going price to charge for a BJ then then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it's every individual's personal decision, and that they shouldn't come under criticism for their choices.

I wouldn't, but that's due to my own personal feelings, and I'm not going to impose those feelings onto others.

What does disturb me is the awesome - (quite indecent!) - amount that I've been offered for sex in the past. I've always refused and have broken contact with the guy who offered, but It is very hard to refuse if you're at a difficult period in your life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a differance between being paid cash for sex and offering sex as a way of paying for something so no money changes hands ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Is there a differance between being paid cash for sex and offering sex as a way of paying for something so no money changes hands ? "

Yeah, one is a financial transaction and the other is barter. It's all payment but different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a differance between being paid cash for sex and offering sex as a way of paying for something so no money changes hands ?

Yeah, one is a financial transaction and the other is barter. It's all payment but different. "

Ok....but how does that stand with the law?

If you paid for sex is that seen as the same as say if you fixed their washer or did their garden and received sex as payment ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Depends if it was with a policeman or barrister....

I don't think the law are too interested in fixing a washing machine in exchange for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a differance between being paid cash for sex and offering sex as a way of paying for something so no money changes hands ?

Yeah, one is a financial transaction and the other is barter. It's all payment but different.

Ok....but how does that stand with the law?

If you paid for sex is that seen as the same as say if you fixed their washer or did their garden and received sex as payment ? "

If you are paid cash for services rendered you are liable to pay tax on it if you have already earned over the lower threshold for tax liability.

If it is an exchange of services, ie, sex for repair of something etc, then that is a private bargain struck between two parties (or more if that's what floats yer boat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not judging anyone who has charged for sex, but I wouldnt do it and for me I believe its wrong.

I accept that some people feel its a way of making money but even though Im a swinger and meet strangers for sex, it is a very different mindset for being paid to do it.

I am fortunate enough to have a career which pays for everything I need. But if I was short of money, then I would look for other work and nothing to do wtih sex.

I really would feel that I had sold out everything if I had to give up my body in exchange for money. I would feel ashamed looking at items in my house knowing thats how I paid for it.

I accept for some people they enjoy this and have no problem in being paid and I also accept that some people feel its an easy way to make money.

I personally think mentally its a very high price to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being paid for sex might at first seem exciting but after a few months of various strangers using one's body with no thought for the person inside it would desensitise sex somewhat. A lot of people fantasise about being paid to have sex and that's ok as a one-off if it's satisfying a desire (and it's something I fantasise about myself) but I wouldn't want to do it regularly or as a living, but I'm not condemning or critising those who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does that make me unfortunate?"

On the contrary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i knew i would get regulars i would do it fulltime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best blow jobs are from someone who wants too suck the boaby , paying for 1 surely means its a ritual and must lack interest in sucking the boaby lol , having had a few Bjs lol there are a few I could say phwooaarr I'd pay for that again, but I'm sure if did there would be a difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than job satisfaction good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best blow jobs are from someone who wants too suck the boaby , paying for 1 surely means its a ritual and must lack interest in sucking the boaby lol , having had a few Bjs lol there are a few I could say phwooaarr I'd pay for that again, but I'm sure if did there would be a difference. "

I love sucking cock and do it no differently if it's for money or free. I just happen to enjoy it enough that I decided to make money from it too. I think it makes no difference.

But then it's obvious I enjoy it. If it became a chore I certainly wouldn't do it either for money or free.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best blow jobs are from someone who wants too suck the boaby , paying for 1 surely means its a ritual and must lack interest in sucking the boaby lol , having had a few Bjs lol there are a few I could say phwooaarr I'd pay for that again, but I'm sure if did there would be a difference.

I love sucking cock and do it no differently if it's for money or free. I just happen to enjoy it enough that I decided to make money from it too. I think it makes no difference.

But then it's obvious I enjoy it. If it became a chore I certainly wouldn't do it either for money or free.

Cali"

Yeah ok

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've found a 50p down the side of a sofa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I love sucking cock and do it no differently if it's for money or free. I just happen to enjoy it enough that I decided to make money from it too. I think it makes no difference.

But then it's obvious I enjoy it. If it became a chore I certainly wouldn't do it either for money or free.

Cali

Yeah ok "

Not really sure on what that's meant to imply but the fact is I do it because I totally love it. The money occasionally is just an extra. But like others on this thread is something I do as just some extra income as I have my normal job.

I just love it and really wouldn't do it any different way just because I was getting some money. I do it because I enjoy it.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I love sucking cock and do it no differently if it's for money or free. I just happen to enjoy it enough that I decided to make money from it too. I think it makes no difference.

But then it's obvious I enjoy it. If it became a chore I certainly wouldn't do it either for money or free.

Cali

Yeah ok

Not really sure on what that's meant to imply but the fact is I do it because I totally love it. The money occasionally is just an extra. But like others on this thread is something I do as just some extra income as I have my normal job.

I just love it and really wouldn't do it any different way just because I was getting some money. I do it because I enjoy it.

Cali"

No implication implied , merely do not agree with your definitions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol well I honestly do it for me really. Lol although worshiping cock is what I do love to do. Regardless lol

And as I said if I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't do it for free or for money. As to me it's only a good bj if the woman enjoys giving a bj

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol well I honestly do it for me really. Lol although worshiping cock is what I do love to do. Regardless lol

And as I said if I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't do it for free or for money. As to me it's only a good bj if the woman enjoys giving a bj

Cali"

Lol , Good or bad a guy will take a free blow job anytime ,,, now paying for it , we'll if its not good , he won't be paying again, so yip got to be a difference

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